Help me find my inner sex kitten

kimbo1216 · June 2013

Help me find my inner sex kitten

DD is at the ILs. DH will be home soon. I have zero desire. Like its so bad that reading a juicy sex scene in a novel does nothing to get me ready for him. I was on pelvic rest for 8 weeks and couldn't wait to get off. Now that I am, I find my drive isn't what it used to be. ::mobilesadface::

But this is a rare opportunity for us to have the house to ourselves. And I'd rather participate and actually enjoy it. Lol. So what do you do to get yourself in the mood when it's the last thing you want?

CMireles2 · June 2013

I need this advice too! We haven't had sexy time in a good 4 months : just no drive at all.

lbethke99 · June 2013

Take a bubble bath, shave, put on the sexy undies & bra, read Some of THESE <--Clicky, and have a good night.

allymp13 · June 2013

lbethke99:
Take a bubble bath, shave, put on the sexy undies amp; bra, read Some of THESEnbsp;lt;Clicky, and have a good night.

This should work! And put on some knockin boots music.

jarebearsmom · June 2013

I agree with the bubble bath and shave. Just get things started and as things start progressing hopefully things will kick into gear

coronitaextra · June 2013

Does that help at all?

I kind of felt like that last night, and when my BF and I were going to bed I said "BF, I have a dilemma. I don't know if I want to have sex or not." Then he nibbled on my ear a bit and played with my boobies, and bam, insta-turn on. Maybe just let your husband turn you on?

lbethke99 · June 2013

T3hKay:
lbethke99:
Take a bubble bath, shave, put on the sexy undies & bra, read Some of THESE <--Clicky, and have a good night.
I love you....lol

Why??

Cause I tell it how it is! Those are some good stories on there!!!

And you need to look on here for some moves to try out!! Wink

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/

kimbo1216 · June 2013

I love how I could ask this and get such supportive replies. All great suggestions ladies. I think my bigger obstacle is going to be getting out of my own head and just relaxing.

Thanks for the tips!

Phalaenopsis · June 2013

kimbo1216:
.... and couldn't wait to get off. ....

MrEdVag · June 2013

There are some decent free porn sites if you just want to watch a little bit to kinda spark up the sex drive...spankewire.com

I always find if I'm not really in the mood or in my own head if I just make out 17 year old style with DH with all our clothes on I'm into it by the time clothes come off. I makes him round the bases and tease him about it.

Hope you have fun! TGIF

kimbo1216 · June 2013

Hehe. I can't believe I'm updating. How terrible is that?!? So far a great night. We cooked dinner together and then had a spontaneous session in the couch we had yet to christen. And yes. I enjoyed it. ::mobilewinky:: And now we are about to enjoy a movie.

Thanks again for all the support!

CousinVicki · June 2013

can't you just let him do it on his own? oh wait..... lol

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