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Lottie24Lottie24 member
in July 2013 Moms
I am a person. I have feelings, too. You're right, I have not been on in a while. But I'm getting started back at work. I have a 3 month old. But I came on and asked how everyone was doing. And to the person that said "Mother Fucker, you stole my thunder!" I would like you to know, I am not here for attention. Why am I asking how you all are, if I want the attention. I did say things happening in my life. But I wanted to hear about yours too. Well. Enjoy being a mom.
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  • Lottie24Lottie24 member
    I'm sorry. In no way do I try to be self centered.
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  • Lottie24Lottie24 member
    I asked how you were, because I truthfully wanted to know. I love seeing pictures of other babies. I'm a new mom. I'm in my very early twenties. I don't always have the best family. So sometimes I tend to come here and tell you all and share pictures of my daughter. Because I have no one else to share with. I'm sorry if you think I'm self centered. I in no way intend to be.
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  • flkongflkong member
    littlelegslo said:
    Lottie, I don't think anyone is trying to be rude to you I think that they're trying to tell you that you can't just pop in to share your "stuff" and not stay to contribute. It's like being that friend that only calls when they want to talk about their troubles, its just not cool. I am in my very early twenties are as other ladies here. Some of us work, go to school, and have no help either, but were still here making an effort. You can't just show up and share your story and expect us all to lol and omg with you. It doesn't work that way. If you have to time to share your story on here you have time to listen to someone else's.
    This sums it up perfectly. I agree with ncchnat that you have an opportunity to be a better member on your new bmb. 
                                   






     
                                 
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    Omgee.
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  • EagleWifeEagleWife member
    Lottie24 said:

    I am a person. I have feelings, too. You're right, I have not been on in a while. But I'm getting started back at work. I have a 3 month old. But I came on and asked how everyone was doing. And to the person that said "Mo**** Fu****, you stole my thunder!" I would like you to know, I am not here for attention. Why am I asking how you all are, if I want the attention. I did say things happening in my life. But I wanted to hear about yours too. Well. Enjoy being a mom.

    Lottie24 said:

    I asked how you were, because I truthfully wanted to know. I love seeing pictures of other babies. I'm a new mom. I'm in my very early twenties. I don't always have the best family. So sometimes I tend to come here and tell you all and share pictures of my daughter. Because I have no one else to share with. I'm sorry if you think I'm self centered. I in no way intend to be.

    Just because.

    And the "I don't always have the best family" line is interesting. Are they only nice on Tuesdays? They are the best on Fridays?

    Most of the folks here have family complaints. It's really not an excuse to drive by or a reason to participate. Just sayin'.

    And I'm loving being a mom. It's a life long dream come true. Thanks for asking. ;) Oh wait, you didn't.
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  • Liz4444Liz4444 member
    What did I miss? Link me up.
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  • Stina2012Stina2012 member
    Guys, I'm a sucker I feel bad for her. Your DD is beautiful! But please try to take the constructive criticism here as you interact with your next BMB. And don't let strangers on the Internet hurt your feelings. Brush yourself off and try again with your new BMB. Strong Mamas raise Strong Babies. I don't want your feelings to be hurt and have you be sad and have that affect your beautiful DD!
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  • Liz4444Liz4444 member
    ncchnat said:


    Liz4444 said:

    What did I miss? Link me up.

    Chicky here pretty much only starts her own threads to AW her life and most of the time, doesn't even come back to thread to reply to those who were a part of it. She has been called out on it several times, but I guess because no one squee-ed over her new pregnancy, she felt the need to whine about how busy she is. Apparently, she's the only busy one. The rest of us just sit on our asses all day and do jackshit which is why we have time to bump and get to know and care for each other.

    She's a taker and she doesn't like that everyone here is tired of her using us.

    Latest thread (though you can click on her profile and see more.)


    Ah, one of those... Although, I probably shouldn't talk, I've been a shitty J13'r recently.

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  • Lottie24Lottie24 member
    I did ask. In my last thread.
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  • heyhayleeheyhaylee member
    Asbromle said:

    Can I just add... Sweet Jesus I can't imagine being pregnant right now. Who has time for all the middle of the night feedings and peeings (for the mamma) at this point?

    And how the heck did you have time to have sex AND find out you were pregnant already! I can't find the time or energy for that!
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  • Hilaboo86Hilaboo86 member
    Stina2012 said:

    Guys, I'm a sucker I feel bad for her. Your DD is beautiful! But please try to take the constructive criticism here as you interact with your next BMB. And don't let strangers on the Internet hurt your feelings. Brush yourself off and try again with your new BMB. Strong Mamas raise Strong Babies. I don't want your feelings to be hurt and have you be sad and have that affect your beautiful DD!



    This sums up my opinion. Take a second each day to participate. It's hard, we all somehow find a way to do it. Congrats on your new pregnancy and your dd.
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  • giraffeluvspigiraffeluvspi member
    Oh July 2013, you'll always be in my heart. :x Still making people cry.

    I'm amused that she only chose to single out ChunkyMonkeys post from the previous thread 'cause that was the meanest one. *rolls eyes*

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  • valstulasvalstulas member
    Liz4444 said:

    ncchnat said:


    Liz4444 said:

    What did I miss? Link me up.

    Chicky here pretty much only starts her own threads to AW her life and most of the time, doesn't even come back to thread to reply to those who were a part of it. She has been called out on it several times, but I guess because no one squee-ed over her new pregnancy, she felt the need to whine about how busy she is. Apparently, she's the only busy one. The rest of us just sit on our asses all day and do jackshit which is why we have time to bump and get to know and care for each other.

    She's a taker and she doesn't like that everyone here is tired of her using us.

    Latest thread (though you can click on her profile and see more.)

    Ah, one of those... Although, I probably shouldn't talk, I've been a shitty J13'r recently.



    NBD, you're grandfathered in. Also, we wouldn't want to shoo you and all your witty comebacks away.


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