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dorener · July 2013

I'm not sure if this is the right place to post but I've read others get angry with other women for posting on wrong board, so I thought this one was best. First I know this is going to sound like I am totally jumping the gun but my mind is going a million miles per hour. It has been a complete roller coaster of ups and downs but unfortunately at 8 weeks I have to have a D&C tomorrow, our baby couldn't survive. They will be able to analyze the tissue and tell us what caused it and also gender. My husband and i have had a little girls name picked out for years, the boy names we were still up in the air with. I had shared with my husband that if we do decide to try again and we found out this loss was a girl and we conceived another girl, I could not use that name as that was this baby's name. He just repeated a couple of times that he really likes that name. He is a fantastic husband and would ultimately agree to what I request but I'm curious if anyone else understands my thought process. Again, I know I sound like I am totally jumping the gun but I'm trying to focus on anything but the loss I am facing. Sorry for the very long winded post and I appreciate your thoughts.

uneek1323 · July 2013

I'm sorry for your loss.

More often than not if you read the description of the board, you will find where you fit.

buggirl72 · July 2013

I'm sorry for your loss. I agree that the miscarriage/loss board is probably the best one for you now and when you are ready to TTC again, then you can intro on TTCAL.

panther422516 · July 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss..but yes the mc board is better for u right now.....I know this is a hard time for your and u will find great compfort in that board as I did....don't try to hide or not acknowledge your feelings for the loss of your child..it may build up one day u might explode. I know u r hurting and don't understand why or what happened ....but please deal with the grief. I wish u the best of luck in future tries...thoughts and prayers r with u

uneek1323 · July 2013

wickedsugar said:

panther422516 said:

I'm so sorry for your loss..but yes the mc board is better for u right now.....I know this is a hard time for your and u will find great compfort in that board as I did....don't try to hide or not acknowledge your feelings for the loss of your child..it may build up one day u might explode. I know u r hurting and don't understand why or what happened ....but please deal with the grief. I wish u the best of luck in future tries...thoughts and prayers r with u
Umm who are you ?? & why are you posting on 6+ ?? You haven't even been on TTCAL long.. And please use full words here, we are all adults here & speak like adults.

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