I'm going to punch my stepdad in the throat

Jnmac83 · May 2013

My stepdad is driving me up an effing wall right now.

I'm graduating tomorrow and Sunday is my first Mother's Day, which I think you all know. Well, my stepdad sends me a text and says "Ask DH if he wants to see Iron Man 3 this weekend." I'm thinking 1) you ask him yourself and 2) when do you think you're going to fit that in. So I ask him when, he says Saturday night, I say whatever. DH doesn't want to go because he's all about it being my weekend and whatever, but he doesn't want to hurt stepdad's feelings. I convince him to go Saturday night and I'll spend time with O and my mom since she doesn't see him much.

5 minutes later, stepdad texts me and says "what do you have planned for your mom on Sunday?" Um....nothing. I send back "Nothing, but it's my first Mother's Day, so someone else can plan it". I add a little smiley face so it seems like I'm not being a total bish, even though I really am.

A few months ago he called and said we should all get my mom Pandora beads for Mom's Day. Okay fine. There are 5 of us, if you include my step bro. So I get in touch with my sisters and say we are getting the beads, but they don't want to get birthstone beads because they're expensive, so I tell them to get any bead that they feel represents them. So, then SD starts giving me hel! because he got a birthstone bead for my SBro and we all didn't get birthstone beads. WHO GIVE A F!!!!!!!!?!? Who cares. Seriously. So I say "Sorry." and he's like "Next time just let me know." Dude, next time, do it yourself.

I always, always, always, have to be in charge of group gifts and stuff because my sisters are less than organized and responsible. So everything always falls to me. For one effing weekend could we NOT make me do everything for everyone else?!?! I do not ask for that much. Really. I don't. I couldn't care less if anyone even comes to my graduation, but DH is so proud and he wants it to be a big deal. He's so sweet. But really its just more of a pain for ME to have to deal with everyone.

On top of that, my mom called me last month and wanted to know if we could fit in dinner for SD's birthday while they're in this weekend. Um sure, let me just add 80 hours to the day. No prob! Then she sounded annoyed when I told her we were going to dinner on Saturday night for graduation and I'd be happy to make it a joint celebration but my dad and stepmom will be there too. She said nevermind.

Also, my stepdad told me my mom was being a B right in the middle of my wedding reception. I'm still bitter about that.

Who wants to get drunk? I do.

Sorry ladies. As if I haven't whined enough lately. I just needed to get that out before I actually do punch someone in the face.

Mrs. Rohde · May 2013

Dude. I'm sorry!

I say EFF THEM ALL and just do what you want to do.

ashS10309 · May 2013

Mrs. Rohde:
Dude. I'm sorry!I say EFF THEM ALL and just do what you want to do.

I agree!!

Crossingfingers · May 2013

Can we get together and throat punch ALL the people? I have a list going

Jnmac83 · May 2013

Crossingfingers:
Can we get together and throat punch ALL the people? I have a list going

Yes! I'm going to punch a people for you, too!!

melmarie26 · May 2013

I swear, whenever big lifechanging events happen it's like gasoline to the fires of crazy.

Sorry Sweetness. Kick all the azzez you want to this weekend. Do what you want.

This is your time.

Jillwithani · May 2013

Being in charge sucks, I had a drink for you. I hope it all gets worked out and that you get your OWN special time on mothers day and for your graduation... congrats on that!