FFCF!

KMW08 · August 2013

Flame Free Confession Friday!

Let's hear it ladies!

ETA: I'm a moron, it's really FFFC, typing in a hurry...see where it gets ya! Also I could edit the title, but I'm leaving my moronicness on display!

SandSunBliss · August 2013

I am a thief. I stole a tampon out of someone's bin in the bathroom this week... :-S

Poppy715 · August 2013

SandSunBliss said:
I am a thief. I stole a tampon out of someone's bin in the bathroom this week... :-S

Me too. In college I used to steal toilet paper from the school bathrooms. It was a really expensive private school so I figured they could cover it.

jbasore1123 · August 2013

I hate veggies.... And cheesecake

LaRomana09 · August 2013

Poppy715 said:

I am a thief. I stole a tampon out of someone's bin in the bathroom this week... :-S
Me too. In college I used to steal toilet paper from the school bathrooms. It was a really expensive private school so I figured they could cover it.

Along these lines, my 2 roommates and I all peed a lot and had a debate over who peed the most and therefore used all the TP, so for a week we kept a tally every time we used our apartment bathroom. At the end, 2 of us confessed to going out of our way to pee in other places before we came home so as to keep our numbers lower. $:\$ ">

laciou05 · August 2013

I am a teacher and prayed all summer to not get a certain student... And it worked

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gscoville · August 2013

I don't like seafood or mushrooms, because of the texture mostly although taste with seafood is huge too, but when I order something in a restaurant that normally has either of these in it and I ask for them not to be in the food, I say that I'm very allergic to make sure they're careful and none of it touches my food.

gscoville · August 2013

Ok, I have a doozy based on the news story I just saw. There's a huge surge in measles and whooping cough cases here in BC, because so many people in recent years have stopped immunizing their children. There are newborn babies in maternity wards coming down with serious cases of these diseases and some may not make it, it's so absolutely horrible and just makes me want to cry. My FFFC is that not only do I question the intelligence and seriously look down on anyone who doesn't vaccinate (they're endangering others and it's completely reckless), I think the government should make vaccinations mandatory for all. No woman should have to fear for her baby's health and life because of someone else's poor choice.

Poppy715 · August 2013

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.

I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Poppy715 · August 2013

snegde said:

Poppy715 said:

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.
I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Your confessions are so far from one another on the spectrum... I think I am a little judgey about boob jobs. I also think I know more people who have gotten reductions than enhancements.

As for your BIL. I am guessing he is male, which means there is a good chance he has no fucking clue how to respond. But I agree that it doesn't make it alright. I think I would have a hard time letting it go too. Depending on your comfort level and closeness, I might be tempted to say something like, "I'm really disappointed in your failure to acknowledge the loss of Addison."

They really are worlds apart! My sister didn't have the money to get her tatas engorged. I was also afraid she would be the cleavage queen. She was for about 3 months and now it just looks like she has a nice rack. I'm ok with it and she can spend her money how she likes.

@snegde, you are right my brother-in-law is male! BIL is not a feelings person what-so-ever. He probably doesn't know what to say. But I still feel like he should have made an effort. Or just said I'm so sorry when he saw me the next time. That would have been enough and I would have known what he was referring to.

I was also ticked at my MIL (who I adore) because she took him to the cemetery without saying anything to me. I felt like it was mine or DH's job to take him there for the first time. I later found out DH didn't want to take him and she did ask, just not me. I felt like a real asshat.

E&B0811 · August 2013

I think my job is painfully boring but I pretend to be engaged by it because I think it makes me sound smart and I like the $$ and "prestige" that comes along with working in a large law firm. I sound like an asshole.

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SandSunBliss · August 2013

I have more... O:-)

I also used someone's salad dressing two weeks ago.

I bump at work.

OK I feel better now.

E&B0811 · August 2013

gscoville said:
I think the government should make vaccinations mandatory for all. No woman should have to fear for her baby's health and life because of someone else's poor choice.

I agree. I have very little trouble with government intervention and whatnot and, to take it one step further, I think that people are all worked up for nothing about the whole NSA phone tapping deal. If you have nothing nefarious to hide, they are probably not listening to you anyhow.

LaRomana09 · August 2013

I get way too excited when people "love" something I post. :x

SandSunBliss · August 2013

LaRomana09 said:

I get way too excited when people "love" something I post. :x

I do this too... I just got a new badge for love-its, and I can't deny that I was really excited about it and have been eyeing it for a few days now.

Poppy715 · August 2013

LaRomana09 said:

I get way too excited when people "love" something I post. :x

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SandSunBliss · August 2013

snegde said:

SandSunBliss said:

I have more... O:-)
I also used someone's salad dressing two weeks ago.
I bump at work and I shouldn't. I probably wouldn't if I felt like I was getting paid what I am worth(but that talk is next week).
OK I feel better now.

Don't tell @serenla! She'll get you.

@snegde, you totally just snitched on me! hahaha. ;-) @serenla, It was just one time... At least I didn't have the whole bottle!

blackbird818 · August 2013

I don't like my MIL and she definitely doesn't like me. We got along great before DH & I got engaged but during the wedding planning process things went downhill and have continued to get worse.

I don't want to list out all the things that have gone on. To sum it up she's very much about making everything about her & it has to be on her terms. DH is her only child & she's not married so I think she has an issue with not being #1 in his life anymore.

I haven't seen or spoken to her since Xmas. And she only lives 1.5 hours away. She has cancelled dinner plans on us 3 times. IDK if she even knows we had a m/c if she does she has never said anything about it to me.

ksyknelvr73 · August 2013

SandSunBliss said:

I have more... O:-)

I also used someone's salad dressing two weeks ago.

I bump at work.

OK I feel better now.

How dare you bump at work *****said while bumping at work*****

LaRomana09 · August 2013

mattsgirl2004 said:

snegde said:

Poppy715 said:

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.
I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Your confessions are so far from one another on the spectrum... I think I am a little judgey about boob jobs. I also think I know more people who have gotten reductions than enhancements.

As for your BIL. I am guessing he is male, which means there is a good chance he has no fucking clue how to respond. But I agree that it doesn't make it alright. I think I would have a hard time letting it go too. Depending on your comfort level and closeness, I might be tempted to say something like, "I'm really disappointed in your failure to acknowledge the loss of Addison."

I must confess that you all would judge me hardcore too as I have always dreamed of getting a boob job and when we're done ttc, I plan on getting one. Not some huge triple E's or anything. I would love to be able to wear a women's size top or dress that I actually fit into without having to wear a very uncomfortable push-up bra (you know, the kind of push-up bra that has 2-3 inches of padding). My true size is a 34A (before I gained this weight, I was an AA). I'm very self-conscious about my boob size and have never felt like a real women because they are so tiny. Seriously, when I wear a sports bra I look like a 12 year old boy. I would love to just be a large B or small C to make my body more proportioned (because I have a big booty, lol!).

I would get a boob job if I wasn't so cheap. But when it comes down to it, I'd rather take a vacation or put in a new patio or something. I have a big booty and small boobs, too!

Poppy715 · August 2013

mattsgirl2004 said:
I must confess that you all would judge me hardcore too as I have always dreamed of getting a boob job and when we're done ttc, I plan on getting one. Not some huge triple E's or anything. I would love to be able to wear a women's size top or dress that I actually fit into without having to wear a very uncomfortable push-up bra (you know, the kind of push-up bra that has 2-3 inches of padding). My true size is a 34A (before I gained this weight, I was an AA). I'm very self-conscious about my boob size and have never felt like a real women because they are so tiny. Seriously, when I wear a sports bra I look like a 12 year old boy. I would love to just be a large B or small C to make my body more proportioned (because I have a big booty, lol!).

But, wouldn't you be able to afford it? She couldn't that was my major side-eye issue. She would always say how broke they are but then gets a boob job randomly. I had never heard her talking about getting one done and then next thing I knew she had the surgery scheduled. I'm happy she did it if she's happy. I just didn't want her to be one of those young girls flashing her new tits to the world.

blackbird818 · August 2013

LaRomana09 said:

mattsgirl2004 said:

snegde said:

Poppy715 said:

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.
I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Your confessions are so far from one another on the spectrum... I think I am a little judgey about boob jobs. I also think I know more people who have gotten reductions than enhancements.

As for your BIL. I am guessing he is male, which means there is a good chance he has no fucking clue how to respond. But I agree that it doesn't make it alright. I think I would have a hard time letting it go too. Depending on your comfort level and closeness, I might be tempted to say something like, "I'm really disappointed in your failure to acknowledge the loss of Addison."

I must confess that you all would judge me hardcore too as I have always dreamed of getting a boob job and when we're done ttc, I plan on getting one. Not some huge triple E's or anything. I would love to be able to wear a women's size top or dress that I actually fit into without having to wear a very uncomfortable push-up bra (you know, the kind of push-up bra that has 2-3 inches of padding). My true size is a 34A (before I gained this weight, I was an AA). I'm very self-conscious about my boob size and have never felt like a real women because they are so tiny. Seriously, when I wear a sports bra I look like a 12 year old boy. I would love to just be a large B or small C to make my body more proportioned (because I have a big booty, lol!).

I would get a boob job if I wasn't so cheap. But when it comes down to it, I'd rather take a vacation or put in a new patio or something. I have a big booty and small boobs, too!

I love my boob job. It'll b 4 years in December. I actually got a second job at a bar on top of a full time job to pay for it. Love my boobies and never became one of 'those women'. Most people think mine are real until I tell them. They're proportinate to my body & tasteful. Worth every penny! DH agrees especially since he didn't have to pay for them & just gets to enjoy them lol

MrsWallick · August 2013

mattsgirl2004 said:

snegde said:

Poppy715 said:

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.
I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Your confessions are so far from one another on the spectrum... I think I am a little judgey about boob jobs. I also think I know more people who have gotten reductions than enhancements.

As for your BIL. I am guessing he is male, which means there is a good chance he has no fucking clue how to respond. But I agree that it doesn't make it alright. I think I would have a hard time letting it go too. Depending on your comfort level and closeness, I might be tempted to say something like, "I'm really disappointed in your failure to acknowledge the loss of Addison."

I must confess that you all would judge me hardcore too as I have always dreamed of getting a boob job and when we're done ttc, I plan on getting one. Not some huge triple E's or anything. I would love to be able to wear a women's size top or dress that I actually fit into without having to wear a very uncomfortable push-up bra (you know, the kind of push-up bra that has 2-3 inches of padding). My true size is a 34A (before I gained this weight, I was an AA). I'm very self-conscious about my boob size and have never felt like a real women because they are so tiny. Seriously, when I wear a sports bra I look like a 12 year old boy. I would love to just be a large B or small C to make my body more proportioned (because I have a big booty, lol!).

I got my boobs done last September. I was a 32A before (seriously like 2 mosquito bites on my chest) and was constantly wearing push up bras with spaghetti strap shirts to try to get some cleavage. My stepdad is the CEO of a surgery center and my mom manages several offices in the center including a plastic surgeon so I only had to pay for the implants themselves and nothing else. Now, I'm a 34C and I have actually become more conservative because I don't need them sticking out for you to be able to see them, I know they are there and trust me, they are fabulous, ask DH!

So I say, go for it mattsgirl!

Junebug060609 · August 2013

gscoville said:
Ok, I have a doozy based on the news story I just saw. There's a huge surge in measles and whooping cough cases here in BC, because so many people in recent years have stopped immunizing their children. There are newborn babies in maternity wards coming down with serious cases of these diseases and some may not make it, it's so absolutely horrible and just makes me want to cry. My FFFC is that not only do I question the intelligence and seriously look down on anyone who doesn't vaccinate (they're endangering others and it's completely reckless), I think the government should make vaccinations mandatory for all. No woman should have to fear for her baby's health and life because of someone else's poor choice.

. I am def pro-vax, but I think it's a slippery slope for government to mandate them.

MrsWallick · August 2013

ahenson818 said:
I don't like my MIL and she definitely doesn't like me. We got along great before DH & I got engaged but during the wedding planning process things went downhill and have continued to get worse.

I don't want to list out all the things that have gone on. To sum it up she's very much about making everything about her & it has to be on her terms. DH is her only child & she's not married so I think she has an issue with not being #1 in his life anymore.

I haven't seen or spoken to her since Xmas. And she only lives 1.5 hours away. She has cancelled dinner plans on us 3 times. IDK if she even knows we had a m/c if she does she has never said anything about it to me.

Are our DHs related?????? Sounds like my MIL, except DH is not only child but is youngest by 12 years. Mine does not know about our miscarriage because my SIL (her daughter) had a CP (she went through IVF so we all knew she was trying) and when she was telling us that it didn't work out, she started crying and MIL started laughing that she "was crying about something so silly". So, needless to say, she has no clue about anything and I want to TP her on a daily basis.

AnyMax · August 2013

There's a woman at work that sells Avon. She has a small bowl in the ladies' room with perfume samples.

Even though we don't interact for work, she is always very nasty to me. She was even kind enough to drop "God's plan" on me when she found out about my most recent mc.

I might put a condom in her sample bowl just to get her panties in a bunch.

KMW08 · August 2013

AnyMax said:
There's a woman at work that sells Avon. She has a small bowl in the ladies' room with perfume samples.

Even though we don't interact for work, she is always very nasty to me. She was even kind enough to drop "God's plan" on me when she found out about my most recent mc.

I might put a condom in her sample bowl just to get her panties in a bunch.

AM I think I love you! :x

blackbird818 · August 2013

AnyMax said:
There's a woman at work that sells Avon. She has a small bowl in the ladies' room with perfume samples.

Even though we don't interact for work, she is always very nasty to me. She was even kind enough to drop "God's plan" on me when she found out about my most recent mc.

I might put a condom in her sample bowl just to get her panties in a bunch.

That is hilarious!!! I second the condom idea. Karma bitch!!

CallaLily30 · August 2013

I have a big booty and *had* small boobs...

That's right, my confession is I had a boob job and my nose done too! I went from a 34A to a 34C so they aren't huge (at least I don't think so) and I love them!

blackbird818 · August 2013

MrsWallick said:

ahenson818 said:
I don't like my MIL and she definitely doesn't like me. We got along great before DH & I got engaged but during the wedding planning process things went downhill and have continued to get worse.

I don't want to list out all the things that have gone on. To sum it up she's very much about making everything about her & it has to be on her terms. DH is her only child & she's not married so I think she has an issue with not being #1 in his life anymore.

I haven't seen or spoken to her since Xmas. And she only lives 1.5 hours away. She has cancelled dinner plans on us 3 times. IDK if she even knows we had a m/c if she does she has never said anything about it to me.

Are our DHs related?????? Sounds like my MIL, except DH is not only child but is youngest by 12 years. Mine does not know about our miscarriage because my SIL (her daughter) had a CP (she went through IVF so we all knew she was trying) and when she was telling us that it didn't work out, she started crying and MIL started laughing that she "was crying about something so silly". So, needless to say, she has no clue about anything and I want to TP her on a daily basis.

I hate that I don't like her. She puts on a huge front when DH is around and that bugs the hell out of me. I'm not good at faking my feelings, which can be a good thing or a flaw depending on how you look at it.

I wish we got along, but I just don't see it happening. Nice to know I'm not alone in my MIL troubles.

SandSunBliss · August 2013

SandSunBliss said:

I have more... O:-)
I also used someone's salad dressing two weeks ago.
I bump at work.
OK I feel better now.

Justice has been served. Today, someone ate the last of my salad dressing.

BluEyedGirl26 · August 2013

MrsWallick said:

ahenson818 said:
I don't like my MIL and she definitely doesn't like me. We got along great before DH & I got engaged but during the wedding planning process things went downhill and have continued to get worse.

I don't want to list out all the things that have gone on. To sum it up she's very much about making everything about her & it has to be on her terms. DH is her only child & she's not married so I think she has an issue with not being #1 in his life anymore.

I haven't seen or spoken to her since Xmas. And she only lives 1.5 hours away. She has cancelled dinner plans on us 3 times. IDK if she even knows we had a m/c if she does she has never said anything about it to me.

Are our DHs related?????? Sounds like my MIL, except DH is not only child but is youngest by 12 years. Mine does not know about our miscarriage because my SIL (her daughter) had a CP (she went through IVF so we all knew she was trying) and when she was telling us that it didn't work out, she started crying and MIL started laughing that she "was crying about something so silly". So, needless to say, she has no clue about anything and I want to TP her on a daily basis.

I want to TP her for you.

AnyMax · August 2013

KMW08 said:

AnyMax said:
There's a woman at work that sells Avon. She has a small bowl in the ladies' room with perfume samples.

Even though we don't interact for work, she is always very nasty to me. She was even kind enough to drop "God's plan" on me when she found out about my most recent mc.

I might put a condom in her sample bowl just to get her panties in a bunch.
AM I think I love you! :x

@KMW08, it's totally mutual. I want to Google ute pics with you all night long!

CallaLily30 · August 2013

snegde said:

I have a big booty and *had* small boobs...
That's right, my confession is I had a boob job and my nose done too! I went from a 34A to a 34C so they aren't huge (at least I don't think so) and I love them!
I think that is a respectable increase. Can I squish them please?

Of course! I think they are pretty glorious, and DH agrees!

Poppy715 · August 2013

HoldingOutHope said:

LaRomana09 said:

mattsgirl2004 said:

snegde said:

Poppy715 said:

I judged my sister hardcore when she got a boob job. But now I think they look great. I was worried they would be out all the time and she would become one of those women.
I love my BIL dearly. He lives in another state and I only see him probably once every 4 months. I'm really standoffish now because he didn't say anything to me about losing Addison. My MIL and DH have said maybe he didn't know what to say, I don't think that's a good enough excuse. I want to let it go but it makes me frustrated still and I'm not ready to.

Your confessions are so far from one another on the spectrum... I think I am a little judgey about boob jobs. I also think I know more people who have gotten reductions than enhancements.

As for your BIL. I am guessing he is male, which means there is a good chance he has no fucking clue how to respond. But I agree that it doesn't make it alright. I think I would have a hard time letting it go too. Depending on your comfort level and closeness, I might be tempted to say something like, "I'm really disappointed in your failure to acknowledge the loss of Addison."

I must confess that you all would judge me hardcore too as I have always dreamed of getting a boob job and when we're done ttc, I plan on getting one. Not some huge triple E's or anything. I would love to be able to wear a women's size top or dress that I actually fit into without having to wear a very uncomfortable push-up bra (you know, the kind of push-up bra that has 2-3 inches of padding). My true size is a 34A (before I gained this weight, I was an AA). I'm very self-conscious about my boob size and have never felt like a real women because they are so tiny. Seriously, when I wear a sports bra I look like a 12 year old boy. I would love to just be a large B or small C to make my body more proportioned (because I have a big booty, lol!).

I would get a boob job if I wasn't so cheap. But when it comes down to it, I'd rather take a vacation or put in a new patio or something. I have a big booty and small boobs, too!

I know a lot of people who are judgy about boob jobs. I'll confess, I got one when I was in my 20's. Not because I wanted big boobs, though. I developed completely lop-sided -- I seriously had a 2 cup difference between my natural boobs. I was a competitive swimmer all the way through high school, and you can't hide a deformity like that in a Speedo. I was made fun of on a few occasions. So the minute I had enough $$ to pay for it, I darn sure went for it. My surgeon did an amazing job and it really boosted my self confidence.

I think that's totally understandable. I would want that to boost my confidence as well! I have nothing about getting them done it was her circumstances that irritated me.

More power to you implanted ladies!
I think this looks like motorboating, am I right? ^#(^

ETA: nope. Not even close. Why do they look so much different in a post!?! lol

SandSunBliss · August 2013

Poppy715 said:

I think that's totally understandable. I would want that to boost my confidence as well! I have nothing about getting them done it was her circumstances that irritated me.
More power to you implanted ladies!
I think this looks like motorboating, am I right? ^#(^
ETA: nope. Not even close. Why do they look so much different in a post!?! lol

Actually, I have no idea what that looks like...what is he doing? is he refereeing?

Poppy715 · August 2013

SandSunBliss said:

Poppy715 said:

I think that's totally understandable. I would want that to boost my confidence as well! I have nothing about getting them done it was her circumstances that irritated me.
More power to you implanted ladies!
I think this looks like motorboating, am I right? ^#(^
ETA: nope. Not even close. Why do they look so much different in a post!?! lol

Actually, I have no idea what that looks like...what is he doing? is he refereeing?

Maybe disagreeing or saying he isn't to blame? I have no clue. Not even close to motorboating. You see where my priorities would be if I had come up with the smilies.

SandSunBliss · August 2013

Qfrump said:

I totally cut in front of an elderly couple at Costco today at the exit. They were walking SO SLOWLY right in the middle of the lane so as soon as it widened I headed for the receipt checker on the left. (I assumed they would go to the one on the right). As I was whipping around, her cart angled slightly to signify intent, but I had already committed. I just kept going. No apology.

It's not right, but this made me LOL.

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