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First night apart from husband :(

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We were married last July, tonight is the first night apart. I know it may sound crazy to all you long term married ladies but I want to spend as much time as I can with him. Soon he will be joining the army so he will be gone for another 9 weeks and 4 days.

I have never been a dramatic kind or a person who drowns their sorrows in food BUT tonight Ive eaten like crap! If I was not pregnant I wouldnt be so upset at myself! Does anyone else feel guilty for eating not so wonderful food? because what we eat baby eats.

haha maybe if my sweet husband were here he would have stopped me... or ate the junk food with me.

dang it I miss him. Im sure this is normal for newlyweds  

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  • aundrea1225aundrea1225 member
    My husband's in the army, doing a 24 hour shift tonight and I ordered cheese sticks and a cinnapie from papa johns pizza. I definitely feel your pain. I hate when he's not here, he's such a huge help and has been taking care of our puppy since I can hardly get out of bed.Not looking forward to getting up at tthe crack of dawn to let her outside and feed her when I'm exhausted and sick. I hope your 9 weeks apart flies by very quickly.
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  • BrittanyB19BrittanyB19 member
    Another army wife here! Not to sound harsh but you better get used to it! There are always times where your hubs will either have to go to the field.. Or get deployed. You need to be able to keep yourself focused and not dwell on his absence. I know it can be hard.. My hubs was just away for 2 weeks and I felt like crap too but I kept myself busy with friends and activities.. It helps to have a support system and learn to enjoy your alone time! Good luck!
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  • cherylnicolecherylnicole member
    I'm active duty army, so I understand being away from your family. Just make sure you write him A LOT! And honestly, it'll go by before you know it. Just make sure you keep busy..do you know where he's going for AIT? Is it close so you can visit while he's there?

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