April 2014 Moms

UO: Unpopular Opinion

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  • I started CD'ing my son at 4 months and I'll never go back!! It's almost an addiction and I can't wait to start CD'ing a newborn. I try to educate new moms as often as I can. Unfortunately my working mom friends don't think they can do it because of time. I work full time but still manage to keep up with the laundry.

    I have a love/hate relationship with cloth diapers. We now use both cloth and disposable and I'm a lot happier. I have a hard time with the laundry during the week so adding in some disposable has saved me. That said there is nothing cuter than baby butts in cloth diapers.

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  • I know what you mean. I was ready to give up a couple months ago but DH didn't want to. Easy for him to say since he's not the one that does the laundry and stuffs the diapers!! But I stuck it out and we're still going strong. Hell, I even bought more just the other day :)

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  • Here Goes up to now on today's UO debates

     

    Pro-Choice even though it's not a choice I would ever make for myself. I morally disagree with it, but as I look at it like a medical procedure, I can't deny a persons choice to it. What if there was a law against kidney transplants, etc.

    Pro-spanking when it comes to safety issues. If my child runs in the parking lot, after being told and told not to, they will get a single swat on the butt.

    Pro God, not so much Pro-Religion. I believe in the principals of God and Jesus and living a good moral life. I believe in helping those in need, etc. I don't agree with how people pick and choose what in the Bible they are going to follow. Love Thy Neighbor, unless they are different than me or gay? Come on. No picking and choosing, please.

    Pro Broccoli

    I loved the post about ADHD. To clarify, I think it's over diagnosed and sometimes in children that are too young for the diagnosis. I believe some children are products of their parents environments and are never taught how to act properly. No boundaries, no discipline lead to unruly behaviors.

    I too hate the Bachelor/Bachelorette and Big Brother which I actually used to enjoy.

    Although I don't love the UO threads, I think it leads to a lot of debate and thankfully todays has stayed pretty civil for the most part. Healthy debate is fun! Frankly it's like an accident--can't help but look!

     

     

     
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  • ah the Pink/blue thing is really stupid, and only been that way for about 60-70 years (since the 40's!) before that boys were pink - considered a "stronger colour" while girls were blue. Its was advertising that changed that!!! and before the 20's babies just wore white!!!!!!
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    In a really strange way I find Ryan Lochte charming.
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  • Serenla said:

    eme520 said:

    In a really strange way I find Ryan Lochte charming.
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  • Wow, I'm late to the party, but here goes...

    1. I am pro-choice.  I would never be able to terminate, but wouldn't stop someone else from doing so.  I do hate it as a form of birth control though (and by this, I mean that I have a family member who, I was told, has had 5 abortions).  She knows what causes pregnancy.

    2. My third grade teacher tried to convince my parents that I had ADD and wanted to get me on medication.  I was just bored in her class.  I have told this to people before and had them go "What, you?  Did she know you?"  I do know people who legitimately have it, but I don't always think that medication is the only answer.  I have a friend who has it.  His Mom home schooled him for a year and they figured out how he learned and what he could do to make school work for him.  He graduated Summa Cum Laude from college and has never taken medication.

    3) Broccoli - I love me some broccoli.

    4) Cloth Diapers - I use cloth diapers and I recommend them to others, that said, I have never and will never look down on someone who uses disposables.

    5) Milk - I love a big glass of milk.  I've tried other milks (almond, soy and coconut) and they just don't taste the same to me.  I'll stick to my cows milk.

    6) Spanking - I think it has its place.  When my son gets older and knows better, and tried to run into the street, I might spank him.  In my case, I was only spanked once as a child and I think there are other methods of discipline that work as well, if not better.

    7) I am team green, because DH and I like finding out when the baby is born.  I really loved having DH tell me that we have a son.  I can't wait for that moment with this little one.  I have never used the term "there are so few real surprises".  I pretty much think, it's either a boy or a girl, so what's the surprise. If I give birth to a gorilla, then I will be surprised.

    8) I have never, and will never, watch the Bachelor.  I really don't see the draw.

    9) If I have twins, they won't have matching names.  I'm concerned about my kids having names that are too similar, would never do it on purpose.  I might occasionally dress them in matching outfits for events and photos.  I've also heard, from mothers of twins, that it can eliminate arguments about what they want to wear.


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  • nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!
    I kinda like both puppies and rainbows, though :-)
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    nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!
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  • amhah09 said:
    I could not agree more!
    .....with everyone? Lol

    Oops! I hit reply instead of quote. Obviously I haven't been doing this very long.

    I was trying to reply to @maelic 's comment about being Team Green and that it will be a baby, it will eat & poop, etc., which seems about 8 years ago now, lol. As for the rest of the UOs, I'm just enjoying the debates.

  • nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!

    Says theoster who put this in a totally separate post than she was referring to. Passive aggressive much?
  • Well I didn't think it fit in the other post and I was trying to let that die. This is the unpopular opinions post- which I know this certainly is. So I say I'm right on target.
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    nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!

    Says theoster who put this in a totally separate post than she was referring to. Passive aggressive much?
    Don't forget, she said practically the same thing in the FB thread as well. Wouldn't you agree that with all of her efforts she has changed lives and the TB will not forever be a fairy tale land of unicorns blowing rainbows out of their asses? 
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  • You obviously missed the point. I didn't say you had to be nice. I said its BS to call truth when it's bitch.

    My first sentence was intended to sound snarky. Owning it.
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  • Yes thank you Nikki we have all seen the light and will be forever grateful to you for pointing out our rude ways. Said no one on the bump ever.
  • I hate the term puppies and rainbows in general, but I find its use on the board as of late rather appropriate.



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  • J&NL said:
    nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!
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    J&NL this is exactly what went through my head after reading this.   :-bd
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  • nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!
    FTR, I started the Puppies and Rainbows post and nobody called me out and I wasn't acting c-like. I just get tired of all the "why are people so mean" responses, even when I'm not the one provoking them. I just think if you are that sensitive, you probably shouldn't be on this BMB, and you sure as hell shouldn't participate in the UO thread.
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    nikki912 said:

    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!

    FTR, I started the Puppies and Rainbows post and nobody called me out and I wasn't acting c-like. I just get tired of all the "why are people so mean" responses, even when I'm not the one provoking them. I just think if you are that sensitive, you probably shouldn't be on this BMB, and you sure as hell shouldn't participate in the UO thread.


    I actually wasn't talking about that. This stemmed from one silly remark on the FB thread that just annoyed me.

    And I don't think because I am not in your little "club" that it makes me a crazy. I really enjoy all the debates I just hate when people pretend and backtrack on their rudeness. You want to be rude- whatever floats your boat. Just don't try to pass it off as anything else. I don't see how that makes me crazy. Although I guess that's why I'm not in the club.
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  • amhah09 said:
    Totally off topic but I love that the UO thread becomes a great ways to weed out the crazies.
    I always learn which girls I like after a couple rounds of UO and FFFC.
    Yep and most of the time I dont even care what the FFFC or UO is but just the insane reactions after whats said. I could give a crap if I don't agree with someone.
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  • J&NL said:
    nikki912 said:
    I'm so effing tired of seeing the words "puppies and rainbows" every five freaking seconds just because you got called out for being needlessly c-like. Disagree? awesome. Heated debate? Fantastic. Belittle and treat people like they're the fat girl in room of supermodels- bitch. Not saying the behavior has to stop, b/c I'm over that. Just don't try to pretend you're innocent little darling telling the truth, you know what you're doing. What's the big deal in saying "yeah- I was being a filthy whore. So? You pissed me off." Id appreciate that way more than the endless oh "puppies and rainbows, I just tell the truth blah blah crap." You know what you're doing, just own it!

    Says theoster who put this in a totally separate post than she was referring to. Passive aggressive much?
    Don't forget, she said practically the same thing in the FB thread as well. Wouldn't you agree that with all of her efforts she has changed lives and the TB will not forever be a fairy tale land of unicorns blowing rainbows out of their asses? 
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  • Lets see.

    I'm pro choice.

    I'm pro spanking. I don't do it a lot but sometimes it's the only thing that works.

    I want to know what the sex of my baby is so everything I get from friends/family/buy before the baby is born isn't green or yellow. Also I didn't want a gender neutral nursery. Now that I will have 3, 2 will share a room. I plan on buying them each new furniture in March and I will buy furniture based on who will share a room so one kid will get 2 twins and one a queen. I don't want to deal with setting up rooms when I have 2 toddlers and a NB.

    My UO: I don't understand why people go to the same destinations over and over. A FB friend has flown to DW in FL 6 times this year already. And she goes like 10 times a year. I get once a year but that seems excessive and there are so many other things I would want to see.


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  • sexyntexy said:
      My UO: I don't understand why people go to the same destinations over and over. A FB friend has flown to DW in FL 6 times this year already. And she goes like 10 times a year. I get once a year but that seems excessive and there are so many other things I would want to see.

    I don't get that either! So many other places to see! Once a year I can see, but even that makes me want to say, BTDT.
    I agree!  We're trying to plan a vacation for next year and DH has suggested going to his families cabin in North Carolina.  It is beautiful, and I loved it there, but I keep thinking that we should go somewhere we haven't been before.
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    amhah09 said:
    Totally off topic but I love that the UO thread becomes a great ways to weed out the crazies.
    I always learn which girls I like after a couple rounds of UO and FFFC.
    Agreed. My virtual post it note with all the crazies and "omg stfu already's" has gotten off to a nice start for this board! 
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    amhah09 said:

    thomas930 said:

    Totally off topic but I love that the UO thread becomes a great ways to weed out the crazies.

    I always learn which girls I like after a couple rounds of UO and FFFC.

    Agreed. My virtual post it note with all the crazies and "omg stfu already's" has gotten off to a nice start for this board! 


    I'm with you on the stfu already's.
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  • AndrewsgalAndrewsgal member
    edited August 2013
    I love when people don't know you are talking about them and commenting on that particular post. It is always good for a laugh.
  • I love when people don't know you are talking bout them and commenting on that particular post. It is always good for a laugh.

    Awww stop being mean :-P



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  • I love when people don't know you are talking about them and commenting on that particular post. It is always good for a laugh.

    I wasn't born yesterday. I knew what she was doing. I like the phrasing and decided to use it in my favor.
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  • You may or may not agree with me but....Sharknado is amazing. That is all...

     
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  • I hate pregnant people blaming rudeness on "crazy hormones" or using hormones as an excuse for behaving badly. Be a grown up. Be accountable for your actions. Don't blame it on something that may or may not have anything to do with it.

    I also dislike when people express strong opinions and get feisty on TB and are labelled as hormonal, as if they wouldn't be expressing a strong opinion if they weren't pregnant...?

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  • I can't believe I just read this entire thread. I don't even go here. But +1 to everything andrewsgal said. Love tits have been awarded. Oh, and I have seen many people change from pro-life to pro-choice on these boards, from anti-welfare to pro-skittles and even a few from anti-fruit desserts to pro-fruit desserts, so keep on fighting the good fight.

    I agree. I've changed my mind on hit topics (like circumcision) before by participating in debates. Just because some people claim they won't ever change their views doesn't mean there aren't other undereducated minds out there that could benefit from seeing different opinions and do their own research.



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  • I don't like the beach. Sand gets everywhere and into everything. I detest putting on suntan lotion, but if I don't I know my pale a** will burn. I don't like being hot. I don't like swimming in the ocean. I don't like feeling dirty all day. Yet, I married into a family that adores the beach and goes every summer for two weeks. Sign me up for a trip to mountains any day!

    Me too!!!!! I thought I was the only person that hated the beach!
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