We paid major holidays and gave 1 week paid vacation. Occasionally, we would have days where we did not need the nanny, and we paid her for those unexpected days off, as well. Her contract included a few paid sick days, which she has never used.
When we considering a nanny we were factoring in about 2 weeks paid vacation, plus major holidays and a few sick days.
I suggest trying to see if you can find out what the going norm is in your area. I this may vary along with pay and my thinking was I wanted to be able to be competitive with what a nanny I hired would make with another family so I was able to attract some qualified, etc. Only a week or having him/her go unpaid wouldn't have met the bar in my area, but it may in yours.
How do you handle this? We plan to pay major holidays. We are trying to figure out other days off...
My been there/done that advice on this is not to overpromise at the outset.
Like I thought unpaid sick leave sounded really terrible so I told our old nanny we weren't capping her sick days as long as she didn't abuse them. But then when she was (legitimately) sick for a full week and I was dropping her paycheck off at her house while also paying a back-up nanny, while scheduling a back-up nanny for the one week vacation she was taking later that month, I started to regret that policy.
In general I think you're better off writing strict policies into the contract and then easing up as appropriate. I would cap weather days and sick days (maybe 5 combined?), and I would only give one week of paid vacation at the time of nanny's choice, with a guarantee of at least [1-2] additional weeks of paid vacation at the time of your choice.
I do think it's standard policy that if you don't need nanny for additional days beyond her guaranteed paid vacation days (i.e. if you end up taking a third week of family vacation) that you still pay her, since she is available to work.
My nanny is part-time - 30 hours a week, 3 days a week - M, T, and TH. My plan is that if a major holiday (Thanksgiving, Christmas, July 4, etc.) falls on one of the days she works, I will give it to her as PTO. Also, when we take vacation, I will give her that time off paid. My thought process is to essentially ensure she always has a guaranteed paycheck. In other words, she should not be shorted on pay because we decide we don't need her. Between the holiday and the time we take off, I expect that will be 2-3 weeks of PTO which I think is fair for part-time. She has never requested any PTO beyond that (actually, she has not requested any time off at all yet), but if she ever does, I will probably give that to her as PTO, too, so long as it is not excessive just because I'm not going to nickel and dime someone who is a very good employee/nanny.
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2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54
2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4; BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
Re: Nanny holidays/PTO/vacation/sick pay
When we considering a nanny we were factoring in about 2 weeks paid vacation, plus major holidays and a few sick days.
I suggest trying to see if you can find out what the going norm is in your area. I this may vary along with pay and my thinking was I wanted to be able to be competitive with what a nanny I hired would make with another family so I was able to attract some qualified, etc. Only a week or having him/her go unpaid wouldn't have met the bar in my area, but it may in yours.
My been there/done that advice on this is not to overpromise at the outset.
Like I thought unpaid sick leave sounded really terrible so I told our old nanny we weren't capping her sick days as long as she didn't abuse them. But then when she was (legitimately) sick for a full week and I was dropping her paycheck off at her house while also paying a back-up nanny, while scheduling a back-up nanny for the one week vacation she was taking later that month, I started to regret that policy.
In general I think you're better off writing strict policies into the contract and then easing up as appropriate. I would cap weather days and sick days (maybe 5 combined?), and I would only give one week of paid vacation at the time of nanny's choice, with a guarantee of at least [1-2] additional weeks of paid vacation at the time of your choice.
I do think it's standard policy that if you don't need nanny for additional days beyond her guaranteed paid vacation days (i.e. if you end up taking a third week of family vacation) that you still pay her, since she is available to work.
My nanny is part-time - 30 hours a week, 3 days a week - M, T, and TH. My plan is that if a major holiday (Thanksgiving, Christmas, July 4, etc.) falls on one of the days she works, I will give it to her as PTO. Also, when we take vacation, I will give her that time off paid. My thought process is to essentially ensure she always has a guaranteed paycheck. In other words, she should not be shorted on pay because we decide we don't need her. Between the holiday and the time we take off, I expect that will be 2-3 weeks of PTO which I think is fair for part-time. She has never requested any PTO beyond that (actually, she has not requested any time off at all yet), but if she ever does, I will probably give that to her as PTO, too, so long as it is not excessive just because I'm not going to nickel and dime someone who is a very good employee/nanny.
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014
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