Baby shower host

helia.d · July 2013

So my friend is throwing me a baby shower. When she threw me my bridal shower she complained that the bridesmaids didn't participate much. But in this case there are at least 3 to 6 people who have offered to help. The shower is suppose to be 4 weeks from today. No one has received an invitation and my other friends who want to be involved haven't heard from the "host". I txt her yesterday stating that the other friends haven't heard from her yet and wanted to know what they could do to help but I got no response. One of the other girls said she is going to call/txt her this week regarding it. What's weird is that the host is not usually one to procrastinate on things like this. She has 2 kids and works but if she is too busy then she should say something. This is my first baby and I would like to actually have a baby shower that wasn't thrown together last minute, something that some thought was put into it, like the one I had for her. Advice?

EastCoastBride · July 2013

If this isn't normal for her, maybe call her and talk to her and feel her out. If something g is going on/ she seems overly busy, maybe tell her that you'd fully understand if she feels she needs to step back from hosting.

dufferoo · July 2013

discobelle:
As the host, it's up to her when she wants to start planning. She may already have things in the works; if not, four weeks (or less) is plenty of time to plan a nice shower.
Relax and let her do her thing.

Totally this. your friends can call/text her and she can contact them, but you should stay out of it.

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