@fucahwe

JordyInIndy · July 2013

There was a thread started yesterday titled something along the lines of "how to make mommy friends". I think you should read it. Now.

Maybe someone will be nice enough to post the link in here since I'm mobile. If not, it's probably on the second page of threads.

Thanks.

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Fucahwe · July 2013

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others?

I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others? I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

You really have a lot of free time on your hands today to start arguments don't you. *sigh* maybe you should take up knitting

kb3ll · July 2013

SgrRay929 said:

Literally spit out my water laughing when I saw this.

JordyInIndy · July 2013

I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?

Fucahwe · July 2013

kb3ll said:

Fucahwe said:

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others?

I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

You really have a lot of free time on your hands today to start arguments don't you. *sigh* maybe you should take up knitting

I tried. I suck at it. But I was just saying that I'm not sensitive to peoples words bc I try to see past them and understand the meaning. If thats argumentative....I give up. Lol

kb3ll · July 2013

Did you finally just admit your not awesome at something? Does anyone else see this? It's like watching homo erectus use a hammer for the first time.

RondackHiker · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others? I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

You really have a lot of free time on your hands today to start arguments don't you. *sigh* maybe you should take up knitting
I tried. I suck at it. But I was just saying that I'm not sensitive to peoples words bc I try to see past them and understand the meaning. If thats argumentative....I give up. Lol

And what is the meaning behind stating that working is harder than staying at home and listing off every flipping thing you do each day, while emphasizing again and again you do everything SAHMs do but in much less time, other than to say you're better than a SAHM? After all, you do what she does in less time!

Or the meaning behind asking if there is a PSA about not being sensitive to other's words, beyond not-so-subtly hinting that you've done nothing rude or wrong and we're all just over-reacting?

Fucahwe · July 2013

RondackHiker said:

Fucahwe said:

kb3ll said:

Fucahwe said:

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others?

I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

You really have a lot of free time on your hands today to start arguments don't you. *sigh* maybe you should take up knitting
I tried. I suck at it. But I was just saying that I'm not sensitive to peoples words bc I try to see past them and understand the meaning. If thats argumentative....I give up. Lol

And what is the meaning behind stating that working is harder than staying at home and listing off every flipping thing you do each day, while emphasizing again and again you do everything SAHMs do but in much less time, other than to say you're better than a SAHM? After all, you do what she does in less time!

Or the meaning behind asking if there is a PSA about not being sensitive to other's words, beyond not-so-subtly hinting that you've done nothing rude or wrong and we're all just over-reacting?

Ok...I listed the things I do bc I was stating that in my personal experience, it's harder to be a working mom than a sahm. Not that I'm better for doing either. I'm actually considering going back to being a sahm for a couple of years after #4 is born, so im obviously not judging. And I didn't say you all were overreacting, that would be judgemental. You react how you see fit. I do think a few of the comments were over sensitive, but if thats you, run with it. No, I said nothing wrong. My intentions were to explain my experience both ways and why I feel the way I do. I may become a sahm mom again soon and I stand may my opinion that it's harder working and doing both jobs. I'm actually looking forward to the break......

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kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Thanks for the heads up...I guess if making friends is really important to me, i should choose my words carefully? I'll keep that in mind. Is there also a PSA about not being so sensitive about the words of others? I think everyone has a right o do what they think is best for their family without having to explain their reasons to anyone. "bc I love my baby" is good enough for me. Even if I disagree. It suggests that you do it bc you think it's best, and you do what you think is best "bc you love your baby". I tend not to be the sensitive type, though. Maybe it's just me.

You really have a lot of free time on your hands today to start arguments don't you. *sigh* maybe you should take up knitting
I tried. I suck at it. But I was just saying that I'm not sensitive to peoples words bc I try to see past them and understand the meaning. If thats argumentative....I give up. Lol

And what is the meaning behind stating that working is harder than staying at home and listing off every flipping thing you do each day, while emphasizing again and again you do everything SAHMs do but in much less time, other than to say you're better than a SAHM? After all, you do what she does in less time!

Or the meaning behind asking if there is a PSA about not being sensitive to other's words, beyond not-so-subtly hinting that you've done nothing rude or wrong and we're all just over-reacting?
Ok...I listed the things I do bc I was stating that in my personal experience, it's harder to be a working mom than a sahm. Not that I'm better for doing either. I'm actually considering going back to being a sahm for a couple of years after #4 is born, so im obviously not judging. And I didn't say you all were overreacting, that would be judgemental. You react how you see fit. I do think a few of the comments were over sensitive, but if thats you, run with it. No, I said nothing wrong. My intentions were to explain my experience both ways and why I feel the way I do. I may become a sahm mom again soon and I stand may my opinion that it's harder working and doing both jobs. I'm actually looking forward to the break......

There you go being degrading again. It's not a break, it's a job. Maybe for you it'll be a break from oh, so, so, soooooo taxing life but for the rest of us that give a shit its a job. Maybe it's best you don't talk...you seem to insert your foot into your mouth quite a bit

Fucahwe · July 2013

Lol y'all, i quit. I won't apologize for my opinions, they are based on my experiences. Yes, it's a bit of a break for me. And no, that doesn't make me garbage. Or a bad mom. It means I won't be up until 3 am cleaning my house and preparing for the next day, bc I will have time to do it while the baby naps. It means I won't have to stress so much about how to finish work early so I can make it to school concerts, or student of the month ceremonies. It means I will be able to be creative with my cooking and not have to rely on crock pot meals 2-4 times a week bc Ill have more time to do it. Its a break bc I won't be completely stressed out if I get out of work 15 minutes late, so I may not make it to the school in time to get
The girls and make it to practice pn time. All a big break. I'll get to paint my porch, organize my arts and crafts closet, things I normally have to wait for vacation to do. That doesn't sound like a break to you? I'm actually excited!

PreDempsey · July 2013

You are SO bad at this.

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kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Lol y'all, i quit. I won't apologize for my opinions, they are based on my experiences. Yes, it's a bit of a break for me. And no, that doesn't make me garbage. Or a bad mom. It means I won't be up until 3 am cleaning my house and preparing for the next day, bc I will have time to do it while the baby naps. It means I won't have to stress so much about how to finish work early so I can make it to school concerts, or student of the month ceremonies. It means I will be able to be creative with my cooking and not have to rely on crock pot meals 2-4 times a week bc Ill have more time to do it. Its a break bc I won't be completely stressed out if I get out of work 15 minutes late, so I may not make it to the school in time to get The girls and make it to practice pn time. All a big break. I'll get to paint my porch, organize my arts and crafts closet, things I normally have to wait for vacation to do. That doesn't sound like a break to you? I'm actually excited!

No again you sound like an asshole. Do you know how gracefully say..."I'm sorry I didn't mean it to sound the way it did, compared to how I am feeling now, it will feel a lot different and easier for me when I become a stay at home mom" rather than being a complete and utter douche? Seriously I'm not splitting hairs anymore you sound like a douche asshole and you need to cut it out. Think about what you say, before you say it.

Fucahwe · July 2013

I'll polish my floors, change my curtains, go in for story time in my 5 year olds class, rejoin the PTA, be able to coach/organize for the special Olympics.oh, and I may even developed a social life of some sort. Life stuff, not job stuff. Not work, a break. I'm done arguing,there is going to be some super sensitive person that takes offense to what I just said. But yes, I may take a very long break from work and Stay home for a year or two. Oooh i went there. Lol

kb3ll · July 2013

Someone start a slow clap.

RustyGirl3 · July 2013

It has nothing to do with your opinion...which several people have pointed out to you. You keep shoving both feet so far in your mouth that your toes are coming out of your ears and you aren't listening.

It's not cool to come into a room full of women and list all of the things that make you awesome...ever.

PreDempsey · July 2013

THE WORST EVER. I feel so bad for March, don't you dare have your baby in February.

Fucahwe · July 2013

Madisonpenny said:

Fucahwe said:

Lol y'all, i quit. I won't apologize for my opinions, they are based on my experiences. Yes, it's a bit of a break for me. And no, that doesn't make me garbage. Or a bad mom. It means I won't be up until 3 am cleaning my house and preparing for the next day, bc I will have time to do it while the baby naps. It means I won't have to stress so much about how to finish work early so I can make it to school concerts, or student of the month ceremonies. It means I will be able to be creative with my cooking and not have to rely on crock pot meals 2-4 times a week bc Ill have more time to do it. Its a break bc I won't be completely stressed out if I get out of work 15 minutes late, so I may not make it to the school in time to get
The girls and make it to practice pn time. All a big break. I'll get to paint my porch, organize my arts and crafts closet, things I normally have to wait for vacation to do. That doesn't sound like a break to you? I'm actually excited!

What's wrong with crock pot meals?

Nothing. They are a lifesaver, my freezer is full of them. But I love to cook, and I'm running out of crock pot recipes to try.

kb3ll · July 2013

March probably didn't want her...

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lnvane00 · July 2013

I'm from March.. please don't bring the drama over there!!!!

You girls are handling it well XOXO

kb3ll · July 2013

There's something strange in the neighborhood who you going to call @fuchawe she ain't afraid of no ghost she's fucking super mom!

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Fucahwe · July 2013

JordyInIndy said:
I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?

No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

kb3ll · July 2013

I was just going to say she finally got something right but you may be more accurate @sgrray929

JordyInIndy · July 2013

RondackHiker · July 2013

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

JordyInIndy said:
I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.

Yeah... "They'll get over it" isn't a normal response to realizing you're offending others. Usually the response is "crap! I didn't know that sounded that way! I'm so sorry; that's not what I meant."

I don't stay up at night and stew over those who say stupid and offensive crap, but if I realize it's an ongoing thing for them, I avoid them like the plague. No one needs more idiots in their life.

Fucahwe · July 2013

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

JordyInIndy said:
I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.

Haha youre right. There are lots of reasons I suck. Get used to it

MoxyByProxy · July 2013

I personally would like to thank you for making me feel like sh!t about how crappy of a parent I must be without a LO.. granted.. i have an 11yo who is pretty self sufficient but we eat crock pot meals often and i most certainly dont stay up till 3AM cleaning.. partly because.. well.. i save that crap for the weekend.. and even then it doesn't get done some times.. gaaasp.. im a pig!

btw.. my crock pot meals can kick your on the stoves meals ass anytime.. not that its a pissing match.. its just really inconsiderate and rude for you to think your better than someone who has less time..

Fucahwe · July 2013

MoxyByProxy said:
I personally would like to thank you for making me feel like sh!t about how crappy of a parent I must be without a LO.. granted.. i have an 11yo who is pretty self sufficient but we eat crock pot meals often and i most certainly dont stay up till 3AM cleaning.. partly because.. well.. i save that crap for the weekend.. and even then it doesn't get done some times.. gaaasp.. im a pig!

btw.. my crock pot meals can kick your on the stoves meals ass anytime.. not that its a pissing match.. its just really inconsiderate and rude for you to think your better than someone who has less time..

Lol now I KNOW this isn't me, right?! Thats really what you got out of it? Hahaha I said I make crock pot meals 2-4 times a week and I'm looking forward to a change. But I'm glad that yours are delicious and so much better than anything I've ever made. (you're kidding me right? Lol)

MoxyByProxy · July 2013

The point is.. you pop in from March.. probably because you wore your welcome out there already.. and you voice your opinions.. i get it.. its just how YOU think.. but your.. im a super mom look at all i can do .. really does you no favors here.

we are so glad you have tons of time to be the june clever of your neighborhood, but honestly.. those of us who are grunting it alone due to spouses being in the military, away on business alot or whatever + those of us who bust our asses to work both inside and outside the home, find it offensive that you dare come over here thinking your better than us.

we are so happy you have so much time to do all the things you want.. but have some respect for the mommies who dont have the time but are keeping it together just as well.

Fucahwe · July 2013

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

JordyInIndy said:
I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.
Haha youre right. There are lots of reasons I suck. Get used to it

No one wants to get used to you. How clearly do we need to spell out for you that you are a ridiculous "look at me" nuisance with a terrible attitude and not welcome here? Don't worry. I'm sure you'll get over it.

Already have.

kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

I personally would like to thank you for making me feel like sh!t about how crappy of a parent I must be without a LO.. granted.. i have an 11yo who is pretty self sufficient but we eat crock pot meals often and i most certainly dont stay up till 3AM cleaning.. partly because.. well.. i save that crap for the weekend.. and even then it doesn't get done some times.. gaaasp.. im a pig!

btw.. my crock pot meals can kick your on the stoves meals ass anytime.. not that its a pissing match.. its just really inconsiderate and rude for you to think your better than someone who has less time..

Lol now I KNOW this isn't me, right?! Thats really what you got out of it? Hahaha I said I make crock pot meals 2-4 times a week and I'm looking forward to a change. But I'm glad that yours are delicious and so much better than anything I've ever made. (you're kidding me right? Lol)

I wouldn't go boasting about my meals now...not with the angry mob you've gathered with your bs

kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck. I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.
Haha youre right. There are lots of reasons I suck. Get used to it

No one wants to get used to you. How clearly do we need to spell out for you that you are a ridiculous "look at me" nuisance with a terrible attitude and not welcome here? Don't worry. I'm sure you'll get over it.
Already have.

Ta Ta! Find somewhere else to annoy the universe don't do it here...don't let the door hit you on your way out.

Fucahwe · July 2013

kb3ll said:

Fucahwe said:

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

SgrRay929 said:

Fucahwe said:

JordyInIndy said:
I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck.

I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.
Haha youre right. There are lots of reasons I suck. Get used to it

No one wants to get used to you. How clearly do we need to spell out for you that you are a ridiculous "look at me" nuisance with a terrible attitude and not welcome here? Don't worry. I'm sure you'll get over it.

Already have.

Ta Ta! Find somewhere else to annoy the universe don't do it here...don't let the door hit you on your way out.

Thanks. But no. I am done with this thread though...as fun as it has been.

halfthetree · July 2013

Oh my fucking hell what happened this morning. This bitch is craaaazy.

Fuchawe- your self and go away.

kb3ll · July 2013

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

Fucahwe said:

I'm sorry I wasted my time creating this thread thinking it may help you see why the rest of us think you suck. I'm sure you've got SOOOO much to do today so why don't you get going?
No, honestly I appreciate it. I just think its crazy that we have to have a post dedicated to "how to word your words so no one else takes offense" in a group of grown women. I just cant play along with that. I say what I mean and sometimes people take offense. They get over it and so do i. But I appreciate the effort. Even if it means I suck ;p

I'm going to go out on a limb and wager a guess that there are lots of reasons you suck. You can get over it anywhere other than this board.
Haha youre right. There are lots of reasons I suck. Get used to it

No one wants to get used to you. How clearly do we need to spell out for you that you are a ridiculous "look at me" nuisance with a terrible attitude and not welcome here? Don't worry. I'm sure you'll get over it.
Already have.

Ta Ta! Find somewhere else to annoy the universe don't do it here...don't let the door hit you on your way out.
Thanks. But no. I am done with this thread though...as fun as it has been.

You keep saying your done...but you just keep coming back...we need to work on your social skills

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