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November 2012 Moms
SurpriseAt39
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Crazy question...
SurpriseAt39
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Okay, so I know OF a woman who was with a guy (a friend of mine) for 8-9 years. They never used BC (as far as he knew there was no pill, diaphragm, contraceptive foam/gel or film).
She had endometriosis. (possibly other issues as well, she never explained her issues in detail to bf). Her doc told her she would likely have TTTC. Thus, no BC. They had sex regularly. They wanted children. (at least HE did, and she always said she agreed)
Less than 6 months after they split up she posted a pic on Facebook. She is KTFU. She will not say who baby daddy is. (I suspect she had been cheating on bf and using BC to avoid getting pg then having to explain to one or both guys, but that's just me theorizing).
Fast forward... She then told (now) exbf her due date. (its 6 months from when she posted on FB) Then after her 20 week ultrasound she told him they moved her due date ahead 3 weeks.
I don't know when baby was born. (closer to original date? Or the earlier date? No idea)
QUESTIONS:
1. Is it odd that she didn't conceive with bf, but got KTFU very quickly with mystery guy, presumably with no fertility assistance? (she can't afford fertility treatment) (oh, and exbf just got his new gf pg, so we know HE can reproduce too)
2. Anyone know anyone whose Dr. changed their due date AFTER 20 weeks? (That just doesn't make sense to me - if baby measured 3 weeks larger, I'd think they would suspect GD or some other medical issue, not move her dd)
Please...anyone...I'm trying to explain to my friend that there's something weird about this girl. Does anyone have any experience with this?
Maybe she's trying to claim its HIS? Maybe they got back together one night? Maybe mystery guy left her? I just don't see any of this making sense.
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Re: Crazy question...
1. due date doesn't change after 20 weeks unless you have some whacked out doctor but all the doctors told hubby and me that they don't change due dates cause baby was measuring big for me.
2. it's perfectly normal for some people not to conceive and then get pg with someone else. her environment just might have been not ideal for his sperm. yes, i believe that's a real issue
3. I;m a little fuzzy on the time line here. So girl and guy break up and 6 months later she posts pic of being ku and due date is 6 months or 6 months and 3 week from that post on FB. That tells me that she got ku after 3 months of breakup right? are we trying to determine if it's the ex boyfriends from 6 months ago?
Lol. I know, eh?
I'm just afraid this woman may try to claim the baby is his and destroy his new relationship. I hope not....
1. I agree with that...just wondering if it EVER happens.
2. I've wondered if there really could be an "incompatibility" between couples. But I have never met anyone that that happened to.
3. 6 months after breakup she announced she was 3 months pregnant. I wondered if she told him an alternate due date to make him think the baby may be his. He hinted, but never SAID, that he slept with her after break up...but didn't say exactly when...maybe it was right around the time she got pregnant?
I know no one but she could confirm aside from a paternity test... I'm just looking out for my friend.
She seems a little off.
I have no idea about this, there are some crazy beaches though.
How would his exgf being pg affect his current relationship? I mean obviously it's a new one and she's got crazy pg hormones going on, but if they just act normal and get a paternity test done, then I don't see a reason to commence freak out. Maybe I'm looking at this wrong, after 8-9 years? Why now, why would she claim him the baby daddy after a break up?
? Voted Cool Cat ~ 2012 Sweetpea Mom Awards ?
Ugh I hope not! Paternity test !
"You are 99.9 not the baby's daddy." Cut to the video of that guy doing the victory dance.