How silent are you when baby is sleeping during the day and at night?
I am so paranoid of my daughter waking that I make my husband and I literally tip toe around the house during the day and at night we pretty much stick to our room instead of hanging out downstairs or whatever in fear of her being woken up.
I fear that I am my own worst enemy on this matter because I am conditioning her to sleep through silence.
Are any of you like this? Should I stop and let her become use to our noises and if she wakes deal with it if and when it arises?
STM do they start to become deeper sleepers as they get older?
When we go on vaca we are bound to our beds because if we walk around in the same room as her once she is asleep she wakes up. Then we have to wait for her to wake up.
What do I do???? Lighten up? How do your kids sleep?
Me: 30 | DH:34
Married: 08/04/12
DD: 6 years | Born: 03/28/13
DS: 1 Year I Born 10/15/17
Re: Noise while baby is sleeping
I don't flush the toilet after 7:30, that bathroom shares a wall with dd's crib. Not worth the risk.
I have never had the household remain quiet for the baby. Ds2 has slept through my kids yelling at each other, the cats chasing each other and running over him, the cat breaking a glass vase in our room and the subsequent clean up at 1am. But ds2 wont stay asleep if I leave the nightlight on in his room. Go figure.
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She sleeps through anything, except my husband sneezing and he has the habit of being right outside her bedroom door when he sneezes...but she goes right back to sleep.
She's slept through my setting the house alarm off (very loud, twice) the smoke alarm (stupid broil on oven, many times) and everything else. We've never tip toed around, we will be a tad bit quiet in the few minutes when she is about to fall asleep but once she's out she will sleep through anything.
When out and about she sleeps really good for the first 40min then she will wake if too much is going on...but that is more to do with wanting to be part of and see everything.
We were of the mindset better to train her to deal with life noises now then for us to be prisoners in our home till they are teenagers. So far it is working.
Oh, the other day we were at the sailing club and on the balcony right above us they set off the starting gun for a race. She had just fallen asleep in the baby carrier it sent me leaping in fear and she FREAKED. I was so glad she was strapped to my chest so I could calm her faster...we up and ditched my husband and left the area...got just far enough away that when they started setting off the gun every 2-3minutes she passed out and didn't notice anymore. I'm all for training her to sleep through anything...but I don't expect her to ignore starter pistols over our heads!
I'd say try it out, but I think that some babies/people have an innate preference.
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