December 2013 Moms

XP: Update on Baby Boy

The last two weeks have been scary and full of tests. We have spent around 15 hours in the last two weeks at Lucile Packard Children's Hospital at Stanford. Today we met with the Pediatric Neurosurgeon. 
The surgeon says our baby has Meningocele, which is the least common and least severe forms of Spina Bifida. Our baby does have a defect in his Neural tube but it is small and covered by skin (which is why I passed the screening test). The Dr said our son has the best 3-5% of all cases. 

The defect happened the first few weeks or pregnancy. The defect cant get bigger or worse. It is just a gap that didn't close. He has no nerve issues.

He will need surgery to fix this. They don't know when and won't until he is born. If this hole is completely covered and no spinal fluid is leaking he can wait until he is a month old. If not surgery will be in the first 48 hours. 

His long term prognosis is excellent. The Dr said cases like this have no impairment to movement or bowel function. Many cases of Spina Bifida can cause damage to the brain. Our sons cases is NOT one of those. His brain looks normal. Everything else besides this one defect is normal. 

The Dr said "You are one of the lucky ones. Most cases do not have a happy ending but your baby does". 

Needless to say I cried for much of this consult. 

There is nothing else that be done now. Now we wait until he born, likely at 38 weeks via c section. Once born he will be taken to NICU right away for evaluation with the surgeon. The surgery part is scary but I cant think about that right now. 

I am so relieved his is a mild case. yes, this will be a rocky start but to know some day he will run around a playground means everything to me.  Now I can imagine a happy future for him.

I appreciate so much all the prayers, kind words, good vibes. It has meant the world to me know we have people pulling for us. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.
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  • Wow, that is so good to hear!

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  • Yay for good news!
  • This is wonderful! So happy to hear this!! Continuing to keep you and your LO in my prayers :)
  • aw KK so happy to read this. That must be such a relief, and it sounds like the medical team has a good plan in place. Really great news. xo
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  • Sounds like you have a little miracle in your belly! So happy to hear that there will be a happy ending or rather beginning.
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    I am so elated for your happy ending. I can't even imagine the joy your family is feeling. Enjoy every second of your little miracle baby.

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  • Thank you for the update, and relieved to hear you're part of a lucky minority.  You've been on everybody's minds and hearts.
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  • I'm so happy to hear this. Your comment about him being able to run around the playground with you brought tears to my eyes! Your little guy will continue to be in our thoughts. :)

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  • So glad you got some good news! Hate that you have to stress/worry about this in the first place, but thank goodness for some good news!!
  • I got tears when I read this! So happy for y'all! Praying for the best!
  • This is fantastic news comparatively. So thankful that he will be okay, even if it comes with a rough start!

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  • I am so happy to hear this!!! (((())))
  • So glad to hear that you were able to get some answers! I'm sure it helps to have some clearer information about his condition!
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  • This is great news! So glad your little guy has such loving parents that make sure he'll get the best care.
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    I so happy to hear your update. I was just thinking of you and VC today. Yay for good news!
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  • So glad to hear things turned out to be ok! Keeping you in my thoughts.
  • I am so relieved to hear this.  In two of my past jobs I worked with people with spina bifida or their cases.  Individuals with minor forms of spina bifida can lead completely normal lives with no neurological impacts or issues with ambulation.  I really hope that is the case with your son.  I will continue to keep you guys in my thoughts.
  • I'm so glad that you go the best possible news here!
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  • So happy to read that the Dr. gave you some good news. I know that things are still kinda scary for you but I'm so happy that you have hope. Praying that the surgery can be postponed until he's a month old so you don't have to worry about the stress of surgery right after birth. 
  • Wow! I'm so happy that you received "good" news! He'll be in my thoughts after birth, I hope everything goes smoothly.
    I am mostly a lurker on here, but I have been following your story and you, your little boy & family are in my T&P. I hope he gets a month to develop before surgery is needed. Continued T&P as well.
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  • I'm sooo happy for you KK! This is amazing news! I've been wondering about you and hoping for a positive update. I'm so glad it's so minor and everything is looking up. So happy for you and your family!!

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  • I'm so happy you got good news. I hope things work out so that he can wait a month after birth to have surgery.
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  • Spina Bifida has such a wide range of prognoses for kids and it's so good to hear your little one is at the less severe end of that spectrum!  Sounds like you're in good hands at Stanford.  I'll be thinking good thoughts for you!
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  • I'm so happy you got such wonderful news! Continued thoughts and prayers, but I'm glad to hear the positive news!
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  • So happy for you guys!!
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    This makes me so, so happy. You have been in my thoughts, and I'm thrilled to read a happy update from you! Sounds like you have a great, positive attitude. Hugs!!
     
  • I'm so happy everything turned out great for you. Surgery is scary but at least he will live a normal life!
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  • So glad you got good news! I will keep praying for a successful surgery.

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  • Congrats on that amazingly good news!  So happy for your LO and your family!
  • I'm so glad he will be okay.  I pray the surgery goes smoothly as well.  
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    So happy to read this KK! Will continue to keep you and baby in my thoughts <3
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  • I'm so glad that this is something they can repair! Thoughts and prayers for you and your baby boy. 
  • I am so glad! I know you still have a hard road ahead but this is great news!
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  • So glad I opened this...great news!!!!

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  • I'm so glad to hear this, it sounds like it is definitely the best outcome possible!  I hope that the surgery is able to be postponed until he is a month old.  Sending good vibes to you and your little man!

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  • I am so happy for you! After our loss and other bad news others have gotten to on here I was beginning those happy endings didn't exist anymore! I know you will be nervous still and surgery is always scary but what great news overall! So so happy for you!
  • Wonderful news!
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  • I am so very happy to see your update and know that there is a happy ending for you!!!! Big hugs.
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  • So happy to hear this....wishing you the very best going forward!
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  • That's all wonderful news!
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