January 2014 Moms

Goodbye and Good Luck

Turns out my gut feeling was right and something was wrong. Today, I started spotting and went to the ER. The doctor examined me and seemed positive before sending me for an ultrasound, saying he didn't expect to find anything bad.

Our room was across from the nurses station, so I saw and heard when the test results were brought up. The nurseread the report, said she didn't understand it and left to give it to the doctor. She came back, wrote a message on a scrap of paper and handed it to the nurse next to her, who looked at me and seemed sad.

The doctor confirmed there was no heartbeat and the baby stopped growing at eight weeks. I am heart broken. The worst is seeing DH cry. I can't help but regret all the people we told even my whole office knows.

Wishing you healthy babies.
«1

Re: Goodbye and Good Luck

  • Oh I am so very sorry for your loss.
    DS1 born 3/27/12 DS2 due 1/8/14
  • Loading the player...
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. 

    image

    image

  • Edit: Duplicate post. 

    image

    image

  • I am so incredibly sorry! Please take care. I'm sending many t and ps your way.

    image

    Missing Our July Sparkler
    BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
    BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

  • I am so sorry...
                January Siggy Challenge
      image
    image
     image

    Praying for our May15 baby!          January 2014- Welcome Sweet Kimber!
    image     image
  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers...
    imageimage
  • I'm so sorry. Thinking of you.
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    BabyFruit Ticker 
    BFP #2: 1/5/2013* Blighted Ovam discovered at 8 weeks* D&C: 2/15/2013
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs. 
  • Sending support your way.  I hope you find peace with this in time - its one of the toughest things I've ever gone through and I understand the hurt and disappointment.  Best to you both.  ((hugs))
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Take the time you need to mourn and heal.
  • I'm so deeply sorry for your loss. Enormous hugs. Please check out the miscarriage board, it was enormous help to me during my losses.

    imageimageimage

    image



    M/c #1 - 10/30/07 - 5w3d, DS1 - born at 36w, M/c#2 - 12/7/09 - 5w, M/c #3 - 1/13/10 - 4w6d, 
    M/c #4 - 3/16/10 - 5w1d, DS2 -  born via VBAC at 40w3d, M/c#5 - 11/5/12 - 7w2d
    BFP #8 - 5/5/13- Looks like a sticky one! DS3 - born via epi-free VBAC at 39w1d

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married 05.19.12 
      Lucas Anthony born 12.29.13
    image image


  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss.  I just said a prayer for you and your DH.  Huge hugs to you both.
  • I'm so sorry.
    image"Anniversary"">imageimage
    TTC since Sept. 2011
    DX: MFI
    IUI#1 8/2012: BFN
    IUI#2 9/2012: BFN
    IUI#3 10/2012: BFN
    IVF#1 (2 embryos transferred) 1/2013: BFN
    IVF#2 (2 embryos transferred) 5/2013: BFP!!!  EDD 1/24/14
    Beta 1 (5/17) - 66.8 Beta 2 (5/21) - 341 Beta 3 (5/27) - 2771
    1st u/s 6/7 - measuring right on track at 7 weeks with 144 bpm!
    imageimage
    image
    My Local Nestie Besties: JenniferLuvsCandy, MABride0808, thecuddleeffect, MrsHo1030
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 

    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers Lilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • Sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Baby #1 DS born August 2012
    Baby #2 DD Born January 2014
    Baby #3 ?? Due June 5 2015


  • I'm so sorry for your loss!
  • So sorry for your loss. Take some time for yourself and DH. Maybe there's a person in your office that can let the others know so you don't have to tell everyone one at a time? Also, the loss board was a huge source of comfort to me when we went through this last year, so if/when you want to talk to others that's a great place to go.
    -----------------------------------------------------------------

    mutt_zps2fb5f039-1_zps7220f27c
    BFP 11.8.12 * EDD 7.17.13 * MC 12.20.12
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
     photo bump_zpsf1e8435c.jpgRIP Post Count
     
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs your way.

    **********************************************************************************************************************

    Diagnosed with PCOS June 2010, TTC#1 since May 2012
    Cycle#1-3 Clomid 50mg + TI= No response
    Cycle#4-5 Clomid 150mg + Metformin 1000mg + TI= BFN, but finally ovulation!!!
    Cycle #6 Clomid 150mg + Metformin 1500mg + IUI(4/15)= BFP!!! EDD 01/06/2014 <br>

    Stella Margaret arrived on December 21, 2013!

    imageimage image



  • Oh I am so so so very sorry for your loss sweetheart. ::::huge hugs to you::::
  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers


     image 

    imageimage

  • I'm so so sorry for your loss.

    ___________________________________________________________________________

    MMC 11/17/2010 Our little miracle 1/27/12 NMC 7/14/2012 MMC 1/22/13 Formerly buckeyebride22 till the bump gods fix that account Dx PAI-1 homozygous 4g/4g mutation

    BabyFruit Ticker

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. My T's and P's are with you and your family. I found great comfort in the loss and miscarriage boards and then later in TTCAL. good luck to you

      
    "Go in peace! I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil." -Gandalf 
    m/c #1 01/10/12
    BFP #2 01/18/13. EDD 09/10/13. Missed m/c 02/18/13. 
    BFP #3 5/1/13 My rainbow DS born 1/13/14
    BFP #4 11/11/15 spontaneous m/c 12/28/15
    BFP#5  Praying for another rainbow in February!

     
  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
    imageimage
    Mama of boys, Landon (Jan 14) and Harrison (Aug 15).  

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so sorry.
     ***********************************************************************************************
      blogbutton badge!!!
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I'm so sorry for your loss
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Pregnancy Ticker

  • I am so terribly sorry for your loss.  

    sam & arlo 

  • I'm so, so sorry. Lots of Ts and Ps your way. hugs
    ________________________________________________________________________________


    Lilypie Kids Birthday tickers

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • So very sorry for your loss
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I am so sorry for your loss.
    image


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.
    Alexis 9.1.06 * Jaxson 3.17.08 * Tessa 2.8.14

    image
  • I am so so sorry for your loss, and am sending you all my thoughts and prayers. 
                                                                                                                         

    December Siggy Challenge: Love Actually

    image

    Married DH: April 21 2012 // Expecting our first: Jan 20 2014
    BabyFetus Ticker

    image

    BabyFruit Ticker
                                                                                                                         

  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you right now.  

  • mrsrglmrsrgl member
    I'm so sorry for your loss : thinking of you guys, and sending prayers your way.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I'm so so sorry for your loss.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • ccip82ccip82 member
    ::Hugs:: I am terribly sorry for your loss.

    ________________________________________________________________________________________________

    image

    sibling love  

  • I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending you strength and hugs. Take care of yourself.
    _________________________________________________________________


    My cat can read EKGs, can your human do that?
    ♥BFP#1 12-23-12, M/C 12-31-12 at 5w4d♥
    ♥BFP#2 05-09-13, EDD 01-15-14. C/S 12-23-13 at 36w5d for complete previa. Healthy baby boy♥
    _________________________________________________________________

  • I'm so very sorry to hear that. You will be in my prayers.
    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

                                                    
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.

    Don't worry about the people that you have told. You might find support from places you didn't expect. (I speak from experience here.)  Also, the people in your office will be better equipped to be gracious about the healing time that you will need, both physically and emotionally.

    ((Hugs)) xoxo

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"