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FML!!

LisaLisa1980LisaLisa1980 member
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My H & I really messed up tonight & I am PRAYING I did not just get pregnant. FUUUUUUCK!!!!!! I'm EBF but got my first PP period last month and I'm on CD19 right now. DS is 3.5 months and I don't want another baby!!! I know I know, nothing I can do until I take a test to see, but god I am so upset right now!! Stupid stupid!!
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  • kellyrn9956kellyrn9956 member
    If its that important that you not become pregnant, use birth control. Simple really. /:)
    Started TTC 2/2009
    Started fertility treatments 11/2010
    Ovarian dysfunction, LPD, male factor
    6 failed medicated IUI's
    Pregnant 5/2011 - Miscarriage at 6 weeks due to triploidy
    Decided to adopt - 6/2012
    SURPRISE! Pregnant without intervention - 7/2012 
    Sweet Baby James Born 3/2013
    Decided to be "One and Done"

    ....OR NOT.
    Pregnant 12/2018 despite birth control pills
    Here we go again...
    Due 8/26/19!
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  • LisaLisa1980LisaLisa1980 member
    kellyrn9956 said:

    If its that important that you not become pregnant, use birth control. Simple really. /:)

    Oh believe me, I know. I've tried so many before and they all give me horrible side effects. It's been really hard trying to find something that works

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  • pinottoparenthoodpinottoparenthood member
    LisaLisa1980 said:
    If its that important that you not become pregnant, use birth control. Simple really. /:)
    Oh believe me, I know. I've tried so many before and they all give me horrible side effects. It's been really hard trying to find something that works
    If your body doesn't do well with hormonal birth control, use condoms. I know it can be a bit of a pain, but it's nothing compared to an unplanned child that you're not ready for. You could also try a copper IUD (paraguard) that I believe is hormone free. You should really talk with your OB about options. As a grown adult, you need to take charge of your own life!
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  • bennyandthejets13bennyandthejets13 member
    If this just happened last night there's always the morning after pill you can take today. I believe its over the counter at walgreens now
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  • LisaLisa1980LisaLisa1980 member
    evelyn602 said:

    If this just happened last night there's always the morning after pill you can take today. I believe its over the counter at walgreens now

    I'm heading in as soon as it opens

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  • flummadiddle85flummadiddle85 member
    Perhaps look into NFP (natural family planning). It's not the same as the rhythm method, which is inaccurate and unreliable. There are a few methods, but I think the sympto-thermal is most reliable. It combines observations of all your body's signs to figure out when you will ovulate, and pinpoint it to begin with. No hormones, injections, side effects, etc. You can look into the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. The CCL ( Couple to Couple League) offers classes, although it is slightly different than the book. And it's religious based (Catholic). We use it, and have not had any problems. And I find there to be many benefits.
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  • HeidiRobHeidiRob
    I'm sorry you are scared right now. I know this type of situation can be really stressful, especially with such a young baby at home. We thought we were done at two and number three came along a little unexpectedly. It was not what we had planned for but I am so glad it worked out the way it did. Hope all works out for you :)
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  • MrsRKJMrsRKJ member
    LisaLisa1980 said:
    If its that important that you not become pregnant, use birth control. Simple really. /:)
    Oh believe me, I know. I've tried so many before and they all give me horrible side effects. It's been really hard trying to find something that works
    Condoms?
    Welcomed our baby boy Henry on March 15, 2013 (7 weeks early!)

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    TTA until 2014


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