Would you describe them more as:
- tightening around your whole abdomen
- being hit in the back with a sledgehammer
- cramps you get with really bad diarhea
- menstrual cramps times 1,000
AND...
Did your BH ctx feel way different than the "real thing"?
Re: What did your contractions feel like?
I never felt BH - I just felt my belly tighten up and get hard - like you describe the tightening of the whole abdomen.
Real contractions started out like bad diarhea cramps and I only felt them down low on the front and kind of splitting through my body to the back. My MIL told me that if they were real I would feel them like a wave from the top of my belly so I was convinced I was just having cramps from the insertion of the foley catheter (which can cause cramping) and not real contractions.
As they got worse at the hospital they still stayed low on my belly even though the contraction monitor was up high and definitely registering contractions. Those contractions I can't even describe the pain, mostly because I have forgotten it but I can't forget clinging to the side of the bed just hoping the next person through the door was my anesthesiologist. But I was on pitocin which probably them bad very fast and I went from 4cm to 9cm in about 1.5 hours on the lowest dose of pitocin - most people have a much more gradual onset of labor.
My BH contractions felt like my whole belly tightening but their was no pain. My real contractions felt like the tightening as well with bad menstrual cramps.
BH definitely felt different than the real thing. When the real ones started I literally said "OH THAT'S A CONTRACTION"
Uh, can I say "all of the above" ? LOL Really, for me it felt like all of that at once. I had pre-term contractions that were only mildly painful at worst (and often not painful, but felt like an intense hardening and tightening of the uterus). (They were considered pre-term cxn and not BH because I had them so often and were sometimes mildly painful.)
I joked afterwards that "labor" should be call "torture", but I was serious. FWIW, I had spiking, pitocin-like contractions (but never recieved pitocin). I'm sure everyone is different.
Trust me when I say that you''l know when it's real contractions. I was on bed rest with pre-term contractions for 3 weeks and once my water broke and the the "real" contractions started, I immediately noticed a difference. They were much more intense and I could tell they were getting more painful with each one as opposed to be more random and not evenly spaced.
For me, BH just made me short of breath, but I didn't feel any pain.
Real contractions felt like a blowtorch was 1 inch from my lower back incinerating me, and the severe burning pain came in waves building to mind-blowing peaks. This was coupled with an upset stomach. FYI, this was hard-core back labor and within 30 minutes of getting to the hospital I was already 8cm. My point is that I think I progressed really quickly so perhaps the pain was more condensed/intense than other non-back labor... ?
BH ws just some mild tightening; the real thing - I wasn't even sure it was real, it was just really bad cramps. and yes, I pooped 5 times in about 2.5 hrs