Parenting after a Loss

Early BPF + T&P Request for my family

The time has come for me to say goodbye to my mother after a long 12 year battle with lung cancer. I got the call last night that she is in congestive heart failure and her lungs are filling with fluid and despite being on high oxygen she can't breathe well enough. She's been on a slow decline since December when they had to cancel her chemo because her body couldn't handle it so we knew this was coming I just had no idea when. DH and I are taking the boys to see her one last time tomorrow so I will be absent for BPF because we will be on a 500 mile trip with newborn twins.

It's going to be a very very long weekend for us so if you could send some T&Ps for our safe journey and a peaceful passing for my mother it would be greatly appreciated. 

Have a great weekend ladies.

Here's the latest of my kiddos at ~15 weeks. Sawyer is the grumpy one and Silas is the goofy one.

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Me: PCOS, DH: normal
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8/31/2012 = BFP!!
First Ultrasound... TRIPLETS! EDD 5/11/13
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Baby A & B doing great. A/S 12/10/12 - Healthy BOYS!
Sawyer & Silas born at 33+6 on 3/29/13
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  • TP for a peaceful passing for your mother. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother.  I will be thinking of you and your family over this weekend and praying for your mother.  Take care of yourself and those beautiful little boys.  I'm so glad they get to see her tomorrow.  ((HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry honey. Even though you had an idea it was coming I can't imagine that making it an easier for you. I am sending all my thoughts and prayers your way. :::hugs:::

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  • Huge hugs to you and your family and sending many T&Ps.  I'm so sorry.
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  • Oh my gosh, this breaks my heart for you. I'm so sorry. T&P's are with you and your family.

    And as a side note, your boys are ridiculously adorable.

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  • I am so sorry. Prayers for peace for you and your family.
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  • I'm so sorry. Sending lots of TP's to you and your family.

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  • Many, many thoughts and prayers for you and your family during this difficult time!

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  • Sending t and p's to you and your family. I am so sorry for your impending loss, and wish you and your mama peace and comfort. Saying goodbye is never easy, know that we're rooting for you over here on PAL. And seriously, 15 weeks already?!?! So cute! Hope you're holding up okay!
     
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  • I am so sorry for this difficult time and sending lots of hugs, T&Ps. 

     

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  • Big hugs! I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Many T and P's for you, your family and your mom.

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  • ((Hugs)) and many T&Ps for your mother and your family.
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    I'm so sorry about your mom. TnP's everything goes as smoothly as possible. The boys are adorable as always.
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    I'm sorry, Rachel. I hope those sweet boys bring her lots of joy. Praying for peace for you all.
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    Oh Rachel, I am so sorry.

    I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

    ((Hugs)) 

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  • Oh, Rachel! I am so incredibly sorry to hear this news. I lost my mom last September to Leukemia... You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. If you need to talk, please PM me! I don't even know what else to say, other than I've been there, it sucks, and I will be there for you! 

    On another note, your boys are beautiful as always, and I adore their onesies!

    Big, HUGE, (((HUGS))) to you and your whole family. May you feel God's loving presence close at hand.  

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Many t and p for you and your family. Your boys are beautiful!
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  • I'm so very sorry.  Huge (((hugs))) xoxo

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  • I am so so sorry to hear that!!!  Hopefully shes not in pain.  Lots of prayers for you and your family!!! 
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