So I have discovered that being the mom to a toddler is way more exhausting than being the mom to a newborn. Different exhaustion for sure.
Then you add in a morning like this.
4:30am: DH's alarm clock goes off. He hits snooze a couple times and gets up at like 5:05.
5:10/15: DH comes to tell me he can't get the TV to turn on. I come out
and push the button on the DISH box. Ta-da! Go back to bed. DD starts
fussing. DH takes care of it.
5:45: DH brings DD to me because she won't calm down anymore. She refuses to go back to sleep. Wants to play. We get up at 5:55.
She usually wakes up at 7 so this was a very early morning. When I'm used to waking up at that time, no problem. But I'm not used to it so I'm like the walking dead right now.
Re: So. Tired.
He did try the best he could and for awhile. Hard when he is trying to pack him lunch and get out the door by 6. I could hear that DD wasn't going to calm down. It was the "the tv won't turn on" thing that got me.
DD ended up eating a massive breakfast and lots of milk. Apparently, she was just super hungry and couldn't sleep through it anymore.
Married: 1/2008 ~ DD#1: 3/2012
TTC #2: Started 4/2014 BFP 7/30/15 MC 8/3/15 BFP 9/4/2015 EDD 5/16/2016
Married: 5/09 ~ TTC Since: 10/10 ~ PCOS ~ Progesterone from 10/10 - 2/11 ~ HSG on 3/18 - Clear ~ Started Metformin 1000mg & Clomid 50mg 2/11 ~ Metformin upped to 1500mg 4/6 ~ 6/7 Now going to SG and put on Clomid, Ovidrel, Gonal F, Prometrium, Estrace ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP!!!!!! March 6th our little man was born.
6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived
10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP
Hang in there...It's terrible when you start counting down to bedtime so you can pass out yourself
I can not wait for 7:30 to roll around..
Married: 5/09 ~ TTC Since: 10/10 ~ PCOS ~ Progesterone from 10/10 - 2/11 ~ HSG on 3/18 - Clear ~ Started Metformin 1000mg & Clomid 50mg 2/11 ~ Metformin upped to 1500mg 4/6 ~ 6/7 Now going to SG and put on Clomid, Ovidrel, Gonal F, Prometrium, Estrace ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP!!!!!! March 6th our little man was born.
6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived
10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP
That is a bummer, I'm sorry!
I feel mentally and physically exhausted by the end of the day with DS. Today I feel like all I did was tell him "no" 500 times and keep him from pulling everything out of his dresser and our entertainment center which was met with fit throwing every.single.time. To top it off, he got kicked out of gym daycare during my workout for crying excessively. He's a tough kid on a good day, but he definitely woke up on the wrong side of the bed today! Ever since dropping to 1 nap his sleep habits have been terrible so he's extra crabby it seems.
What really sucks is that DH doesn't get home until 7pm, so I feel like I never get a real break during his work week. I am a SAHM (love it and wouldn't trade it for the world), but there are days I think working wouldn't be so bad.
Hubby gets up and I goto bed with said energizer bunny.. no SSTN here, he's good but not THAT good lol
rinse and repeat
my DH Is awesome, he has no choice but to coparent and some days it feels like he does a better job at it and housework than I do.... some days I just feel useless as a mom .. but it doesn't last long .. one smile or a giggle and I know we're doing ok... just an unconventional ok LOL