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Lurker, here, OAD now

DCWJesDCWJes member
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Hi, I found this board before "the switch" but wasn't sure if I was ready to intro. Here I am. 

DH and I have been married for 3 years and had 2 losses in our first year. We recently decided to take control of our lives and concentrate on our only child and never TTC again. DD just turned 10 last week and having another child at this point would be starting back at square one. I am 29 and DH is 39, so we will be fairly young when she is "out of the house". After 2 losses, we couldn't gamble and go for a 3rd. So, we are one and done.

Hi!
I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
No longer trying to conceive at all.
BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
 BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
 Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
 Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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    Chapter79Chapter79 member
    So sorry for your losses.
    Glad to have ya here, though- welcome!
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    (+ hers and his, ages 13 & 8)
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    KL777KL777 member
    Welcome!  Sorry about your losses.

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    QuigleyCat1QuigleyCat1 member
    Heyyyy I know youuuu! *wink*  As you know I'm still floating between here and TTCAL but it's so nice to see you here.  It sounds like you are at peace with your decision to be OAD.  How's the new home?

    Lilypie - (dLe1)

     

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    hopefulmom81hopefulmom81 member
    Hi Jes!!

    Welcome aboard!

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    MAtoNCMAtoNC member
    Welcome! I am so sorry for your losses we are OAD after two losses, as well.
    Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.
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    eyenigheyenigh member
    Welcome! I'm OAD after one loss-- I can completely understand your feelings especially after two.
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    DCWJesDCWJes member
    Wow! I didn't know I knew so many people here!

    I still post and hang out on TTCAL although my friends there know I am not TTC, I have been TTA for...well, over 2 years. But I have a harder time leaving my friends.
    I have short term memory loss. Do not take it personally if I do not remember you right away.
    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
     Midnight Marie (furbaby) born 7.4.12 passed for unknown reasons 9.19.12 Missing my jumping bean. 
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    image image
    Follow Me on Pinterest
    ♥♥ Pg/PAL Welcome! ♥♥ 
    http://indulgy.com/post/4gbObIOiC1/bazinga
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