ANyone have arrested decent with their first child (small pelvic opening) and have a successful VBAC the second time around? I'm getting more and more discouraged as the time gets closer to having #2. My water broke and I dilated to a 10, pushed for 2 hours and was told I was in arrested decent. DS still hadn't dropped and once CS was over, the doctor told my DH that I would never be able to deliver vaginally.
I think I'm most nervous about a VBAC because of the arrested decent and it happening again. Also, they told me that even if I go into active labor myself (water breaks or whatever), no pitocin will be given at all.
DH is on board and fully supports me to have a VBAC and understands why I want one but he also doesn't want anything to happen to me or the baby.