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Cramping after orgasm

CynRO12CynRO12 member
in March 2014 Moms
Hi all, this is my 2nd pregnancy and when the hubby and I are behind closed doors, the "climax of my night" is immediately follwed by aweful cramping. It has completely ruined me wanting to be intimate.
Has this ever happened to anyone? Does it last all pregnancy?
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  • angelsnightangelsnight member
    Yep, I don't know if it lasts all pregnancy but it definitely happened to me last time.  I am on pelvic rest, and in addition to no sex, we can't even fool around and orgasm because of the cramps that result.  More than likely it's fine for most because I've always heard that sex while pregnant is fine, but I'm already high risk, had a bleeding episode already so my doctor isn't taking any chances.
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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I've had cramping everytime. It's making me leery to have sex, but supposedly normal.

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  • kara0729kara0729 member
    I'm just jealous of all this sex! Nausea has my sex drive at an all time low! Anybody else like me? However, last time we had sex...I can barely remember...but I did have cramps afterward! Not too awful and some discharge afterwards! Totally normal according to my doc! Hope it eases up for you!










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  • Emzy82Emzy82 member
    I get it too, wait until the end its more intense, all part of pregnancy, don't stress
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  • CynRO12CynRO12 member
    Thank u ladies for your replies! I'm gonna wait a couple weeks and try try again, lol. Fingers crossed the cramps have subsided!
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  • CharlestonValCharlestonVal member
    I am so relieved you asked about this!!! I too have had this problem, and it it's terrible! I've had a low sex drive (bummer) since the past couple weeks and of course still have sex but I haven't told DH how uncomfortable it is.
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  • FitMamaInProgressFitMamaInProgress member
    I cramp so bad I cry after I orgasm. Feel like we're never going to have sex again!!
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  • bunniekrissybunniekrissy member
    I haven't had any yet but I did have cramping with/after orgasm starting in the 2nd trimester in my first pregnancy. It was never TOO painful though...
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  • TradeMamaTradeMama member
    It happened to me last pregnancy and lasted the whole time. This time I'm on pelvic rest so I don't know if it will happen again. It definitely ruins the moment.
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  • wearebirdswearebirds member
    Oh yeah. They were terrible cramps. Definitely a turn off for future fun...
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  • kelley72kelley72 member
    YES! This is one of my earliest symptoms of pg!  I have noticed it every pregnancy- earlier than I can get a + hpt, and lasts up til about 10 wks or so...
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  • JerseyBellaJerseyBella member
    Yup, It happens to me every time. With DD it happened the whole pregnancy and only got worse as I was farther along. As the uterus gets bigger the contraction of it after climax only gets more intense. For the pleasure (TMI sorry) out ways the pain. So it's worth it in my book. OB says it's completely normal and not to worry.



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