1st Trimester

Any other first time Mom's in 30's?

Hey everyone-

I am new but super excited to be pregnant!  My husband and I have been ttc for over two years.  I had one induced miscarriage after a blighted ovum in Feb. of last year.  It was devastating!  We have been trying really hard to conceive with no success.  We went last month to see a fertility specialist and was scheduled to go tomorrow to get my first round of medication and have a baseline ultrasound done.  I got up this morning after my period was two days late and took a test! It was positive!  How crazy is that?  I am beyond ecstatic but shocked at the same time.  I have three brothers who all have children but have been waiting for so long to have children of my own.  I am excited and I have a pretty good story to tell my little babe someday!  Is anyone else expecting their first over thirty?  Wanna be a buddy?

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Re: Any other first time Mom's in 30's?

  • jszy10jszy10 member

    SO exciting!!  Great timing...congrats :)

     I will be the big 3-0 in just over a week!

    ME - 31, DH - 40

    Married 06/25/2011, TTC since 03/2012

    BFP #1 on 11/13/12 -- EDD 7/24/13 -- M/C (CP) on 11/21/12

    BFP #2 on  7/21/13 -- EDD 3/29/14 -- M/C (CP) on 7/31/13

    09/4/13 - 4/16/14 -- IUI #1 - 6 = BFNs :(

    7/13/14 -- IVF #1 w/ ICSI

    ER on 7/26/14 -- 20 R, 15 M, 11 F

    ET on 7/31/14 -- 1 transferred (4bb); 8 frosties!!!

    BFP #3 on 8/8/14 -- EDD 04/18/15

    BETA #1:  473,  BETA #2: 1009, BETA #3: 1975

    ** It's a BOY!!! **

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  • Hi!

    Congratulations! What exciting news! Talk about perfect timing.

    I'm new to this board as well, I'm 33 and this is our first pregnancy. I'm 9 weeks and nervous as can be. 

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  • YEAH to all of us!  I read a poll on another site that said how old is too old to ttc.  I won't tell you what it said but I was fuming with the responses!  I am proud to be 30 and having my first child!  A lot of thought and care went into this!  I look forward to hearing from you all as to how things are going for you!  Keep in touch

  • amsatamsat member

     What a neat story you will have for the little one!

    I am finally pregnant with my first as well!  I'm 32 and 6 weeks pregnant!  I was really worried about my age, but all seems well so far!

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  • I'm 32 and am 11 weeks pregnant with our first! I thought it would take awhile for us to conceive...but we were surprised (and so thankful) that it happened our first try.
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  • Congrats!  I just turned 33 this month and will be 6weeks pregnant tomorrow:)
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  • MK1550MK1550 member
    I will be 31 in August & am pregnant with my 1st.  I also had a blighted ovum this past November, and had to see a fertility specialist.  We got pregnant on our first medicated IUI.  Very nervous, but trying to let go of that & be excited!  I'm 6 weeks 3 days.  Congrats to everyone!
  • OMG!  Am I the oldest first time mom here?!?!?  35, and expecting our first.  I was 30 shortly after my husband and I got married, and we enjoyed being married for a while (plus went on some great trips!)  We were on the fence about children for a long time, but am very happy being pregnant so far. 

     Congrats to all the over 30 & expecting!!!

     Lisa

  • imagelisam2013:

    OMG!  Am I the oldest first time mom here?!?!?  35, and expecting our first.  I was 30 shortly after my husband and I got married, and we enjoyed being married for a while (plus went on some great trips!)  We were on the fence about children for a long time, but am very happy being pregnant so far. 

     Congrats to all the over 30 & expecting!!!

     Lisa

    Nope, not the oldest. I'm 36 (will be 37 soon) and expecting my first. That's pretty normal around here where I am (northern NJ/close to NYC) but I've been feeling pretty 'old' on some of these boards. Whatever. I'm a lot smarter now than I was in my 20s, so that's all I have to say about that.

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    BFP #3: baby girl born 3/5/2014

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  • I am 35 as well and I am expecting my first. We just got married last month so we are having a honeymoon baby! I am so excited! And I agree, I am way smarter than I was in my 20s and feeling much more prepared for this in so many ways! Congrats ladies!!
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  • djma81djma81 member
    Congratulations!!!!! First time Mom here....ill be 32 or 33 when baby gets here, depending on if he comes early or not!
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  • I am 34, hubby is 38.  We have been trying for a while.  I am 9 weeks pregnant tomorrow! 

    =)

    Good Luck! 

  • I am 35 and expecting my first.
  • I'm 31 and pregnant with my first. 
    Married 4-26-2011  Me 31 DH 28  
    TTC since 12/2011  
    5/4/13-IUI #1=BFN,  6/3/13-IUI #2=BFN, 7/1/2013-IUI #3=BFP!!!
    Little Man arrived 3/28/14 at 10:32pm
    9 lb 1 oz & 21 3/4 inches



  • I'll be 30 at the end of October and will still be that age when I have our first. Stick out tongue
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    -- DS 3.8.14
    -- MC 9.22.16 at 8 wks




  • I'm 33 and expecting our first (but 3rd pregnancy). We had been trying over a year and are so excited for this!  Fingers crossed it all continues to go well. My loss brain has a mind of its own!!
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  • MaDa8MaDa8 member
    I'm 37 and we're expecting our first. I'm in my 8th week and nervous, excited, etc. We had been trying for a while and was about to start clomid when I got my BFP at the doc's office, after talking about clomid. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that everything goes well. And the same for all!
  • TggantTggant member
    37 with first. will be 38 for delivery.  I just keep thinking that Halle Berry was older for her first and is pregnant again (right? thought i read that somewhere), so pishshaw to whatever that other site said about too old for ttc! 
  • Naniebeans how funny! I am also 35, got married last month, and am now pregnant with a honeymoon baby as well! :

    Congrats to everyone! Very exciting!
  • I am 34, first pregnancy for me!
    baby boy: 3.19.2014
  • Hello im 32 will be 33 when i have the baby in i live in orlando.
    I have 3 boys hope i get my girl. BabyFetus Ticker
  • mjcasdmjcasd member
    I am 36 will be 37 when baby is due and this will be our first. We had a miscarriage almost a year ago and haven't been successful since. I was 5 wks when it happened and I was 5 wks today. I am trying not to freak out with every pain or lack of one. I go to the doctor on Thursday and praying for good news. I am so glad to meet all of you...healthy and happy pregnancies to all!
  • Congratulations to all of us first time mommies!

    I'm 31 and 16 weeks pregnant today! 

  • Oh you youngsters!  42 years old and expecting our first.  :)
  • imageMK1550:
    I will be 31 in August & am pregnant with my 1st.  I also had a blighted ovum this past November, and had to see a fertility specialist.  We got pregnant on our first medicated IUI.  Very nervous, but trying to let go of that & be excited!  I'm 6 weeks 3 days.  Congrats to everyone!

    I know what you mean! I am so nervous too!  I just want to see that little baby!  I have my first appointment on August 27th! I wish it was sooner but I am trying not to get upset about it.

  • Go you Belgirl!!!! Very excited for you!  A lady I work with just had her first at 45.  She didn't think she could get pregnant, she is very happy!
  • pregkepregke member

    Hi, 31 here and pregnant with my first (though worried due to low hcg levels).  I'll be buddies!! :)

     

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    31 years old, TTC #1 after MC of blighted ovum 8/15/13.


  • pregkepregke member
    imagemandy72980:

    YEAH to all of us!  I read a poll on another site that said how old is too old to ttc.  I won't tell you what it said but I was fuming with the responses!  I am proud to be 30 and having my first child!  A lot of thought and care went into this!  I look forward to hearing from you all as to how things are going for you!  Keep in touch

     

    too old? pfft.  I have several friends my age who had kids in their late teens/early 20s and they're now reliving their youth.  I'm too old for bar hopping, but not for babies, that's for sure!

     

     

    Pregnancy Ticker
    31 years old, TTC #1 after MC of blighted ovum 8/15/13.


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    imagelisam2013:

    OMG!  Am I the oldest first time mom here?!?!?  35, and expecting our first.  I was 30 shortly after my husband and I got married, and we enjoyed being married for a while (plus went on some great trips!)  We were on the fence about children for a long time, but am very happy being pregnant so far. 

     Congrats to all the over 30 & expecting!!!

     Lisa

    Nope, not the oldest. I'm 36 (will be 37 soon) and expecting my first. That's pretty normal around here where I am (northern NJ/close to NYC) but I've been feeling pretty 'old' on some of these boards. Whatever. I'm a lot smarter now than I was in my 20s, so that's all I have to say about that.

     Totally agree with being smarter in my 30's than when I was in my 20's!!!  And more financially sound!

  • This has been the most fun board to read!  Wishing everyone a safe and healthy pregnancy!  Just got blood drawn for the downs syndrome test today, will find out next week the results.  Anyone else having that test done?  Side note:  it also reads the gender  :O 
  • Hi everyone over 30! I'm 34 now and 11.5 weeks along with my first after having miscarried earlier this year. We had been trying for about 18 month before being blessed this time around. The baby is due the day after my birthday, so I may be 35 when the time finally comes! Agree about being much more mature, financially sound, and in a better potition in my career than I was in my 20s. It's also not that uncommon where I live (Chicago) to be in your 30s when having your first. :-)

    We should start our own board!!

  • I'm 31 and just found out I'm pregnant. Got pregnant on our first try! Guess those "old" eggs weren't expired after all! ;)
  • Im 32 (will be 33 by my EDD) and H is 34.  We had a loss last year as well, so we're keeping our fingers very tightly crossed this time :-)
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  • I'm 33, this is our first pregnancy. We weren't really trying but we weren't preventing, either! I'm excited but cautiously so; until I see my "nugget" on an ultrasound, I just can't let myself get too excited. I'm 9wks, 1 day and first u/s is next Monday. This week is dragging so far!
  • Go you Belgirl!!!! Very excited for you!  A lady I work with just had her first at 45.  She didn't think she could get pregnant, she is very happy!
    LOL.  Thanks.  :)
  • This isn't my first, but I'm 33 almost 34.  Congrats!!!
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  • Hi there! Welcome and Congrats!
    I am 33 and expecting my first as well! I was 31 when I got married and my husband and I took some time to just be married before we started to try.  I took birth control for almost 10 years and stopped in March. 
    It wasn't until June that I finally got a positive ovulation test and BAM!  That day I got pregnant.  It's pretty cool to know the exact day I got pregnant, especially since we were away at a Dave Matthews concert and this baby was conceived in hotel room! And even more cool to know that I was officially making a baby in my belly while at a Dave show.  (Dave is like, my absolute fave and that was my 38th show).  Sorry if that's TMI, but I just wanted to share.  Evidently I'm fertile Myrtle over here.  And I'm not trying to put anyone else down with that comment.  I know it's very hard for some ladies and I totally respect and feel for you all.
    Thanks for sharing your story and can't wait to hear what's to come!  Good luck with everything!
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  • I'm 32 and will be 33 when the baby is born. I'm 6 wks and this is our first! I'm glad to be "older"... I wouldn't have been able to do it in my 20s!! Wishing you all the best!
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  • Hi! I am 34 and pregnant with my first ever! My husband and I are literally having a honeymoon baby!!!! We are so excited and nervous too! I am 4 weeks and 6 days!
  • sh266sh266 member

    I'm 34 and pregnant with our first. We too tried for about 2 years (started seeing a dr after one year) and got pregnant (finally!!!) on our 4th and what would have been final IUI. I am very nervous about getting through this first trimester.  It seems like nothing has been easy for us and, yes, I would have much rather had this kid at 32, but I'll take it when I can, so fingers crossed!! I need a crystal ball! lol 

    Also, we wanted to enjoy a few years after we got married just to ourselves for a while!  I see lots of people on these boards who are either just married or about to be. I think anyone who's married (or has been) would agree it's not always easy, so I can't imagine throwing a kid on top of that right away.

    Love the too old for bar hopping comment. Me too, except once or twice a year I forget that and it all does downhill lol

    TTC Since July 2011  34 years old Unexplained IF
    3 failed IUI's, 6/2013 - IUI #4 150mg clomid, BFP, 7 weeks heartbeat, M/C at 9 weeks

    IUI#5 (Oct) & 6 (Nov) 150mg clomid -BFN

    Last IUI on 12/7 and that's the end of the road...onto adoption if that is what is meant to be for us. 


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