Title says it all. Basically, how dare I ask him to rub my feet every night when I'm clearly not keeping up with my "duties" as his wife.. I.e. sex.
Oh, I'm sorry.. 8 months pregnant with an 11 month old at home and I work full time. But, let me put your needs right at the top of my priority list.
Ugh. Thanks a lot jerk.
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Re: NPALR: DH is a jerk.
Hey H,
:::::::::throat punch:::::::::::
Love,
JulyMomma
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Thanks
This made me smile at least!
At first I felt guilty.. like I was doing something wrong.. like I actually was being a "bad wife" or something.. and then, I just got angry.. and then hormones kicked in and I cried half the night!! Argh.
DH claims he was joking.. but, ya know, this is the kind of thing that "comes up" at least on a weekly basis as a "joke".. and, it's not at all funny. It's insulting and demeaning and offensive and hurtful
My jerky DH used to go walking with me when I was 8 months pregnant. I remember he walked so fast and would not slow down to walk with me. He said, "why are you walking so slow?" And I went off. He realized eventually what a turd he was being. But damn, dude. He deserved a willy kick for that for sure.
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