When I first found DCUM, I was excited because it's local and way more active than our area board here, but I've quickly realized very few posters are interested in actually answering questions/giving advice. At least 75% of the replies are just snark and rudeness and because of the anonymous factor, you can't even flag people who are obvious trolls. Ufg, I'm so done.
Re: DCUM = snarkiest place ever?
-My step-daughter is 12 years old.
-BFP #1 on 9/2/12, D&C 10/18/12 no heartbeat on US @ 10 weeks.
-BFP #2 on 1/7/13, R was born on 9/22/13 via C-Section
DCUM = DC Urban Moms
It's a weblog with several forums but no login is required and most posts are anonymous, which makes for an odd dynamic. Occasionally, you can get useful info but even a sincere question will usually get you 50-70% attitude.