Infant carrier

summerbride529 · July 2013

I am looking for an easy and safe way to wear my 3 week old. I tried the k'tan, and although LO loved it, I found it extemely uncomfortable for my back especially. I just purchased an Ergo but didn't get the infant insert. I was trying to avoid it because of how hot others have said it is. LO is approximately 12lbs already but from what I understand the insert should be used until he has proper head control. Is this true? Should I look into another carrier for the infant stage? I've read that mei tais are easy to use but are they safe for such a young baby? If so, any recommendations? Thanks so much!

opheliainwaders · July 2013

I think you do need to wait until they have head control to use the Ergo without the insert. Have you tried a ring sling? I was a skeptic, but it's great! It's let me wear DD since she was 5 lbs, and I also think it's actually helping her develop neck/head control.

tokenhoser · July 2013

Is there a store or babywearing group that can show you how to use the k'tan you've got? It shouldn't be uncomfortable with a newborn if you've got it on correctly. I'm guessing a few adjustments and you'd find it great. Or else try watching a few more youtube videos on how to get it on. If you've got the right size and you get the fabric spread well over your shoulders and back, it shouldn't hurt.

summerbride529 · July 2013

I actually returned the k'tan already. I had a friend show me how to put it on but I don't have a babywearing store or group in my area unfortunately. I have a ring sling that I will try. Any other thoughts on the mei tai?

cpmich · July 2013

A mei tie is a good option, so is a ring sling, infant Kinderpack, or manduca.

Cricket81 · July 2013

I used my moby for the first time yesterday with my 11 day old DS and it was great! We used the newborn hug hold and he was so snug and supported in there that his head was fine. He conked right out too which was a total bonus.