Community› The Bump Month Clubs› October 2013 Moms
October 2013 Moms
New Discussion

I'm having the most ridiculous pregnant lady bawling session.

pandaglitterpandaglitter member
in October 2013 Moms

Mobile users: I'm having the most ridiculous pregnant lady bawling session.

So today I check my account with my doctor to look at my upcoming appointments and it says it's with the doctor I switched from in the beginning...um wait what? Evidently at my last appointment, the stupid flucking nurse scheduled me with him and not my new doctor, who is nice and not stupid. So there goes ANY hope of finding out what the baby is on Tuesday....which I was really, really hoping for. Beyond that, I just wanted to see my baby and make sure it's okay and see it move, as she does mini ultrasounds at each visit. This doctor is the one who doesn't believe in ultrasounds until 20 weeks and hates everything and who assumed I had no mental illnesses when filling out the questionnaire,  making it really awkward for me, and who told me "Oh yea, you might feel nauseous in the first tri" and handed me some pamphlets about breast feeding and sent me on my way, without asking me if I was planning on, just assuming I wouldn't, so he gave me some propaganda on why I should.

I am so hormonal and just bawled my eyes out. It was a horrible first visit and I made it CLEAR several times that I DO NOT WANT TO SEE HIM AGAIN, yet this is the third time they've tried to schedule me with him, and this time they tricked me and told me they were scheduling me with my doctor, by scheduled me with him...seriously. My doctor told the nurse to schedule me for four weeks ahead with her, nurse goes ahead and does it...but not with my doctor I just saw???

I mean, really, all he has to do is print out a requisition for blood work for quad testing and schedule an ultrasound at the hospital. Beyond that, he can go f!ck himself because he made a some really passive aggressive remarks when he found out I wanted a female doctor...which I made an appointment with to start with as my FIRST appointment...but they SWITCHED ME TO HIM AND NO ONE CARES I DO NOT WANT HIM AS MY DOCTOR.

At this point, I'm trying to stay calm and not be super b!tchy, but all I want to do is walk in there, tell him to give me my blood work papers and schedule my a/s ultrasound, and leave. I just feel betrayed, and I know it's silly, but I don't understand why everyone is so hellbent on me seeing this doctor when I made it clear I don't want to and I don't like him...

 

Where the hell is my cave so I can just carry and birth my baby in peace??????? 

 
 image
Report Reply to Post

Re: I'm having the most ridiculous pregnant lady bawling session.

  • taylormarie923taylormarie923 member
    I would already be on the phone with their office if I were in your shoes.  That is really crappy.  Make sure to ask who each appointment is with when scheduling them in the future.  Sounds like the PSR needs a CP.
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • OctoberbabeOctoberbabe member
    I would call the office and let them know that they messed up. And you want the appt with the doctor you like!
    Report Reply
  • pandaglitterpandaglitter member

    imagetaylormarie923:
    I would already be on the phone with their office if I were in your shoes.  That is really crappy.  Make sure to ask who each appointment is with when scheduling them in the future.  Sounds like the PSR needs a CP.

    I did. My doctor isn't on rotation until June evidently, so I'd have to see some other random male doctor, which now I'm considering...maybe I should since I have so many hard feelings toward the first doctor and I don't want to see him...maybe a completely random doctor I can just fill in would be better, and I will definitely be careful in the future...I just figured that since I had made several requests, they would have figured it out, but apparently not. I just switched to another doctor at the same time...so at least I don't have to see him again.  

     
     image
    Report Reply
  • taylormarie923taylormarie923 member
    imagepandaglitter:

    imagetaylormarie923:
    I would already be on the phone with their office if I were in your shoes.  That is really crappy.  Make sure to ask who each appointment is with when scheduling them in the future.  Sounds like the PSR needs a CP.

    I did. My doctor isn't on rotation until June evidently, so I'd have to see some other random male doctor, which now I'm considering...maybe I should since I have so many hard feelings toward the first doctor and I don't want to see him...maybe a completely random doctor I can just fill in would be better, and I will definitely be careful in the future...I just figured that since I had made several requests, they would have figured it out, but apparently not. I just switched to another doctor at the same time...so at least I don't have to see him again.  

     

    This kind of reminds me of knocked up.  Here's hoping he isn't the only doc available when you go into labor.  

     

    One of the other doctors has to be better than this guy.

    Report Reply
  • pandaglitterpandaglitter member
    imagetaylormarie923:
    imagepandaglitter:

    imagetaylormarie923:
    I would already be on the phone with their office if I were in your shoes.  That is really crappy.  Make sure to ask who each appointment is with when scheduling them in the future.  Sounds like the PSR needs a CP.

    I did. My doctor isn't on rotation until June evidently, so I'd have to see some other random male doctor, which now I'm considering...maybe I should since I have so many hard feelings toward the first doctor and I don't want to see him...maybe a completely random doctor I can just fill in would be better, and I will definitely be careful in the future...I just figured that since I had made several requests, they would have figured it out, but apparently not. I just switched to another doctor at the same time...so at least I don't have to see him again.  

     

    This kind of reminds me of knocked up.  Here's hoping he isn't the only doc available when you go into labor.  

     

    One of the other doctors has to be better than this guy.

    Evidently the doctor I switched to never officially took over my OB case, so now that she has he won't be on there at all anymore...but I'm still going to be double checking things. Since this is a resident office and the L&D unit with this hospital is closing in July, I'll be delivering at the bigger hospital, which kinda sucks because this one is within walking distance...like a block away, but he won't be at the big one. :) It'll be whoever is there, which is whatever...My husband will be my support, I just need someone to make sure that everything is going well, my body can do the work. It's just the "just in case's" that make me deliver at a hospital anyway. 

     
     image
    Report Reply
  • pandaglitterpandaglitter member
    imagetaylormarie923:
    imagepandaglitter:

    imagetaylormarie923:
    I would already be on the phone with their office if I were in your shoes.  That is really crappy.  Make sure to ask who each appointment is with when scheduling them in the future.  Sounds like the PSR needs a CP.

    I did. My doctor isn't on rotation until June evidently, so I'd have to see some other random male doctor, which now I'm considering...maybe I should since I have so many hard feelings toward the first doctor and I don't want to see him...maybe a completely random doctor I can just fill in would be better, and I will definitely be careful in the future...I just figured that since I had made several requests, they would have figured it out, but apparently not. I just switched to another doctor at the same time...so at least I don't have to see him again.  

     

    This kind of reminds me of knocked up.  Here's hoping he isn't the only doc available when you go into labor.  

     

    One of the other doctors has to be better than this guy.

    Evidently the doctor I switched to never officially took over my OB case, so now that she has he won't be on there at all anymore...but I'm still going to be double checking things. Since this is a resident office and the L&D unit with this hospital is closing in July, I'll be delivering at the bigger hospital, which kinda sucks because this one is within walking distance...like a block away, but he won't be at the big one. :) It'll be whoever is there, which is whatever...My husband will be my support, I just need someone to make sure that everything is going well, my body can do the work. It's just the "just in case's" that make me deliver at a hospital anyway. 

     
     image
    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"