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• Roeni member

  July 2013

  Sending hugs your way.  I am so sorry this did not work.

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• Ifatfirstyoudontsucceed member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry. Hope AF comes soon so that you can move forward, and hope that RE has some good suggestions for next time. This WILL happen for you!

  TTC 3 years 2011 Myomectomy 2012 Referred to RE BFP Naturally, ectopic IUI#1, BFP, ectopic (other side) 2013 Fallopian tubes removed due to damage and hydrosalpinx IVF#1: 8 frosties, no transfer due to fluid in lining FET#1: cancelled due to fluid in lining

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• AJC&Maggie member

  July 2013

  So sorry

  Me:35,  DH: 39   

  TTC since March 2011. All bloodword, SA & HSG are normal.  

  8/12: Clomid & TI - BFN 

  10/12: Colmid & TI - BFN 

  3/13:  Clomid, Trigger & IUI - BFN 

  4/13: Gonal F, Trigger & IUI: BFN  

  6/13: IVF #1 (1AA blast & 1BB blast) = BFN 

  8/13: FET #1= BFN

  10/13: FET #2= BFP!!!

  
  

    

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• mfarmer0811 member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry. Thoughts and prayers coming your way!

  Me 28 DH 30 Married 08-11-07 TTC since 07/11 HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB Seeing RE 1-28-13 RE 1-28-13 Both tubes blocked LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
  

  Beta #1-BFP!!! HCG-55 Beta #2--111 Beta #3--2,825 Beta #4 22,031 1st U/S 7-29-13 Saw and heard our little sweet pea's heartbeat!! 109 bpm 
  
  

  
  

  
  

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• ekc0630 member

  July 2013

  Hugs!

  TTC 2007

  Me-OK DH- MFI

  2010 IUI 1-3 Femara + Ovidrill BFN

  Change DR 5/12 IUI 4-5 Natural Cycle BFN

  5/13 DH diagnosed with b1/b3 microdeletion of Y chromosome

  IVF #1 July  Started Lupron 7/5 AF 7/14

  ER 8/1 7R 5M 3F W/ICSI ET 8/6 Moved to 8/7 due to no blast 

  Transferred our UNO embryo Beta #1 27 Beta #2 33 Beta #3 29 CP

  IVF #2 Started Lupron 2/14 

  Protocol 10U Lupron, 150 Bravelle, 150 Menopur, HGH for 4 days, Dexamethesone, 

  Supplements 6000mg CoQ10, 100mg DHEA, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, 

  ER 3/12 8R 4 able to be injected 2f with ICSI ET 3/15 2 "perfect" textbook Embryos

  2 crinone, estrace, dexamethesone, doxycycline

  BETA #1 3/26 201  BETA #2 3/28 524  BETA #3 4/5 9,876  Ultrasound April 7 Showed TWINs

  April 18 ultrasound Baby A HB 147   Baby B HB 146  Both measuring 7w1d

  WE ARE TEAM BLUE X2!

  Jonathan Daniel received his angel wings July 23, 2014 born 9/20/14

  Jackson Thomas was born October 31, 2014 @ 35w 5d

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• daiseydooda member

  July 2013

  I am so sorry. Unexplained IF is so frustrating. HUGS

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

        

  
  

   TTC since 9/10 consult 1/12 All testing came back fine Diagnosed with Unexplained infertility -3 medicated IUI's All BFN IVF - ER 11/14 24R, 15M, 13F ET 11/19, BETA 11/28 BFFN --Next step FET in Jan ET scheduled for 1/24. Beta #1 350 Beta #2 735. U/S Hell. miscarriage D&C at 9weeks. FET #2 ET 5/28 cancelled FET# 2.5 6/26 ET Beta 7/5 302 7/7 Beta #2 632 Everyone welcome

  
  

  
  

   

   

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

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• BrideJackie11 member

  July 2013

  I am so so sorry.  Take care of yourself and take whatever break you need.  We will be here when you get back.  Sending ((HUGS))

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  Married June 2011 Dx: anovulatory due to prolactinoma (1.5cmx 1.5cm in 2006)
  April 2012: MRI- questionable cyst 8mg by 12mm in pituitary ; referred to RE by Ob-gyn after amenorrhea x 4+ months, provera ineffective, low estrogen level
  cycle 1: May 2012, clomid 50mg; cycle cancelled, thin lining, no response
  cycle 2: June 2012, femara 5mg; cycle cancelled, no response
  cycle 3: July 2012, femara 7.5mg; cycle cancelled (largest folli on Cd12 & cd 16: 11, lining 4)
  Repeat MRI July 25,2012- Cyst unchanged, likely old infarction.
  Aug. 8: met with RE, move to injectables if HSG and SA normal
  Aug. 23: HSG all clear; DH- perfect
  Switched to a new RE in early Sept. IVF here we come
  Genetic testing reveals: Fragile X- Intermediate risk/grey zone.
  IVF#1: ER 11/30: 14 retrieved, 10 mature, 7 fertilized. E2 prior to trigger 5200. Decision made to freeze 6 embryos and transfer later due to OHSS.
  IVF#1.2/FET #1: estrogen injects start 1/18, FET delayed to try to thicken lining. lining 5.4mm. FET- 2/18- transferred one 3AA expanded blast. BFP 5dp5dt. Beta #1- 2/27 9dp5dt- 102.27 beta #2 3/1: 147 , beta #3 3/4: 268 told to stop meds and let nature take its course. requested 4th beta (3/6); Beta hell for 2 months.

  FET # 2: endometrial scratch 5/6, added estrace vaginally and ASA to delestrogen and PIO. June 10- transferred one 4AA hatched embryo, BFP 4dp6dt, Beta 1 (9dp6dt) 187, Beta 2 (11dp6dt): 412; Beta 3 (15dp6dt ): 4452. U/S #1- one beautiful embryo with a heartbeat of 133 at 7 weeks.  8 weeks: heartbeat 156. EDD 2/26/2014: born 2-3-14 induced due to Pre-E and HELLP at 36w5d.

  12/1: met with RE to discuss trying for #2

  
  

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• beachy6 member

  July 2013

  I'm so very sorry.

  

   ttc #2 since 2004 Me (35): Stage 3 Endo, DH (34): High DNA Frag

  IVF/ICSI #2: April 2014: BFP!!!!!!

  ET of 2 great quality embryos. + BFP on 9dp5dt. Beta #1 (10dp5dt): 257, Beta #2 (14dp5dt): 1561,

  Beta #3 (21dp5d5): 8,172. Wow. It seems this is actually working. Shocked beyond belief.

  1st u/s @6w5d: Baby A hb 124, Baby B hb 127 (Both measuring perfectly!)

  Lost baby A. Praying that baby B stays healthy. Baby B hb 175 at 11 weeks

  It's a GIRL!!!

  

   

   

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• RosyGlow member

  July 2013

  Oh Julieann - I'm so sorry. That's such sad news. Take the time you need to cry, feel sad, and angry. When you're ready to get back on the bandwagon, you know we are all here for you. You are stronger than most women ever need to be - remember that. 

  | Married since 2008 | DH and I: Both 30 | Me: Endometriosis and Carrier of an X-Linked Dominant Genetic Disorder | DH: Low Morph | Planning IVF with PGD and PGS in 2013 | Freeze-All IVF #1: March 2013 ER 3/26. 29R, 12M, 11F. 4 5AA frozen blasts. Freeze-All IVF#2: May 2013 ER 5/15. 31R, 21M, 20F. 6 5AA frozen blasts. Our PGD probe was completed in late June (total of 20 weeks to develop). PGD and PGS Results came on 6/19: 3 healthy embryos (normal chromosomes and unaffected by my family's genetic disorder). FET #1: July 2013 Natural Cycle - Cancelled due to insufficient lining (only got to 7.5mm). FET #1.2: August 2013 - Medicated Cycle with Lupron & Estrogen Patches to build up lining. Single embryo transfer was 8/23. Beta #1: 240! Beta #2: 578! U/S on 9/19 at 6w4d: We saw the heart beating at 131bpm. Second U/S on 10/4 at 8w5d: We saw the heart beating at 178bpm. EDD 5/11/2014

  
  

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• LeggyJeggy member

  July 2013

  I am so sorry.  I hope you find answers at your appointment next week. ((Hugs))

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  TTC since 2011
  

  DH: 29, Severe MFI; grade III varicocele; surgery postponed till KU

  Me: 30, POF/DOR, factor II hetero, MTHFR homo

  5 IVF's, LLP, EEP, MDLF all BFN

  IVF 6 using DEB USA frozen eggs

  developed bilateral PE's from BCP, cancelled/delayed 6 mths, taking lovenox

  Feb'15 SURPRISE 1st BFP ever! EDD: 10/10/15, FX

  Still have frozen donor eggs on ice

  All are welcome!

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• krdesi member

  July 2013

  So sorry.

  
  

  **Siggy/Ticker Warning**   

           
                TTC #1 since May 2012

                May 2013: First R.E. appointment

                DH: SA is good

                 May 2013: CD3 Blood work-normal
             June 2013: Hsg-Right tube blocked

                 July 26, 2013: Starting Follistim for IVF #1

                August 2013: IVF #1 Cancelled- Abnormal embryos

           October/November 2013: IVF #2 w/ICSI

                      November 8, 2013: Transferred two early blasts (no frosties) 

  November 18, 2013: First EVER BFP! 

  Beta#1: 91  Beta#2: 288

  1st U/S- 5w2d Saw yolk sac!

  3rd U/S- 7w4d HB of 157bpm!

  TEAM BLUE!

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• shell3879 member

  July 2013

  So sorry to hear this.  Definitely take some time to yourself. 
  

  Me: 34 DH: 40
  Removed ovarian cysts in Mar 2010 & removed left ovary in May 2010
  TTC since Oct 2011
  Sep 2012 IUI #1 Natural cycle BFN
  Sep 2012 IUI #2 Natural cycle BFN
  Oct 2012 IUI #3 Natural cycle BFN
  Nov 2012 removed uterine polyp
  Feb 2013 IVF #1 ER 2/8: 13R,6M,6F, 3dt of 1 6-cell & 1 7-cell embie, beta hell resulted in blighted ovum.
  June 2013 IVF #2 cancelled due to lining too thick
  July 2013 IVF #2.1 ER 7/9, 9R,4M,2F, 3dt of 2 8-cell embies, BFN
  

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• mmhopeful member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry.

  ************** Siggy Warning************

  
  

  Married August 2012 -- Me (40 yrs old) My husband (45 yrs. old) 

  RE referral from ObGYN in late Jan. 2013 -- Testing Confirms Unexplained IF 

  IUI #"s1 - 3 (Femara + IUI) April - June 2013 - all BFN

    Decided to do IVF... Began stimming on September 10th!  Egg Retrieval 9/20/13.  19 eggs: 6 to mature to freeze after 6 fertilized with ICSI

   3 morula stage embryos transferred on 9/25/13.....Beta #1 on 10/4/13/ = 7.5  Beta #2 on 10/6/13 =  negative

    IVF#2 - Lupron plan  (set to begin on 10/28/13)  (Planning on thawing and fertilizing our 6 eggs with ICSI as well as all of the mature eggs they retrieve with this fresh cycle.)

   Late October 2013 - ectopic pregnancy - methotrexate injection....benched 3 months

  CD1 - 12/5/13...Lupron set to start on 12/26/13; CD1 - 1/2/14....Baseline 1/3/14....begin follistim tonight and continue with lupron.  (Got my calendar today!  IVF#2 is a go!)

  ER = 1/14/14  (11 eggs....9 were mature. 9 fertilized.  Of the 6 mature eggs we thawed, only 4 fertilized.  At this time, we have 13 eggs fertilized and growing.  Waiting for news about a 3-day or 5-day transfer.)

  ET = 1/19/14  (5dt).....3 blastocysts transferred!   (All nine embryos didn't make it to freeze.  =(  )

  Beta #1 = 1/28/14   (2 weeks after ER)  BFP! 209 (9dp5dt)   EDD 10/7/14

  Beta #2 - 1/30/14  (11 dp5dt) 302

  Beta #3 - 2/3/14  (15 dp5dt)  1222 

  Ultrasound set for 2/17/14......TWINS!        Twin A - HR 124 bpm; Twin B - HR 126 bpm

  Final Ultrasound with RE 3/10/14 - Twin A - HR 176 bpm; Twin B - HR 177 bpm.

   PAIF/SAIF Welcome! 

   

   

   

  
  

   

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• monimu13 member

  July 2013

  So sorry.
  

  
  

   
  TTC since July 2011
  BFP #1: 2/15/12-Ectopic/Mtx at 6 wks
  BFP #2: 10/12/12-m/c at 5 wks. 

  BFP #3: 8/27/13
  Me: MTHFR, Low AMH (1.1), High NK cells and Antiphospholipid Antibodies.
  

  DH:MFI-Low morph (1%), DNA fragmentation: Excellent!
  

  5 rounds of clomid, 3 IUIs, and multiple non-medicated cycles- BFFN                                                      
  IVF with ICSI in August 2013 brought us our babies.  ER-9R, 7M, 4F w/ICSI  ET of 2-Grade 2 blasts. 
  

  + HPT at 6dp5dt. #1 (8dp5dt)- 105    #2 (13dp5dt)- 510  #3 (15dp5dt)- 960  #4 (17dp5dt)- 1889
  Dx shortened cervix, PTL, and preeclampsia during pregnancy.  Lots of medications and 13 weeks of bedrest, babies were born healthy at 34w4d!
  
  

  

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• JennySC34 member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry! Take as much time as you need!  

  Five IUI 's and two 3 day IVF transfers and two chemical pregnancies. Unknown to me at the time was that I was hypothyroid and had endometriosis. All that heartache and money and I would have never gotten pregnant. Time for new RE. New RE found the thyroid and endo. I had another 5 day transfer in April when all 7 embryos arrested on day four. Transferred three morali and didn't conceive. Thyroid function is excellent now. DH SCSA came back perfect. Now for IVF number four in June 2013. I had two perfectly expanded blasts put back and five frosties! I have never gotten this far! Now to wait for blood test on 6/26. My heart is In my throat! Please let this work, BFP with HPT 7 days and 8 days after transfer.

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• Sunny B member

  July 2013

  I'm so very sorry

  TTC since May 2012
  Me: 32 H: 31
  

  DX: MFI-Very Low Count, I have Hashimotos.

  IVF prep September 2013 cancelled due to Ovarian Cyst
  IVF #1 October 2013 Antagonistic Protocol with ICSI  ER 10/31/13 (18R 16M 11F- 6 blasts to freeze)
  ET delayed due to OHSS 
  FET scheduled for July 8. Delayed due to a crazy high TSH (it had been under control for YEARS!)
  FET #1 8/5/14 sET BFN 

  
  

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• solisilou member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry. A failed IVF cycle is a really horrible blow and you'll need time to heal and grieve. But I hope your WTF will help you get some closure and allow you to move on. You can count on us for support and a friendly shoulder whenever you need it.
  

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• BeeBee08 member

  July 2013

  I'm sorry.  It is heartbreaking.  Take as much time as you need, we're here for you when you are ready to come back.  ((hugs))

   
  me 33/DH 36
  ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
  ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
  11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
  IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
  Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
  IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
  U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
  Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

  

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• Irishlove16 member

  July 2013

  I'm so so sorry!!

  Married my best friend on 9.6.11 

  Me 31 DH 29 

  TTC since 12/2011 

  Me - all normal test results 

  DH - SA #1, #2 and #3 - 0% morphology 

  Straight to IVF w/ ICSI 

  April 3 - start date for BC 

  April 18 - tentative start date for injections 

  Tentative IVF dates: ER - 4/27 and ET - 5/3!! DELAYED.

  IVF #1 - May 6 - Estrace

  May 17 - started injections!

  ER and ET end of May!! BFFN

  FET #1 - June 28th - BFP!!!!
  

  Beta #1 - 164, Beta #2 - 381

  1st u/s 7/16/13 - 2 sacs with yolks! 1 smaller than the other - Possible Twins?! 

  2nd u/s 7/26/13 - 1 healthy baby with heartbeat of 123bpm! Second sac empty. Next u/s 8/5/13.

  8/5/13 (7w2d) - no heartbeat. Lost our precious LO :-/

  D&C on 8/12/13 - finally neg hcg 2 months later on 10/3/13.

  Saline Songram on 10/10/13 - found polyp :-( post-poned again.

  Hysteroscopy on 10/29/13.

  FET #2 - BFP!!!! :-) 

  Beta #1 - 265, Beta #2 - 692

  12/24-12/28 (6w) - lost our LO (2nd miscarriage in a row)

  RPL panel and Karyotyping; results all normal!

  Started bcp's 1/24/14; saline sonogram 1/30/14 - All clear!!

  IVF #2 02/15/14; ER 02/26/14 - freeze all due to mild OHSS. 

  7 blasts; PGD on all 7 - all 7 normal!!!

  FET #3 4/8/14; BFP!! :-)

  Beta #1 - 235, Beta #2 - 539

  1st u/s - It's TWINS!!!!

  2nd u/s- both babies measuring on track! Heartbeats of 118 and 122!!

  EDD: Christmas Day!!!

  
  

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• diamante1181 member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry. Massive hugs.

  On 10/23/13 Baby Sophie and Baby Gabriel born at 21+5 weeks. They grew wings and flew away from us. May God bless them always. We love you beans!

  

  Phoebe Jaslene born at 19w3d. We love you beba!

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• sorrellam30 member

  July 2013

  I'm so sorry, there is nothing worse than a bfn especially bc it feels like everyone else is getting their bfps. I can only say that it helps going into a second cycle w new expectations and knowing what areas of the ivf to work on. I'm rooting for you and hope your next time is the last time you need.

   

  
  

   

  

   

   

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   Me(31). DH (31)

  DH SA normal count and motility, 1% morphology
  Me .72 AMH, Fragile X premutation carrier
  IVF #1 (6/12/13) BFN

  IVF #2 (8/16/13) BFN

  FET 10/4/13 Chemical

  IVF #3 MC 5 weeks 5 days

  IVF #4 DE 11/7 BFP, edd 7/28/15

  All Welcome

  
  

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• girlgotwings

  July 2013

  Soooooo sorry.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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• babydreams13 member

  July 2013

  So sorry to hear.  Hang in there.  

  ***SIGGY WARNING***
  
  DX: Unexplained

  6 Failed IUIs (Clomid and Gonal F).  

  IVF #1 began August 2013- BC, 4 days of Estrace, stimmed with Gonal F and Menopur, Ganirelix, 9R 5M 5F, Medrol and Doxycycline, 5 day transfer of 2 early blastocysts- good quality, Progesterone, Estrace, and baby aspirin, BETA on 9/20 BFN,   IVF #2 began September 2013, stimming with Gonal F (higher dose) and Menopur, Ganirelix, 18R 14M 9F with ICSI, 5 day transfer of 2 BBs one was starting to hatch, 2 frosties: 1  BB and 1 AC, BETA on 10/21, BFN BETA was a 5- chemical 

  Getting some more testing and trying to figure out what the issue is before FET in December, started acupuncture on 11/10, RLP and some other BW nothing major to report except slightly high Prolactin. Prolactin was slightly high when I started with my RE and I already had an MRI which was Neg.  Endo biopsy=negative.  WTF is wrong with us???

  12/18/13 FET of 1 BB and 1 AC.  Hoping for a miracle.  Beta 12/26 Low BETA-8 2nd BETA 5- chemical

  After 3 failed transfers IDK where to go from here.  Still no real answers as to why this isn't working.  Getting a second opinion in February and looking into immune testing.  

  2/14- NEW RE- Immune testing showed a partial dq alpha match with DH- On prednisone and did intralipids prior to transfer.  3/14 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, HGH.  ER 15 mature all 15 fertilized!  5dt of an early blast grade 1 and an expanded blast grade 2.  BETA on 4/21.  1 grade 2 embryo frozen
  BETA #1 59 BETA #2 148 BETA #3 283 BETA #4 2,783! US at 6w2d shows 1 bean measuring right on track! HR 121.  US at 8w3d measuring on track HR 177. Released form my RE.  EDD 12/28
  

  
  

  
  

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• kjf114 member

  July 2013

  I am so sorry, IF is so unfair .. Sending lots of love and prayers your way for strength and positive thoughts for your next fet. xox

         
  
  Me: 28, DH: 30 TTC since March 2012
  PCO & MTHFR Homozygous/Severe MFI (undescended teste & double hernia as baby)

  12/12: 50mg clomid= bfn
  1/13: 100mg clomid= bfn
  2/13: 100mg clomid= bfn 
  6/13: IVF/ICSI (x1 4AA)=BFFN ~49R, 44M, 33F, 14 frosties  OHSS
  8/13: FET #1 (x1 4AA)=First EVER BFP 4dp5dt!! d&c @ 6.5 wks, blighted ovum
  10/13: FET #2 (x2 4AA)= BFP 4dp5dt! Twins!!, perfect u/s then spontaneous m/c @ 5 wks
  11/13= RPL/Karotyping= MTHFR Homozygous c667t
  1/14= FET #3 our 2 year anniversary & hopefully our miracle

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