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MsAmandaPants · August 2013

While I am sorry for your loss, you made the wrong choice to post this here. This is highly inappropriate here. Also, no one on any board is going to be able to tell you whether you are pregnant. Go POAS or call your doctor.

Poppy715 · August 2013

Look at the name of this board. No one here is pregnant. I'm sorry for your previous loss but we can't tell you if you are KU. Take a test and go to PgAL if it's positive.

whiteroses05 · August 2013

This is best suited on pregnant after loss board. This will not go over well here! I would not delete this post but put a warning in your title! Sorry for your loss and good luck to you!

Poppy715 · August 2013

She XP'd over on PgAL too. Ughhhh.

@Jheath1993, Please change your post title to wrong board and post a possible pg warning before your text of your post.

Jheath1993 · August 2013

Whoah people. Seriously, this group is called ttc after a loss, I am trying to conceive... After a loss, I am sorry for everyone else who has been through a loss, I just thought maybe someone had gone through something similar

Jheath1993 · August 2013

I am sorry, I'm new to this website and I still don't understand how to use it, I do apologise if I upset anyone that's the last thing I wanted

MsAmandaPants · August 2013

No one has been nasty to you, so you don't need to to tell us to "whoa." You basically just walked into a grieving group of woman and asked if you were KTFU. We don't know. You could be. You might not be. A positive pregnancy test could just indicate that hCG is still in your system from your miscarriage. If you are concerned or have questions, contact your doctor, not a bunch of internet strangers.

And, no, none of us are pregnant. Hence the name.

MsAmandaPants · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

I am sorry, I'm new to this website and I still don't understand how to use it, I do apologise if I upset anyone that's the last thing I wanted

Thanks for your apology. Good luck to you.

Poppy715 · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

Whoah people. Seriously, this group is called ttc after a loss, I am trying to conceive... After a loss, I am sorry for everyone else who has been through a loss, I just thought maybe someone had gone through something similar

Nope you think you are pg after a loss. Much different. Deleting doesn't help. We already told you not to do that. Very bad etiquette.

Poppy715 · August 2013

I don't know what "the dirty bird" is but this makes me laugh.

Jheath1993 · August 2013

I'm not pregnant! I did a pregnancy test which came back negative. I am TRYING to conceive after a loss. I don't know if after a loss symptoms may stay, after my loss the doctors and midwife haven't given me any information about what to do now. I have asked. I was asking to see if anyone else may have symptoms dissapear and then appear. Jeeze

Jheath1993 · August 2013

I was very wrong to think I could come here for support after a loss. Good luck to you all.

Poppy715 · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

I'm not pregnant! I did a pregnancy test which came back negative. I am TRYING to conceive after a loss. I don't know if after a loss symptoms may stay, after my loss the doctors and midwife haven't given me any information about what to do now. I have asked. I was asking to see if anyone else may have symptoms dissapear and then appear. Jeeze

We've had everything under the sun. You need to ask your doctor these questions. He knows your history and background. I on the other hand know nothing about you.

SandSunBliss · August 2013

J&J09 said:

I'm not pregnant! I did a pregnancy test which came back negative. I am TRYING to conceive after a loss. I don't know if after a loss symptoms may stay, after my loss the doctors and midwife haven't given me any information about what to do now. I have asked. I was asking to see if anyone else may have symptoms dissapear and then appear. Jeeze
This question is very different from your original question. You DID come on here phishing to see if you were pregnant and now you are backpedaling. Grow some balls, apologize and we will all move on. I am really sorry for your loss. It sucks and we all want to be pregnant again. We just don't go phishing to see if we might be pregnant on any board (because no one but a doctor or a pregnancy test can tell you that) but especially not a loss board.

Qfrump said:

Jheath1993 said:

Hi everyone, I had a miscarrage on the 1st of August, as soon as it had all come away the bleedig stopped, so we started trying again, I know it was very soon, but we were waiting 3 weeks for the miscarrage to happen so we were prepared before hand. So a few days ago, I started feeling pregnant again, (all symptoms stopped straight after mc) I'm so tired all the time, I'm getting the tightening cramp like feeling in my abdomen like before and feeling sick alot, also when I was pregnant before, I was getting watery like substance, felt like I was coming on my p, I am getting it now, I know it could be me hoping, but has anybody had this? I wasn't sure which forum to write on I just want some advice as to weather I could be pregnant again and similar stories?

I'm confused, OP.... Enlighten me as to how this was not a phishing post. :-w

You made a mistake. fine. Don't cover your tracks by lying when you have been quoted.

ETA: I also need to tell you that weather and whether mean two different things...just in case you need to use them in the future.

Poppy715 · August 2013

Qfrump said:

Is 1993 a birth year? Shit, I'm getting old.

I thought the same thing when I tagged her!

MsAmandaPants · August 2013

Qfrump said:

Is 1993 a birth year? Shit, I'm getting old.

This was my thought as well. Yikes.

SandSunBliss · August 2013

Poppy715 said:

Qfrump said:

Is 1993 a birth year? Shit, I'm getting old.

I thought the same thing when I tagged her!

LOL.

Jheath1993 · August 2013

Right, let me start again. I'm 20 years old, just moved to a new area with my partner, I had a m/c which I said on my last post. I DID apologise for what was said and I do understand now that it wasn't worded right. Okay I have nobody to speak to about any of these things, I thought coming on here would help ( was 100% wrong) I was on the march forum, and I just wanted someone to speak to about this, and thought the ladies on here would be nice to speak to, I haven't spoken to anyone about the loss, if I'm perfectly honest I blanked it out and kind of pretended I was still pregnant because I couldn't admit it. I only have Internet through my pone and I didn't see the group information. I will say it again I am sorry.

PinkCamino · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

Right, let me start again. I'm 20 years old, just moved to a new area with my partner, I had a m/c which I said on my last post. I DID apologise for what was said and I do understand now that it wasn't worded right. Okay I have nobody to speak to about any of these things, I thought coming on here would help ( was 100% wrong) I was on the march forum, and I just wanted someone to speak to about this, and thought the ladies on here would be nice to speak to, I haven't spoken to anyone about the loss, if I'm perfectly honest I blanked it out and kind of pretended I was still pregnant because I couldn't admit it. I only have Internet through my pone and I didn't see the group information. I will say it again I am sorry.

yeah so? Because you have no one to talk to doesn't give you a free pass to be rude and insensitive.

buggirl72 · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

Right, let me start again. I'm 20 years old, just moved to a new area with my partner, I had a m/c which I said on my last post. I DID apologise for what was said and I do understand now that it wasn't worded right. Okay I have nobody to speak to about any of these things, I thought coming on here would help ( was 100% wrong) I was on the march forum, and I just wanted someone to speak to about this, and thought the ladies on here would be nice to speak to, I haven't spoken to anyone about the loss, if I'm perfectly honest I blanked it out and kind of pretended I was still pregnant because I couldn't admit it. I only have Internet through my pone and I didn't see the group information. I will say it again I am sorry.

Blanking out the loss is not healing from it or being emotionally ready to try again. I posted on your PgAL post but I will say it again here, you need to go see your doctor.

Also, only having the internet from your phone is not an excuse. Take the time to lurk. This board is amazing and is very protective of its members. Sincere apologies do go a long way.

Right now you think you might be pregnant again. That simple fact makes this board off limits to you. Post on PgAL until you get a definitive answer. If you end up not being pregnant, take some time to lurk and post a proper intro. If you do come back to this board, you will discover why your type of post is painful to many women on this board.

SandSunBliss · August 2013

Jheath1993 said:

Right, let me start again. I'm 20 years old, just moved to a new area with my partner, I had a m/c which I said on my last post. I DID apologise for what was said and I do understand now that it wasn't worded right. Okay I have nobody to speak to about any of these things, I thought coming on here would help ( was 100% wrong) I was on the march forum, and I just wanted someone to speak to about this, and thought the ladies on here would be nice to speak to, I haven't spoken to anyone about the loss, if I'm perfectly honest I blanked it out and kind of pretended I was still pregnant because I couldn't admit it. I only have Internet through my pone and I didn't see the group information. I will say it again I am sorry.

Thank you for apologizing. I am sorry for your loss. Talking about loss will help you. Pretending it never happened will just put It off and I believe it will come back later. I am sorry you don't have anyone to turn to. This board is great for TTC once you made an appropriate intro. This board in not for pregnancy post - that is PgAL, which you have now found. The miscarriage board may also be a good resource for you. You are not the only one to make this mistake here. I encourage you to read the blog and come back to post here now that you have apologized. There are some members now who mad a post or two in their beginning that were also inappropriate. Either way, best of luck to you.

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