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So i cant handle your pathetic drama loving board.

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Re: So i cant handle your pathetic drama loving board.

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    So you apparently do not understand the strength of this board. Is there unnecessary drama at times? Yes, but these women have been to hell and back, and some are still there. What else would you expect from a place where people are coping with the loss of their babies?  Loss isn't pretty, but it's also not something everybody understands. So if we have to wade through a little bit of drama to be heard, to be understood, to be validated, then it's worth it. We're not alone.

    You will not be missed, but surely you will have missed out on great support and information from these women. That's on you. For the life of me, I cannot understand how someone who calls themselves a Christian, as though it's some sort of seal of approval, would come through her and specifically make a post to hurt others. Actions speak louder than words.  The only one who's pathetic here, is you. We're just disgusted by you. 

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  • jap618jap618 member
    imagebuggirl72:

    I understand that you are less than a week from your EDD and your loss is still very fresh.

    This board is amazingly supportive. Is there rules? Yes, it helps keep this board a better place.  If you were on here for 3 months, 6 months, a year or more, you would see why the board functions better when certain posts are put in one designated spot. 

    This is also our safe spot. We fight for that. It is never okay for someone to come in and phish for us to tell them they are pregnant, post their BFPs, or attack us and call us "bitter" or any other insult they want to throw our way.  

    All we ever asked you to do was use sentences, use full words, and double check what you wrote before you posted. This was not to be mean. Your initial posts were unreadable and people will not respond to those posts. Lurking would have shown you that we do not use text speak. You did not do that and were called on it.

    I would also like to point out that calling us "bitter said infertile women who cant have babies" (copying your mistakes in that quote) was cruel, mean, and uncalled for. It also was not Christian - you did exactly what you said you would not do - you resulted to name calling. Worse, you walked into a pregnancy loss support group and told 100% of the grieving women in that room that they could not have babies. 

    Crystal - I'm going to stop there, because I do recognize that you are close to your EDD, but what you did was uncalled for.  If you do not like the community do not expect that you can scold members and change the board. Go somewhere else where you fit in. 

    This board is a beautiful place full of beautiful people. 

    Shame on you. Shame.on.you. 

     

    All of this.  Bug you are awesome <3 hugs!

    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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  • jap618jap618 member
    imageuneek1323:
    imagectilley7911:

    I tried to be kind and supportive and all i wanted was a drama free board where i felt safe to say what i wanted Then start a blog. If you post on the internet, people will respond. and i all i did was ask for you bunch what i thought where adults to act like adults we all have experienced loss. Instead of this board being sportive all it is is a bunch of little brats/bullies that never wanted to grow up or leave high school. You just are all bitter said infertile women who cant have babies who want to take their pain out on other women who dont fit in your perfect lil group. "Lil" isn't a word. And I thought you said you were a Christian and weren't going to stoop to our "pathetic level"?

    I have tried to be nice and bite my tongue. I find it said you are here just to chat about your pathetic lives That's a very nice Christian thing to say. and find good people to pick on and kick them down and keep kicking them and turn their intro post into some sick form of entertainment of bashing them like a bunch of little kids. In all reality you all are worse then kindergartners. I decided after my last post that you all are just sad mean lil gurls  You mean little girls. Learn how to spell. that have yet to grow up.

    I could say mean nasty things right back at you guys but i am a christian and refuse to let you guys drag me down to your pathetic levels. Oh but wait. You already did bash us. Your first two paragraphs are nothing but bashing us. You are a mess. SO please go ahead and enjoy bashing this post i know you will have wonderful things to say. I will not be back YAY! i know drama free board  babygaga will welcome you and want nothing to do with this board Bye! i am not wasting one more day in this exclusive board that only want drama to take their minds of their painful lives. You need therapy. I am in therapy. My therapist LOVES me. I am not talking about every one on this board  uh huh, sure but you all know who im talking to i hope you at least that smart. I'm smart enough to know how to write. I am a adult  That's debatable with a loss and need a group of grown ups to grieve with not school girls. I am so sorry you all are so bitter that you need to be hurtful to others to have a laugh. So sad....

    GTFO You gave this board nothing of value. No one will miss you. 

    uneek I <3 you!

    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
    --AL always welcome--
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  • jap618jap618 member
    imagePink021:
    imagesamjen2010:

    imageChiaWombat:
    Sig . . . OP you complained from the time you first came on the board. You got upset if you felt enough people didn't respond to you, you got upset when people asked you to observe rules. You have started drama. And I don't recall you being particularly supportive. And with regards to your name calling here. It has been covered a lot. But that was just childish and uncalled for and not Christian. You have shown yourself to be selfish and not at all caring. To the rest of you, I love you a ton. You're amazing and supportive and wonderful.

    We love you too! Thanks for coming to our defense PGAL ladies.

    Yes Yes thanks PGAL Ladies!

    YesYes  Thanks PGAL ladies <3

    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
    --AL always welcome--
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  • imagePoppy715:

     This was such a long time coming. Im not surprised by this outburst whatsoever. 

    Move along. Im busy being infertile and mean here. 

     

    Haha Poppy. This made me Big Smile

    Sarcasm is the spice of life!

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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