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August 2013 Moms
jenniferw91
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Sex questions...
jenniferw91
member
With the bellies getting bigger every day have you ladies found any positions that are more comfortable than others? Or have things just come to a complete stop?
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Re: Sex questions...
When you've been married this long, you need a ticker to remind you.
Baby Boy M - 08/01/2013
Expecting Baby Bean February 2017
Me on top or from behind.
This is me too.
"Are you done yet?" "Hurry up, this isn't working!" Good thing his mood isn't easily ruined. lol
This made me LOL. I have thought about telling him this but I feel bad cause we only do it about once every couple of weeks.
We've found other positions that work well for MH still, but haven't had too much luck on my part. I would, however, highly recommend a kama sutra book for inspiration. Got ours on amazon and LOVE it. Plus it's cartoons, so if LO comes across it, it's not like their finding a porno.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1588169715/ref=oh_details_o06_s00_i01?ie=UTF8&psc=1
Same here.
Ditto. Although its becoming less and less as the weeks go on.
BFP #1 mm/c at 12w1d
What are ab muscles?? haha.
If sex ever felt like a chore or if it were something that I wasn't comfortable with, we definitely wouldn't do it. In the second tri, I had next to no desire for a couple months and DH was very understanding - we did other things. Now that we are getting closer to delivery, I'm inclined to have sex more frequently knowing that once the baby comes it will be awhile due to healing, tiredness, and the inevitable body issues I'll have. Maybe it's my form of nesting. Kidding, kidding.
lol this sums it up. I'm still comfortable with him on top but he lasts longer and 99 percent of the time, the quicker the better.
It's been so long, DH just isn't interested.
This is us too.
This is us too.
this. doctor told us a while ago it was a no go. gotta love cervical issues
Haha, this! We haven't had sex since we conceived!!!! Hubby is too scared it'll "poke" the baby lol
Yup. Same here. It's faster and not as much work!
This happened to me the other day. Things were just awkward and not working and decided to try going on top. I'm really short so my belly was getting in the way and my legs weren't reaching both sides so I was really using my muscles to balance. I woke up the next morning with the worst stomach cramps. It was really painful and won't be doing that anymore.
Him on top with pillows under me propping me up is the only position that works. Tried from behind and I couldn't walk because of SPD.
Arghhh cannot wait for a normal sex life and feel somewhat attractive lol
This!!
This! My thoughts exactly!
Me on my back over the edge of the bed works, same with doggie. Other than that, we're pretty limited.
I can't seem to find the one GIF i've been waiting to use, so instead here's a little pep talk
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yup, pretty much this. But we end up giggling through the first half while I awkwardly try to find a comfortable position.
Yeah I had cramps/BHs for HOURS after 1 time on top, and then ended up doing the same after sex in the pool (TMI!)..the water helped him hold me up to do some "new" positions, but apparently I still used my abs to "help"... haha So I can only be on top now for a short time, doing very little "work".. side sex works quite well too.
Oh and I agree with some PP, I feel like a whale any way!! He does his best to make me feel sexy, but having a huge gut bumping into him or wherever just makes me feel fat. :-P
I also want to do BJs more for him (he's hinted a lot too, since our amount of sex has gone down the past month or 2!), but with my acid reflux, it has to be at just the right time of day, otherwise it just makes it worse, which I can't stand!
Not too much more time ladies!! (ugh, but then 6 weeks healing... hmm...)
All of this...