Ok so I struggle with infertility. But I can handle if your pregnant, don't hide it from me! That's a sure way to get me pissed off. What you don't think the hormonal if girl can handle it?
That's how I feel right now!
Last week I called a good friend, her grandmother picked up the phone and said my friend was at the hospital due to bleeding. Bleeding? She could tell I was confused and she said "ohhhh she must not have told she was pregnant again, due to your situation" PREGNANT AGAIN....that's right I have been lapped 4 times by this chick. I just made the conversation short and sweet and hung up. Immediately I start getting calls from this friend. I really didn't want to hear her say all the reasons why she hadn't told me. I was concerned of course if she was ok, which thankfully she is ok and so is the baby. I ignored her call and texted her, smooth right. She told me she was fine, and understood with my situation that I can talk when ready.
My situation? Ohhhhhhhhhhh that I suffer from infertility? Like no can even say those words??
So this morning I go to my therapist because I am flying this week and, well I needed a pep talk. I hadn't seen her since April which was pre-failed IUI#1 and #2. She opens the door and my eyes are drawn immediately to her big belly. SHE"S PREGNANT TOO! Now she looked to be 5 months, which I later found out she is 8 months. When the session brought us to how my treatments were going, we talked about it. No biggie. Then she said "well I didn't have the heart to tell you since you were struggling so much before with your fertility situation."
So yeah....me and my "situation" are going on vacation to Key Largo on Sat, and I am gonna feed my "situation" with margaritas all week long!
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Currently on 100mg of Clomid days 5-9/Metformin 1500mg
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