Late Term and Child Loss

Mindless babble

Is just me or does everyone seem pregnant on this board? Don't get me wrong, I am very happy for everyone that is having their Rainbow Baby but I am not pregnant and not even sure my DH ever wants another one. It hurts to feel alone.

Thanks for listening and I send thoughts and prayers for all the ladies that are expecting for healthy happy pregnancies and babies.

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  • I was just looking on the board today and thinking that same exact thing.  While I am so excited for everyone else and hope that they do get their rainbow babies, I feel sad that I am not pregnant.  My DH is also on the fence about trying again.  I'm just trying to stay positive and hoping that after he hears what our new midwives group has to say at our preconception consultation, he will change his mind.  Hugs and hope you have a better day tomorrow.

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  • I would agree that right now, it seems like there has been a wave a pregnancies. That is a good thing! I am so happy for my loss moms who are pregnant again, but sometimes it can feel lonely. Sometimes it bothers me, sometimes it doesn't. It just depends on where I am in my grief on any given day.

    But, I do realize how different a pregnancy after a late loss is, and how support is still needed, and it can be hard to fit in on the PGAL board sometimes. I hope we can all be sensitive to all the different situations here. I do think the ticker warnings are always needed on this board and I know I appreciate them.
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  • I understand how you feel. But it does honestly give me hope that I will be getting a BFP sometime soon so I like seeing them, but I also have times where I am like grrrr! LOL... I hope your hubby does change his mind though and you will soon be one of the ladies on here pregnant!


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  • I was thinking the same thing...just because a lot of the ladies I came in around the same time with are pregnant. I'm very happy for them, but I want to be pregnant too.

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  • Yeah, I think those of us who joined around the same time are noticing the BFPs.  I was thinking the same.  I am so happy for everyone expecting their rainbows!  BuT it's really tough.  I hope we are all in the same boats very soon.  Hugs!!! 

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  • HOnestly, I had to step away from this board and the FB group for awhile because I was feeling way too bitter about all of the rainbow babies and pregnancies, especially from ladies who had losses more recent than mine. Not begrudging anyone their happiness, it was just an issues place for me (and still kind of is). Hugs.
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  • Thank you ladies for all your responses. I kind of felt bad for posting this on Friday. Again, I am very happy for everyone that is pregnant again. Smile

     

    I keep hearing that there is a FB group for this board. How do I get on it or even find it? I would really like to be on it.

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  • Funny you should bring this up, I've been MIA for a week on vacation, and was catching up on posts when I just thought the same thing - lots of BFP.

     For whatever reason, maybe because I don't personally know you all and don't SEE you face to face, it's a lot easier for me to see BFP on this board than it is in person (if that makes sense)

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