I'm lucky enough not to have to go back to work if I didn't want to, and I think that is what DH would actually prefer... but idk what I want to do yet. I only work part time as it is, and I enjoy it most of the time. I think it would be nice to have something.
I'll still be working full time. I'm a teacher so I will go back after 12 weeks until the end of the school year, about 2-3 weeks depending on when the baby comes. Then I'll be off again for the summer.
I would love to stay home, and I know we can more than afford it, but DH really worries about not having a second salary... so, we'll see what happens. I would love to take a year off and then go back but I guess only time will tell!
I went to school for way too long to give up my career! I really like it so I will be going back full time. I am lucky to get 5 months off for maternity leave so I'm sure I will be ready to get back.
Me: 33 DH: 32 SA#1 low count (6mil)
SA#2- now in IUI range!(30mil)
Dx:MFI
11/1- IUI#1,12/1- IUI#2, 1/2- IUI#3 all BFFN
IVF#1. Long Lupron.ER 3/8 10R,4M,5F. ET 3/3-one 1AB, 2 frosties 5dp5dt-BFP!! Beta 3/25-794 Beta 3/27- 1794 First u/s 4/8 saw hb. 4/22 missed mc 8w3d. d&c 4/26 FET #1- bcp start 6/9. ET 7/12. 2 perfect blasts.5dpt-BFP!!
I'm glad someone brought this up. DH really wants me to stay home. Part of me wants to stay home and the other part of me (the independent side) feels guilty letting someone else take care of me. I think about how fortunate I would be to not miss much of our LO growing up by staying at home. It is a tough decision and hopefully some of you will offer some advice from your own personal experiences.
I will be going back to work. I wish I could stay home but it is just not in me. I will be taking a 6 month leave (hopefully). My first leave was only 12 weeks and it was intense and stressful so I am hoping more time will allow for a better experience.
I love my career and enjoy being a working mom. I hopefully will take a 12 week maternity leave, then go back two days a week for a month, then back to my normal full time schedule.
1st FET 2/14/2013 Happy Valentines Day! - BFN
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!!
- 1st Beta: 1046!!!!!
- 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!! First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks. Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B= 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks. Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh* MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week. MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
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Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
I'll be going back to work full time after a 12 week maternity leave. We have some things we'd like to pay off before I consider a part-time schedule. I hope to be down to part-time within a year or so after the baby is born.
Also in Canada, so have a year off then back to full time. That is what we did with DD, this time, DH may take the last few months, so I would be off 9 and then he would be home for 3 months.
Sep14 February Siggy Challenge: Favorite Romantic Movie - A Knight's Tale
I will again go back to work full-time and take off from classes over the summer. Come fall 2014 back to working full-time and finishing my degree... I will only have 4 classes (3 and an internship) at that point.
We had enough money saved up for me to stay home for at least a year after we had our first, but then we had to do IVF. So, now, I'm not sure what we will do. I'm a teacher, so I most likely won't finish out the school year. I guess we will have to wait and see how things look when it gets closer! I would love to stay home, though!!
Me 28 DH 30
Married 08-11-07
TTC since 07/11
HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB
Seeing RE 1-28-13
RE 1-28-13
Both tubes blocked
LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
I'm a photographer so I get to make my own schedule. I have one wedding pretty close to my EDD which I may or may not be able to shoot (booked way before I was PG), after that I am not scheduling anything for a couple of months except for maybe portrait sessions if I'm feeling up to it. We have enough saved that I can take it easy for awhile, which is nice.
This is majorly up in the air for us right now. We will be moving to a new state this fall & my plan was to try to get a teaching job for next fall. Now that there are two babies... I don't know. I never planned on having more than one in daycare at a time. I may find something part time... But I am scared about staying away from teaching for too long. Ack!
Induction of mo/di twin boys scheduled for 2/24!
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I'm so jealous of you Canadian ladies. Maternity leave in the States is despicable, and I'm one of the lucky ones. I get 12 weeks off unpaid, but luckily I get short term disability for 6 weeks, so I get 2/3 of my salary for half my time off.
I will probably take about 12 weeks and then start back part time, if not before then honestly. I hate not working and I work from home so it gives me greater flexibility. I am hoping DH can take some time off at the beginning too to help me get used to have a LO around and so he can understand what goes on all day while he gets to talk to adults
I'll be taking about 8 weeks off and then going back to school and work full time to finish my degree. I wish I could take more time off but one salary is not enough to pay the bills in our situation!
I unfortunately will go back to work in 4-6 weeks like I did before. I wish I could be a Sahm.. I hate leaving my baby! Especially when she cries and doesn't want me to go. But we can't survive on one income so I gotta do what I gotta do!
My hubby accepted a new job the same day we found out we were expecting! Hoping to have a better idea of his income (it will vary based on what jobs his company contracts for) by the time I'm done with my 12 week maternity leave. Right now I plan to go back full time (3 12 hour shifts) but with any luck, I would love to go down to 2 12s a week. Especially since his job will require quite a bit of travel and my shifts are overnight, so child care is going to be tricky.
I won't be going back to work. In actually planning on leaving work around January/February. Were planning on moving across the country shortly after the baby arrives. I'll spend that time packing what I can, finding our new place & planning the move.
Im a school teacher and get 6 months half pay paid maternity leave. So ill be taking that and then maybe some long service leave for 3 months and then the last three months we'll live off whatever we've saved. Gets me off for the full year and then part time 2015! Very excited and lookin forward to being a mummy!
6 weeks maternity leave and back to work. we have a child center at my hospital so i can visit the baby
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect 4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11 Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:( Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11 Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13 Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13. Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
I'm incredibly fortunate to have 3 months of 100% paid maternity. I might take additional unpaid time after that. Then I'll be going back to work.
Unplanned pregnancy July 2005; EDD 3/27/06; birthdaughter born 3/15/06 (38w2d) (placed for adoption).
TTC since December 2012, BFP 6/25/13. EDD 3/2/14. Baby Elias born 2/21/14 (38w5d)!
I'm self employed so hoping to keep my business going and just drag the LO with me to appointments if DH isn't home. I also teach pilates and yoga at our healthclub and they have childcare in the room next door, so I will probably be using that so I can keep teaching and classes are only an hour long so it won't be too bad.
I will be in school when the baby comes, so I might just not go back to class after spring break, watch class recordings, and then go in for finals. Then I'll be studying for the bar and will probably start working in August, so I'll be (mostly) a SAHM until five months.
I will be working full time. I feel like I should say "but I wish I could stay at home" but I don't. My career is a big part of who I am. I know without a doubt that it will shift in the list of priorities once our child is born and my hours will reduce (mind you I will still be 40+ hours). Luckily my husband supports me in this and encourages me to keep advancing in my career. I have no doubt its going to be really tough at times though!
Re: What's your plan after baby is born?
11/1- IUI#1,12/1- IUI#2, 1/2- IUI#3 all BFFN
IVF#1. Long Lupron.ER 3/8 10R,4M,5F. ET 3/3-one 1AB, 2 frosties 5dp5dt-BFP!! Beta 3/25-794 Beta 3/27- 1794
First u/s 4/8 saw hb. 4/22 missed mc 8w3d. d&c 4/26
FET #1- bcp start 6/9. ET 7/12. 2 perfect blasts.5dpt-BFP!!
married 9.2007
dd born 8.2010
#2 due 3.15.14
2nd FET 6/14/2013 - BPF!!! -
1st Beta: 1046!!!!! - 2nd Beta: 2754!!!!!
First u/s 7/11/2013 - TWINS!!! 120 and 124 heartbeats
Second u/s 7/29/2013 - wiggley babies! 178 and 184 heartbeats!
Third u/s 9/9/2013 - 157 and 161 heartbeats ... a BOY and a GIRL!!!! Cervix on the "shorter side" (3-3.3) - going to check again in 2 weeks.
Fourth u/s 9/23/2013 - Baby A = 157 Baby B = 150 heartbeat. Cervix now 2.3-2.6 ... being referred to a MFM
MFM Appointment 9/26/2013 = Both babies healthy, cervix now measuring at 4 - Playing tricks on me ... will follow up in 2 weeks.
Cervical check 10/7 with regular OB - 2.1cm --- going BACK to the MFM armed with ultrasound pictures from my OB of my cervix. *sigh*
MFM Appointment 10/8 - confirmed my cervix at 2.1cm - putting me on Progesterone for a week.
MFM Appointment 10/17 - Cervix unchanged! Keeping me on Progesterone - followup 10/29
Everett Alan James (3lbs8oz) and Eliana Lee (3lbs7oz) born 12/28/13 at 30w6d!
AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!
jbelle
Sep14 February Siggy Challenge: Favorite Romantic Movie - A Knight's Tale
Happily welcomed healthy baby girl December 2011.
Excited to welcome a new addition September 2014!
DD1 Feb 2010
DD2 Sept 2011
My commute is terrible
But I love my job
Not sure i can leave my lil nugget
I will sure have 12 weeks unpaid
Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c
Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
Baby #8. BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number
4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!
My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!
TTC since December 2012, BFP 6/25/13. EDD 3/2/14. Baby Elias born 2/21/14 (38w5d)!
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