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I just don't feel pregnant

CaliCarly1976CaliCarly1976 member
in January 2014 Moms

I just feel too normal. I thought I would feel more. More symptoms, more emotions, more excitement, etc. Any symptoms I have had, if I didn't know I was pregnant, I would dismiss as nothing (overtired from work, working out, the heat lately, etc.) 

Meanwhile, I have a friend that just lost a baby (Trisomy 21 at 20 weeks, elective termination), and a few acquaintances as well with early miscarriages. I am trying to wrap my head around that, though for some reason its not bugging me as much as I would expect it to because I just don't feel pregnant. It just has not sunk in yet. 

Married since 2008 Me:36 DH: 35 TTC since August 2011. SA - "good" ultrasound - "excellent" Blood work - "good" Diagnosis: unexplained infertility Starting cycle 1 of clomid 3/27
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  • cnctfcnctf member
    about a week ago I only had the sore breasts and the tired symptoms and wondered about M/S...fast forward to this week and im so nauseous and wished I still only had sore breasts and fatigue.. 
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  • QuintonsMummahQuintonsMummah member
    You still have time :) Before you know it, LO will be moving and dancing around in your ute. It will be awesome for a while then will get annoying(at least it did for me) 
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  • lmills730lmills730 member

    imagecnctf:
    about a week ago I only had the sore breasts and the tired symptoms and wondered about M/S...fast forward to this week and im so nauseous and wished I still only had sore breasts and fatigue.. 

    ughhhh don't say that! I am hoping m/s doesn't hit me at all, which I know is VERY unlikely ;).

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    imagelmills730:

    ughhhh don't say that! I am hoping m/s doesn't hit me at all, which I know is VERY unlikely ;).

     

    FX for you that you wont be hit with the evil m/s!!! :) 

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  • jamiecaljamiecal member

    Enjoy it while it lasts!  I'm 8 weeks now, and it hit me like a ton of bricks out of the blue one day during week 6.  It is not pleasant!

    Or maybe you will be one of those insanely lucky people who doesn't have to deal with all the crap and just gets to relax and enjoy.  I hope that is the case for you!  GL!

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  • alie78_80alie78_80 member

    I didn't have many symptoms with DS (I was nauseous a tiny bit but really nothing).

    This time is totally different.  Right at 7 weeks I got super nauseous, ugg it wasn't fun.  This morning was better, I'm hoping it goes away forever.

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  • MeganWordenMeganWorden member

    I am so sorry to hear about the losses around you.

     As for the pregnancy symptoms just wait another week or two and you will feel it! I was in the same boat a few weeks ago, zero symptoms to the point that I kept squeezing my boobs to see if they were sore yet. Then at 7 1/2 weeks m/s hit. I feel pg now. Dont get me wrong I love that I feel like this (Sh** most of the time) because PGAL brain is terrible. Hang in there honey!  


      
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  • Cara1024Cara1024 member

    I'm sorry you aren't feeling different yet. Maybe just try to look at it as a good sign that maybe this pregnancy won't be too rough on you. I didn't have any symptoms at first, but in the last few days things have turned crazy. As of last night I would not say that i had had any m/s yet. But today its officially here and I'm crazy sick.

    Things can change overnight! I'm sorry to hear about your friend's losses. 

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  • lmills730lmills730 member
    imagecnctf:
    imagelmills730:

    ughhhh don't say that! I am hoping m/s doesn't hit me at all, which I know is VERY unlikely ;).

    FX for you that you wont be hit with the evil m/s!!! :) 

    hahah thanks ;)

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  • CaliCarly1976CaliCarly1976 member
    Hah! Don't get me wrong, I am not willing or hoping to feel m/s, and really pray I am one of the lucky ones! I am just waiting for it to hit me that this is real! But glad to hear I am in good company!! And I guess once things start moving in there, there will be no denying - though I imagine that isn't for another 15 weeks or so lol. (ugh, SO FAR AWAY!!)
    Married since 2008 Me:36 DH: 35 TTC since August 2011. SA - "good" ultrasound - "excellent" Blood work - "good" Diagnosis: unexplained infertility Starting cycle 1 of clomid 3/27
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  • dland0201dland0201 member
    I haven't been feeling very pregnant either recently. It's not doing very good things for my mind. My only other pregnancy ended in miscarriage and even though we saw the baby and the heart beat flicker at 6 weeks, I'm still terrified I could be having a missed miscarriage. I've been doing pretty good at keeping my stress down but I just need some kind of reassurance things are going well. I do have a another appointment next week and I hope the doctor will do an ultrasound or at least listen to the baby's heart beat. My boobs are my only indicator right now. It's crazy to think having m/s would be better because it would ease my crazy mind. I broke down and took another test just to be sure. Crazy I know.
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  • LatteLady5LatteLady5 member
    Seriously enjoy it. Yesterday was totally my worst day so far....I do not wish that on you! I'm sure everything is fine. I know several women who never had morning sickness or anything other than tiredness and sore feet by the 3rd tri. Really, consider yourself blessed ;)

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  • sugarland726sugarland726 member
    I kept waiting for the morning sickness to show up with DD and it never did. You might be one of the lucky ones too!

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  • karah4816karah4816 member
    I'm even farther along than you are and still not feeling much either, sore boobs and fatigue are it. Trying not to let it scare me though and tell myself I'm just one of the lucky ones. My mom told me that out of all three of us she only had morning sickness with one.

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