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Just reached the "I don't care anymore" stage

HopeforthebestHopeforthebest member
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It has been a really long time coming, but I think I've finally reached the point that I just have resolved myself that this is how things are going to be for the next umpteen years.

In a way it is liberating because the fury I used to feel with every perceived slight/aggression/point of contention BM threw at DH, is now gone. It's expected and I get past it rather quickly.

I'm still slightly amazed at how her logic works, but I'm done. Checked out. I'm not wasting anymore time planning/documenting (for future use) furiously like a chipmunk preparing for winter.

Just wanted to vent and thank you guys for always providing humor/advice/common sense/butt kicking when needed.

 

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Re: Just reached the "I don't care anymore" stage

  • 4luvof2boys4luvof2boys
    Don't know your story but I can appreciate how you feel.  I keep telling myself I don't care anymore and I won't worry about it.  Then inevitably I manage to fall right back into being pissed again.  If you can make this feeling last, please share your secret :)  
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  • MrsHetzelMrsHetzel member
    Ditto to PP. don't know your story but I know how you feel. It's been 5 years with my husbands crazy baby mama and we've finally come to a point where she knows I'm not leaving just coz she throws a temper tantrum and threatens me. And when we do have the occasioa drama, I just let it roll off my shoulders in my cases. Once in a while, I get steamed because my SD deserves better, but I know that I do all I can and that's all I can control.
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  • PamelacakePamelacake member

    image4luvof2boys:
    Don't know your story but I can appreciate how you feel.  I keep telling myself I don't care anymore and I won't worry about it.  Then inevitably I manage to fall right back into being pissed again.  If you can make this feeling last, please share your secret :)  

    all of this! I don't know your story either. I stop documenting and then later regret it because I will lose previous documentation of things... I have stopped doing this and I just suck it up though bc in my situation I know that in the end it will be the best for SD's. I remember seeing  a few of your posts though and think our situations are much different.

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  • twister22twister22 member

    No matter how good or bad things are, I would never stop documenting. You never know when you will truly need it, and you will be furious at yourself that you don't have it.

    Oh, and I'm glad you're not letting BM's BS get to you anymore! 

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