High School reunion Question

strlitemiss · June 2013

I'm so pissed. My dh 10 year reunion is tonight, I was all excited to go out even shaved and took a nap. Now I'm not going because Dh says No, I won't know anyone and it's only for people that graduated. I'm so mad. I think its bull and everyone is going to bring theyre spouse but him. I have every right to be mad right? I also left a friends baby shower after 45 minutes to get everything ready for tonight.

TKtravels · June 2013

I'd be pissed too!

What's up with what sounds like his last-minute decision to go solo? That sounds really inconsiderate to me. Sorry you're having to deal with this!

Southerndancinmama · June 2013

Yeh, I'd be pissed too. He will be the only one without his spouse. I'm sorry he's being a jerk.

EMLYNNLERETTE · June 2013

What?! Spouses typically go! I think he is a buttmunch for not letting you go. I'm sorry, but if my DH flat out told me I could not go somewhere with him and I wanted I would tell him he can't go either... Obviously not for work related functions, but come on.

staceymack · June 2013

I agree. Why would he change the plans last minute?

kgravil85 · June 2013

I just had mine... Everyone brought their spouse, including me. My husband only knew 1 person there. I'd be furious if he told me I can't go to his next year!

VitaLuna · June 2013

Sounds fishy. To claim that spouses shouldn't come and doing so last minute? Something doesn't seem right.

revlaurawittman · June 2013

We have our 10 year reunion in a couple of months and everyone is bringing their spouses. We are even having an event earlier that day for everyone to bring their children too. I would be really upset if DH acted the way yours did. I'm sorry for your bad night

PrettyInPearls23 · June 2013

If the whole "Spouses aren't going" thing is legit, then he would've told you this a long time ago. The last minute change in plans sounds shady to me.

DH's 10 year is next month and I'm going. We did go to the same HS (I'm 2 grades older though) but even if we didn't, spouses/guests are still invited.

Sorry he was a douche tonight.

magdalina.h · June 2013

I'd be pissed and wondering why he was trying to hide his pregnant wife

Shanmarie1083 · June 2013

VitaLuna:
Sounds fishy. To claim that spouses shouldn't come and doing so last minute? Something doesn't seem right.

This!

I would be demanding that he explain himself or he can stay home right along with me. DH and I both went to each other's reunions and he didn't know a single person at mine, and still had a good time. I knew people at his because he's still friends with several of the guys he graduated with and I've gotten to know their wives... who by the way were all in attendance as well!

badkittyct · June 2013

Spouses and SOs are normal guests at those. Why did he wait until the day of to tell you know? Wasn't this discussed weeks ago when the date was set?

JocelynB0911 · June 2013

I agree with all of the above posters. Spouses go to the reunions. If mine were not allowed to go, I wouldn't go either. It's a time to see old friends, catch up about what's going on in each others lives and show off what you have.

Dh's is next weekend and both spouses and kids are invited.

CaliMcKenzie · June 2013

VitaLuna:
Sounds fishy. To claim that spouses shouldn't come and doing so last minute? Something doesn't seem right.

Agreed. Everything about it just sounds off. Did the reunion not require any type of reservation be made in advance or tickets be purchased? Usually organizers like to know - in advance - how many people are attending these things. I also think it's odd that your husband has veto power over where you do/do not go.

Zmommy2 · June 2013

I would question like all of the PP's said.. And why did he not tell you until the last min?! That's what would annoy me most. Almost everyone brought spouses to mine, and even though DH didn't really know anyone, maybe 4 or 5 people, he had a blast too. I think it's strange.

inthelost · June 2013

VitaLuna:
Sounds fishy. To claim that spouses shouldn't come and doing so last minute? Something doesn't seem right.

this...definetly sounds fishy to me. Yes, I would be pissed too. It doesn't make any sense to me.

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