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Dad hugs (older child mentioned)

I'm sending out special hugs to all of your husbands and significant others today. My husband has had an emotional day today, thinking about our losses, and he wants people to recognize that he IS a dad, and he's a remarkable stepdad to my big kid. I know there are lots of dads out there who are missing their babies, and they all needs hugs, especially today.

 

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Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
Missed miscarriage - (EDD 3/5/2013) - D&E @ 11 weeks - 8/8/2012
"Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
"G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!

Re: Dad hugs (older child mentioned)

  • I totally agree with this.  My DH feels the same way.
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  • Thank you and hugs back at you and your husband. This was my husbands first Father's Day and definitely not the way he planned to celebrate. He has been such a rock this last month since our loss, today was just extra tough.
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  • It was also very hard for us today as well. His first fathers day...and we were visiting our daughter at the cemetery. It was so hard to see him grieving and missing our angel. I know I didn't do anything to cause her death, but when he is so upset it's hard for me to not feel guilt.

    Hard, hard day. 

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    It was also very hard for us today as well. His first fathers day...and we were visiting our daughter at the cemetery. It was so hard to see him grieving and missing our angel. I know I didn't do anything to cause her death, but when he is so upset it's hard for me to not feel guilt.

    Hard, hard day. 

    This made me cry so hard - I'm a basket case right now. Sending so much love to you both.



     







     
              
    Lilypie - (tQ1Y)






    Lilypie - (Rgc4)

    Daisypath - (bXqd)


    Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
    Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
    Missed miscarriage - (EDD 3/5/2013) - D&E @ 11 weeks - 8/8/2012
    "Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
    "G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!
  • imageprincezjk:
    Thank you and hugs back at you and your husband. This was my husbands first Father's Day and definitely not the way he planned to celebrate. He has been such a rock this last month since our loss, today was just extra tough.

    Thank you, and hugs to you both.



     







     
              
    Lilypie - (tQ1Y)






    Lilypie - (Rgc4)

    Daisypath - (bXqd)


    Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
    Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
    Missed miscarriage - (EDD 3/5/2013) - D&E @ 11 weeks - 8/8/2012
    "Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
    "G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!
  • imagemattsgirl2004:
    imageWifeofaComposer:

    I'm sending out special hugs to all of your husbands and significant others today. My husband has had an emotional day today, thinking about our losses, and he wants people to recognize that he IS a dad, and he's a remarkable stepdad to my big kid. I know there are lots of dads out there who are missing their babies, and they all needs hugs, especially today.

     

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    I definitely agree and can totally relate. My DH is a wonderful stepdad, but I know today has been pretty emotional for him. I remind him all the time that he is a dad to 3 beautiful angels.  I wish somehow I could make things better though.

    Same here. Love and hugs to you and your family.



     







     
              
    Lilypie - (tQ1Y)






    Lilypie - (Rgc4)

    Daisypath - (bXqd)


    Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
    Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
    Missed miscarriage - (EDD 3/5/2013) - D&E @ 11 weeks - 8/8/2012
    "Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
    "G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!
  • imageWifeofaComposer:
    imageshandorfml2:

    It was also very hard for us today as well. His first fathers day...and we were visiting our daughter at the cemetery. It was so hard to see him grieving and missing our angel. I know I didn't do anything to cause her death, but when he is so upset it's hard for me to not feel guilt.

    Hard, hard day. 

    This made me cry so hard - I'm a basket case right now. Sending so much love to you both.

    Sorry to make you cry hun. Now I'm crying! Its so terrible, but so nice to have someone completely understand! Here is to us getting our rainbows very soon. Much love to you...

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    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

    **All AL Welcome**

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