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NPALR: DH is a jerk.

Title says it all. Basically, how dare I ask him to rub my feet every night when I'm clearly not keeping up with my "duties" as his wife.. I.e. sex.

Oh, I'm sorry.. 8 months pregnant with an 11 month old at home and I work full time. But, let me put your needs right at the top of my priority list.

Ugh. Thanks a lot jerk.
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Re: NPALR: DH is a jerk.

  • Hey H,

    :::::::::throat punch:::::::::::

    Love,

    JulyMomma 

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    Hey H,:::::::::throat punch:::::::::::Love,JulyMommanbsp;
    This!!!
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
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    Hey H,

    :::::::::throat punch:::::::::::

    Love,

    JulyMomma 

    Thanks :) This made me smile at least!

    At first I felt guilty.. like I was doing something wrong.. like I actually was being a "bad wife" or something.. and then, I just got angry.. and then hormones kicked in and I cried half the night!! Argh.

    DH claims he was joking.. but, ya know, this is the kind of thing that "comes up" at least on a weekly basis as a "joke".. and, it's not at all funny. It's insulting and demeaning and offensive and hurtful :(

    Loss #1: 18w5d.. D&E 04Mar03 BFP #2: Jun2011.. missed miscarriage. D&C 08Jul2011 8w4d. BFP #3: Nov2011.. Our Rainbow Baby!!! DS Born: 15Jul2012! BFP #4: Nov2012.. 2U1 - DS2 born 12Jul2013.  BFP #5: 01Jan2014..3U3!!

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  • Ugh, husbands. I seriously get so exhausted of the "requests" for sex that really aren't requests at all, but an invitation for him to sulk if I'm ever too tired. And I'm not pregnant! You poor thing. *hugs*
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  • He needs a *** punch 
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  • I can't even imagine how exhausted you must be. Your hubs needs some perspective.

    My jerky DH used to go walking with me when I was 8 months pregnant. I remember he walked so fast and would not slow down to walk with me. He said, "why are you walking so slow?" And I went off. He realized eventually what a turd he was being. But damn, dude. He deserved a willy kick for that for sure.

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  • Ugh. Sorry he's being a jerk. You totes deserve a foot rub now!
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