I am a minimalist; I only bring what I think I will need and not much more. What is the minimum you feel you need in your mom purse or diaper bag? What can't you do without?
DH complains when he asks for things and I don't have them. MIL is always chiding me for not having more stuff in my diaper bag. I am good with some diapers, wipes, and pacifiers. I only over pack for vacation, and that's so I have outfit options. Help me pack my bag, please. What should I be carrying?
Re: Mom purse
HTH, and GL! (I would also be tempted to tell DH to pack the extras that he wants himself if I was you)