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Horny much?

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in October 2013 Moms
I realized what I miss while being pregnant. Good sex!
I want sex a lot lately but when I finally get the energy to do something about it, I end up remembering why I'm not doing it often. It's so difficult and awkward right now! Mouth breathing is not sexy! I want sexy sex, not 3rd trimester sex!
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  • SuperSecretStatusSuperSecretStatus member
    I'd take non-sexy sex at this point. I try to remind myself that I have gone way longer than this without it, but it's a great stress reliever and I'm stressed to high hell right now.
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  • JLW0504JLW0504 member
    I just want sex. My DH is still creeped out by it. Last time for me was around 15 weeks and it wasn't that good:(
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  • BrittanyCupcakesBrittanyCupcakes member
    I don't have the energy for it anymore. BF tries to wake me up in the middle of the night and I ignore him. I feel guilty about it, but seriously, sleep doesn't come easy these days, and sleep > sex right now. 
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  • alfan004alfan004 member
    Meh....
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  • BrittanyCupcakesBrittanyCupcakes member
    sleepy33 said:
    Frankly, I might as well not even have a clitoris anymore. I feel a complete lack of sex drive, and all I get is BH if I have an O for the last few months. My lady parts are like, FFS, we're busy doing other things right now.
    swollen vag, BH and baby kicking the whole time =/= sexy. 
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  • asilwhiteasilwhite member
    sleepy33 said:
    Frankly, I might as well not even have a clitoris anymore. I feel a complete lack of sex drive, and all I get is BH if I have an O for the last few months. My lady parts are like, FFS, we're busy doing other things right now.
    Yep, MH is SUPER excited about it too. Man has he been complaining a lot about it lately and I'm proud to say I could care less at this point. Maybe I'll throw him a bone or 2 before the baby comes, but yeah, not feeling it at all. 
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  • HFrizzleHFrizzle member
    Mine is lucky if he gets it twice a month. It's looks good on paper, but when comes down to actually doing it, I'm wiped out! I either hurt, can't get comfy to enjoy myself or he takes too damn long and I'm over it.

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  • jarebearsmomjarebearsmom member
    I have to have morning sex. By the end of the day I'm wore out and hurting too bad
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  • Staceylynn602Staceylynn602 member
    JLW0504 said:

    I just want sex. My DH is still creeped out by it. Last time for me was around 15 weeks and it wasn't that good:(

    Exactly the same here!
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  • CherryHollyCherryHolly member
    I have had no desire this entire pregnancy and none right now while I am tired and uncomfortable.  I feel bad because my hubby is a whiny baby about it right now, but I just really don't want to!
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  • MrsStuessyWIMrsStuessyWI member
    asilwhite said:
    Yep, MH is SUPER excited about it too. Man has he been complaining a lot about it lately and I'm proud to say I could care less at this point. Maybe I'll throw him a bone or 2 before the baby comes, but yeah, not feeling it at all. 
    haha... throw him a bone. DH and I have actually been having some decent sex for the first time since I was about 7 weeks. Don't mean to rub it in anyone's face, but it is nice to finally enjoy it without being in pain. Still awkward at moments, but for the mot part enjoyable. 
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  • amber0529amber0529 member
    My sex drive came back around the end of the 2nd tri but sometimes I start cramping and have to stop. And if my bf starts thinking about the baby he'll take forever cause he gets nervous and then I just get too tired to keep going. Quickies are the best option at this point.
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  • Amcdonnel1028Amcdonnel1028 member
    JLW0504 said:

    I just want sex. My DH is still creeped out by it. Last time for me was around 15 weeks and it wasn't that good:(

    Same for me. My husband is doesn't want to "hurt" the baby, even though I tell him over and over that he won't. I've given up..
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  • CMireles2CMireles2 member
    We've maybe had sexy time 2 times this entire pregnancy... I just have NO drive or energy, luckily my husband is really understanding. I still feel bad though  :(

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  • chelseyestellechelseyestelle member
    My husband and I are still going about once a week.. But last night I had a dream and we were acting like super horny teenagers and dry humping each other everywhere we were. The middle of kohl's, at the park, in front of family... So funny!


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  • ncase2ncase2 member
    Sex? What is that? 
    But seriously, the only action I've been getting is in my awesome pregnancy sex dreams - which is oddly enough, fulfilling my overactive sex drive for the moment. Maybe we'll squeeze something in before LO arrives, but the odds are not in our favor at the moment.

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  • ksimo6ksimo6 member
    Yeah we're averaging about six times a month still. I am usually the one that wants/ needs it more than he does. It's getting harder because there are like two positions we can actually be successful in. It will be nice to do it again without the belly in the way. And whoever was talking about the sex dreams.... I hear you. Very vivid!! Wow.
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  • ohkayohkay member
    I've been blessed to still want sex and feel semi sexy. The tatas definitely help. Grant it, the sex is not mind blowing. Positions are limited with a big belly and coordination being slightly off, but the job still gets done. I'll just be happy when the six weeks postpartum is up and we can get back to our daily sack sessions. Right now we are down to 3 or 4 a week... Which is fine, but not as much as I would like.
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    jarebearsmom said:
    I have to have morning sex. By the end of the day I'm wore out and hurting too bad
    Yes. If it happens at all it's morning or nothing. I just feel huge and there are NO comfortable positions....

                                                

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  • Gatorsgirl731Gatorsgirl731 member
    I am so sorry ladies.  It's often and it's awesome.



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  • jnsmith85jnsmith85 member
    Ugh!!! I want it but DH is all "what if he starts moving around and I can see him?"

    So of course my response was to tell him to go from behind that way he couldn't see my belly....

    yeah the dude can hardly get it up he's so freaked out. :(
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  • smjmlovesmjmlove member
    Omg the guys who are freaked out you need to tell them that during arousal the vaginal canal actually lengthens so his penis is not going to come close to the cervix
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  • lolob45lolob45 member
    I'm insanely horny and have been on bed rest/pelvic rest since 24 wks... my hubby realized the other day it's been almost 6mo since we last had sex b/c I was on pelvic rest the majority of the 1st & 2nd tri.... when my hubby complains I flip on him, I haven't even been touched in 6 mo, he's at least had the occasional bj. 
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    Brandontricia said:
    Aside from my national geographic ginormous boobs, and the lack of positions I am still in the game
    Yep, all this.  Still at least twice a week, probably more like 3 or 4 times on average.  My nipples belong on the discovery channel, but he seems to like them.  Ha.  

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  • Life is ExcitingLife is Exciting member
    I want sex much more often than usual now, but DH is creeped out by it and it's way too uncomfortable to have sex now. 
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  • ejh090305ejh090305 member
    Horny not so much.....
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  • hlb622hlb622 member
    My husband wants it all the time, but I'm so exhausted, out of breath, and uncomfortable, it makes it pretty unappealing. Plus, I feel like I look like this, which doesn't help.
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  • AyrekaAyreka member
    Pelvic rest sucks :(

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  • TashnBabiiTashnBabii member
    I used to want sex in the beginning of my pregnancy, well into my second trimester, but that's changed. At this point, sex is the last thing I think about. My belly's taken over my life! I get constant backaches because I thought it would be wise to lift up my yellow lab puppy (bad idea)! I'm always hot and sweaty, and not in a good way! Lastly, I'm sooo gassy! None of these symptoms make me feel sexy! I have 3-5 weeks left until baby arrives, so I think I can wait a total of 11 weeks to begin sexy-time again! Husband's still getting some though... poor guy has to; I'd feel bad  if he didn't! hehe
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