Flame Free Friday Confessional

huntjul · July 2013

Remember, these are confessions not opinions (that was yesterday!)

e.g. My husband should have to clean my shower every day = opinion

I beat my husband unless he cleans my shower every day = confession

And it's not guaranteed flame free regardless of what we call it!

huntjul · July 2013

I declined my Rhogam Indifferent

But only because DH and I are both Rh negative blood types, so unless baby is part Jesus Christ, there's no actual need for it. BTW my OB was fine with this decision.

I'm going to go duck and cover.

JLW0504 · July 2013

I am a Michael Buble fan...

Weljadraak · July 2013

16 and pregnant is my guilty pleasure.

huntjul:
And it's not guaranteed flame free regardless of what we call it!

lol, nice disclaimer.

emmylou78 · July 2013

Weljadraak:
16 and pregnant is my guilty pleasure.

I could have entire conversations on the cast of teen mom

Mwatkins13 · July 2013

I enjoy Here Comes Honey Boo Boo... Embarrassed

scarver · July 2013

I want to quit my job and be a stay at home mom, but we cant afford it and it makes me mad that my husband doesnt make more money - Like its all his fault, which is totally unreasonable but at this hormonal moment thats how I feel!

babydoll22308 · July 2013

Mine isn't very juicy....but....I am OBSESSED with the smell of laundry. My tide and downy mix is the most amazing smell ever. I actually think it is some smell related hormone change during pregnancy, bc normally I am not this psychotic about it. Also, I love ice. If it could be my only source of nutrition that would be fantastic. Previously working in the dental field, I am being quite the hypocrite chomping on it all day long!

babydoll22308 · July 2013

huntjul:
I declined my Rhogam [:]But only because DH and I are both Rh negative blood types, so unless baby is part Jesus Christ, there's no actual need for it.nbsp; BTW my OB was fine with this decision.I'm going to go duck and cover.

Isn't it only necessary if ome of you were positive?

conradtn · July 2013

scarver:
I want to quit my job and be a stay at home mom, but we cant afford it and it makes me mad that my husband doesnt make more money - Like its all his fault, which is totally unreasonable but at this hormonal moment thats how I feel!

I've had the same thought quite a few times.

MrsStuessyWI · July 2013

huntjul:
I declined my Rhogam
But only because DH and I are both Rh negative blood types, so unless baby is part Jesus Christ, there's no actual need for it. BTW my OB was fine with this decision.
I'm going to go duck and cover.

I didn't think this was an issue. I mean, if you know the kid is DH's and you know you are both negative it's fine. My Dr. had my DH get his blood tested so we would know his blood type for sure. He ended up being positive, but if he would have been negative my Dr. would definitely not have had me get the shot. He told me it wasn't necessary at all and when pregnant it is usually best to avoid things that are not necessary. (as long as you know for sure.)

Welshgirl12 · July 2013

I cleaned my shower first thing when we bought our house in January...and havent dont it again since... we sqeegee off the excess water every day but I kind of feel like the water washes the dirt away lol

elllaf · July 2013

JLW0504:
I am a Michael Buble fan...

Me too! He is so sexy and I could listen to him sing forever.

ETA:

Heather6789:
Weljadraak:
16 and pregnant is my guilty pleasure.

I could have entire conversations on the cast of teen mom

I love teen mom and never miss an episode.

My confession...I STILL haven't had sex with dh since bfp.

Woodfairyamber · July 2013

I never truly I believed I was pregnant until I could actually feel her moving. I always had dreams of having another miscarriage. You would think with as many miscarriages I have had I would be jumping for joy. Nope I tried to distance myself just in case, and never got excited about it until I felt her move. I feel terrible about it :

elllaf · July 2013

Woodfairyamber:
I never truly I believed I was pregnant until I could actually feel her moving. I always had dreams of having another miscarriage. You would think with as many miscarriages I have had I would be jumping for joy. Nope I tried to distance myself just in case, and never got excited about it until I felt her move. I feel terrible about it :

:::hugs:::
I had just 1 mc and I did the same. Don't beat yourself up about it. You have to protect yourself after a broken heart.
I'm so happy you and I have sticky babies now!

JLW0504 · July 2013

elllaf:
JLW0504:
I am a Michael Buble fan...

Me too! He is so sexy and I could listen to him sing forever.

ETA:
Heather6789:
Weljadraak:
16 and pregnant is my guilty pleasure.

I could have entire conversations on the cast of teen mom

I love teen mom and never miss an episode.

My confession...I STILL haven't had sex with dh since bfp.

My DH and I have only had sex once since the BFP. ::mobile sad face::

Woodfairyamber · July 2013

elllaf:
Woodfairyamber:
I never truly I believed I was pregnant until I could actually feel her moving. I always had dreams of having another miscarriage. You would think with as many miscarriages I have had I would be jumping for joy. Nope I tried to distance myself just in case, and never got excited about it until I felt her move. I feel terrible about it :

:::hugs:::
I had just 1 mc and I did the same. Don't beat yourself up about it. You have to protect yourself after a broken heart.
I'm so happy you and I have sticky babies now!

Thanks, I am very happy and grateful now, I had four previous miscarriages and it was awful. I am happy for you too!! It's the best thing in world!!

Scientist23 · July 2013

DH came to bed at 3:30 this morning and woke me up (normally he sleeps in the basement since he gets off work so late). Since I was awake and not falling back to sleep since I am in the middle of this crazy insomnia bout I decided I wanted to get some. So I snuggled backwards into him.

After we DTD I totally made him feel like it was his idea and blamed him for keeping me awake haha.

Maybe I'll get some delicious lunches out of it this weekend?

MrsStuessyWI · July 2013

Woodfairyamber:
I never truly I believed I was pregnant until I could actually feel her moving. I always had dreams of having another miscarriage. You would think with as many miscarriages I have had I would be jumping for joy. Nope I tried to distance myself just in case, and never got excited about it until I felt her move. I feel terrible about it :

Don't feel terrible about that. I have never had a loss, but I still didn't really believe it until I felt her. I mean, I even had an ultrasound at 10 weeks and we could see her moving around and I still sort of didn't believe it. It all just happened so fast. (the making of the baby that is) I kept feeling like someone was tricking me or something. I hope you are able to feel excited now. I know I am getting excited and finally believe no one is trying to trick me.

jorkz821 · July 2013

carriet2018:
let me start off by saying i am grumpy today because i am going to a wedding in 100 degree heat today...the bride is not a bridezilla from what i knownbsp;But my confession: i am over weddings. i feel like they are all about "one upping" the others and there isn't much emphasis left on the actual reason we are there and the couple and their love. i am sure 2 years ago i am guilty of this myself on some level although i did try to keep the day about "us".

I agree with this. It's just a day, the bigger deal is all the days after.

I blame Pinterest.

sweettwilight16 · July 2013

conradtn:
scarver:
I want to quit my job and be a stay at home mom, but we cant afford it and it makes me mad that my husband doesnt make more money - Like its all his fault, which is totally unreasonable but at this hormonal moment thats how I feel!
I've had the same thought quite a few times.

This. Especially when I have friends who can afford it.

ashleymarie512 · July 2013

Woodfairyamber:
I never truly I believed I was pregnant until I could actually feel her moving. I always had dreams of having another miscarriage. You would think with as many miscarriages I have had I would be jumping for joy. Nope I tried to distance myself just in case, and never got excited about it until I felt her move. I feel terrible about it :

I lost this baby's twin at about seven or so weeks and I still worry about something happening to her and that ill go in at an appt to find no heartbeat. I start to panic on days she's not as active, but feeling movement definitely helps. I also tried to not get too excited at first for fear of jinxing things! You're not alone!!

sfshorter · July 2013

I'm tired of being the bread winner and the "responsible" one that worries about getting things done. I feel like not worrying about it in my house = nothing is ever going to get done about anything unless I do it myself.

Sometimes I wonder what would happen if I just quit doing everything, financially and household business wise, and just sat on my and acted as nonchalant as DH. I have DD and this LO to think about though, so I could never do that.

Also, I just ate a banana for breakfast then came to work and had two donuts. And I'm double fisting sweet tea and coffee.

sweettooth87 · July 2013

I stalk my amazon registry and totally judge what people decide to buy. Horrible I know. For example, one of my friends bought me the diaper genie... great gift and I'm glad someone got it off my registry; however, I find it funny that of all things in her price range, she decided to buy the poop bucket! She doesn't have kids (actually, she hates kids) and doesn't have any nieces or nephews so her reasoning can't be because she knows it's a great product (or something in that realm), etc. I just think it's funny.

Weljadraak · July 2013

Heather6789:
I could have entire conversations on the cast of teen mom

TM3 and TM2 season 5 are coming up!

sweettwilight16 · July 2013

elllaf:
My confession...I STILL haven't had sex with dh since bfp.

Oh good- I'm not the only one!!!

MrsStuessyWI · July 2013

Sweet Tooth 87:
I stalk my amazon registry and totally judge what people decide to buy. Horrible I know. For example, one of my friends bought me the diaper genie... great gift and I'm glad someone got it off my registry; however, I find it funny that of all things in her price range, she decided to buy the poop bucket! She doesn't have kids (actually, she hates kids) and doesn't have any nieces or nephews so her reasoning can't be because she knows it's a great product (or something in that realm), etc. I just think it's funny.

I check the 2 registries I have on a daily and sometimes hourly basis. Someone bought the first thing off there a couple of days ago and I got so excited I thought I was going to pee myself. Now I am addicted. My shower is in 2 weeks, so as it gets closer I imagine there will be more bought. I don't know who buys what though, so I am making a game out of guessing who it is buying certain things.

Ayreka · July 2013

I don't want to have sex at all for the remainder of this pregnancy. It gives me contractions, which make me paranoid I will go into labor early again, and I just haven't felt like it. I know that the hubs still needs affection and attention and I'm totally sucking at showing it to him. The bad part of it is that while I am now happy about this baby and I love it I still blame him for rescheduling and putting off getting his vasectomy after our DD and blame him for this pregnancy. I know that it takes two to tango but part of me thinks that starving him sexually is a good punishment for him making me go through pregnancy again.

Ayreka · July 2013

Brandontricia:
Since being pregnant I feel like I stink! I shower daily, use deodorant, and perfume,and I still smell me! It like my new scent. My husband says I smell good but I can still smell my stench! So on a daily basis I make DH smell my , my whoha , and everything else trying to find the source. He has yet to find it, but he still does a stink check daily just to appease me! Boo for being a crazy stinky girl!

I'm cracking up at your poor hubby having to do a daily whoha check. Poor guy.

AlwaysForgetful · July 2013

I don't want to go shopping today but I need to. It is Bike Time here and all the bikers are out in full force. We have a lot of Ahole ones and both DH and I have had issues with them. Every time I see a "Save a life, look twice for bikers" sign, I want to rip it up.

MrsStuessyWI · July 2013

babysteps23:
I enjoyed my pregnancy with my son. I was cute and I wanted it and had been trying. Everything was a miracle. This time I'm like UGH. My vag is swollen and throbbing, my legs are full of varicose veins, I've exploded with stretch marks and I'm dreading taking care of a newborn with an extremely needy toddler. So, I'm dreading October.

Also, because it has been so hot and humid here I haven't taken my toddler outside in 2 days. And I won't be today. It makes me feel really ill and he turns the color of a cherry tomato. Am I awful?

yep, I'm calling CPS. seriously though, I don't blame you. If I wasn't a paid nanny I wouldn't take this kid outside ever. I am looking forward to October however, because I just don't love being pregnant and am ready for it to be over.

MrsStuessyWI · July 2013

ok, so here is my actually confession: I wasn't surprised at my appt last week when my Dr. told me my iron was low. I know it is because I have been craving dirt. yep, you read that right. It has happened before. In high school I got some sand in my mouth and I liked it and craved it and actually ate a little. Then we found out I was super anemic and once I took supplements the craving went away

So, the past couple months I have been craving dirt again. Haven't eaten any this time, but I have come close. I am now taking some more iron on top of my prenatal and so hopefully it will go away.

haha... I'm a weirdo.

Ayreka · July 2013

MrsStuessyWI:
ok, so here is my actually confession: I wasn't surprised at my appt last week when my Dr. told me my iron was low. I know it is because I have been craving dirt. yep, you read that right. It has happened before. In high school I got some sand in my mouth and I liked it and craved it and actually ate a little. Then we found out I was super anemic and once I took supplements the craving went away
So, the past couple months I have been craving dirt again. Haven't eaten any this time, but I have come close. I am now taking some more iron on top of my prenatal and so hopefully it will go away.
haha... I'm a weirdo.

I had a strong desire to lick the pump when I got gas last week. The same thing happened when I put rubbing alcohol on my sons cut. I do have low iron, maybe that is why I am a weirdo too.

KimCousino · July 2013

scarver:
I want to quit my job and be a stay at home mom, but we cant afford it and it makes me mad that my husband doesnt make more money Like its all his fault, which is totally unreasonable but at this hormonal moment thats how I feel!

I have the same feeling! I hate only spending a few hours a day with my kids during the week!

Ajoyd · July 2013

Brandontricia:
Last: Girls! You all need to take one for the team and give your DHs some loving! I was NOT a fan of prego lady sex, but I stuck to it. Although, it is different it has been fabulous! So your weekend challenge is to give it up! Unless medically you can't. That's all!

My DH hasn't really been into the pregnant sex. Not because he thinks I'm less attractive or some bullsh*t, it just weirds him out a little. Fine by me!

Foutzie44 · July 2013

I feel great this pregnancy, like 100! I work out at least 5x a week and feel stronger and better then ever. I feel guilty when everyone talks about pain, uncomfortableness, etc....

I felt ok my pregnancy with DS, but had horrible hip pain, ate like crap and never ever worked out...I feel guilty I wasn't healthier then for him...

trackgirlparis · July 2013

I'm currently in the dentist office waiting room, waiting for FI to get five teeth fixed/filled/capped. I've never seen him with "good" teeth before, other than old photos. He wanted to get them fixed before our wedding next month.

Confession: although I've gotten used to the condition of his teeth and didn't really care if they were fixed before the wedding, I'm secretly ecstatic and afraid when he comes out I'm gonna realize how much more attractive he is. I hope I don't make him feel bad about how he normally looks because he's SUPER self conscious about the teeth issue!

AshleighW13 · July 2013

babysteps23:
I enjoyed my pregnancy with my son. I was cute and I wanted it and had been trying. Everything was a miracle. This time I'm like UGH. My vag is swollen and throbbing, my legs are full of varicose veins, I've exploded with stretch marks and I'm dreading taking care of a newborn with an extremely needy toddler. So, I'm dreading October.

Also, because it has been so hot and humid here I haven't taken my toddler outside in 2 days. And I won't be today. It makes me feel really ill and he turns the color of a cherry tomato. Am I awful?

I can't take DS out either, he won't slow down and rest and turns the same color. The humidity here went through the roof this week after all the rain we've been getting so it's just miserable. Your not awful I'm not doing it either.

Weljadraak · July 2013

Ayreka:
I don't want to have sex at all for the remainder of this pregnancy. It gives me contractions, which make me paranoid

I've had a pretty healthy sex life but last time we had sex (recently), there was cramping and a smiiiddgee of pink on him. I hear it's normal, but it made me cautious.

Ajoyd · July 2013

Brandontricia:
Ajoyd:
My DH hasn't really been into the pregnant sex. Not because he thinks I'm less attractive or some bullsh*t, it just weirds him out a little. Fine by me!
I guess if it mutual, it is not really a problem. Not the case with my DH so I took one for the team until I started enjoying if again.

Yeah, I'm sure if he was more into it I would do it more often. I do look forward to getting my libido back at some point!

Amcdonnel1028 · July 2013

I wish my inlaws would move to a far away state.

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