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I'm having a pity party...

vstevensvstevens member
in January 2014 Moms

I've posted here before about my abnormal NT scan (cystic hygroma)...ever since then, we've had nothing but good news (normal CVS, normal microarray, hygroma disappeared at our 13w5d repeat NT scan).  My OB is super optimistic, as is MH.  But before we get the all clear, we need to check for structural defects (which a cystic hygroma is a marker for) through a fetal echocardiogram, which is scheduled approximately 400 years from now...on August 6.

The waiting is KILLING me.  I keep reading stories about women who had normal chromosome on CVS but then lost their baby unexpectedly because of some other structural defect that wasn't visible at 14 weeks before the fetal echo.  I have been listening to the HB using my doppler every couple of days, which has helped a little, but I can't help but think the hygroma was there for a reason that we just haven't discovered yet. 

Anyway, there isn't really a point to this post other than my whining.  Thanks for listening ladies...

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DS1 born 08.02.11

DS2 born 12.05.13

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  • lmills730lmills730 member
    I am so sorry you are going through this :(. I have all my fingers and toes crossed that everything will be normal on August 6th!
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  • moosebaby2011moosebaby2011 member
    Fx for you! I'm sorry you are dealing with this.
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  • vstevensvstevens member
    Thanks ladies, appreciate the support.  Nothing to do but wait and wait and wait! At least I have TB to keep me feeling somewhat normal :)

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  • FSUNole31FSUNole31 member
    I also will be crossing my fingers that everything looks great on the 6th!!
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  • miam4miam4 member
    Keep strong and I will pray for you! =)


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  • SunflowersBrideSunflowersBride member
    I'm really sorry you are dealing with this, I have been thinking of you!  
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  • ccip82ccip82 member
    Sending you many positive thoughts and vibes! ::hugs::

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  • LuGal623LuGal623 member
    I wouldn't call this a pity party, you've every right to feel anxious about the waiting.  Sending T&Ps your way for the wait to be swift and the results to be positive!
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  • MissRdotSMissRdotS member
    Waiting is the worst! Keeping my FX for you for your appointment!
                                                                                                                         

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  • susieandmartysusieandmarty member
    i imagine the wait is terrible - hope the time passes quickly and there is no issue

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  • Cara1024Cara1024 member
    I am so sorry you are worried. I can only imagine it would be nearly impossible to take you mind off this. (((HUGS)))
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    LuGal623 said:
    I wouldn't call this a pity party, you've every right to feel anxious about the waiting.  Sending T&Ps your way for the wait to be swift and the results to be positive!

    This!  Hopefully time flys and the 6th will be here before you know it and you can get more good news.

     

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  • cpm1223cpm1223 member

    Hope the time starts to go by a little faster for you. Many thoughts and prayers that your results are great!! hugs!!

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  • gina0485gina0485 member
    Stay strong mama, Aug 6 will be here in due time. Thinking of you until then!
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  • dland0201dland0201 member
    Fingers crossed everything looks good on the 6th!
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  • vstevensvstevens member
    Thanks ladies!  I :x this group!

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  • July1215July1215 member
    So sorry you are going through this. Hoping all goes well on August 6th.
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  • goldenBgoldenB member
    so sorry to hear this. I will keep you and your LO on my prayer list.
    sending some canadian hugs your way right now :)

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