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Ouch, that hurt (pg mentioned, not mine)

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My husband's niece emailed today us that she is pg.  She included a picture of her u/s, saying that she is 8w 4d today.  The last time I saw an 8w 4d u/s, it was mine, and it showed us there was no longer a h/b.

 

I am so sick of life.  It's like one knife in the heart isn't enough; life has to pile it on.  Give me the close family pg, from the couple who last I heard wasn't going to start trying for 2 years (vs. my desperate failed attempts for the past 18 months); the u/s along with the email; the u/s date the same as my last one; and a due date within a week of mine....right in the middle of the holiday season. 

I know I am being a downer, but I so EFFING SICK of nothing but struggle and disappointment at every turn.

AMA.
BFP #1: 4/7/12. EDD: 12/2/12.
Growth on target with h/b at 6w3d. No h/b at 8w4d. D&C 4/27/12.
BFP #2: 2/28/13. M/C 5w1d.
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  • ashx3reneeashx3renee member
    (((((((hugs))))))) kmcp!
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  • caroeliz02caroeliz02 member
    I think we can all relate. Doesn't seem fair sometimes. Big hugs Hun. I go back and forth between tears and just being pure pissed off. I think it's normal? Then again not sure there is a such thing as normal.... ;
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  • Madelyn0713Madelyn0713 member

    ((hugs))

    It all sucks so much. 

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  • km_mdkm_md member
    ((((hugs)))) I know that feeling well, and it sucks. I'm so sorry that you have to go through this.


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  • alleycat39alleycat39 member
    None of this is fair. It plain old sucks. Sending you many big virtual hugs right now. Just know that you have a wonderful group of ladies here who "get it" and are here to show you support and care.
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  • mandiroomandiroo member
    I'm sorry. I've been feeling a lot of the unfairness this past week too. Hugs and prayers to you.
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    I'm so sorry HUGS
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  • nyg2042nyg2042 member
    I'm so sorry.  It's terrible how things seem to pile up sometimes.  I hope you feel better.  ((Hugs))


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    I'm so sorry. I want to send you 100 (hugs)!!!
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  • Poppy715Poppy715 member
    Lots of mobile ::hugs:: We can all relate. I think each if us have has to face this situation or something similar. It's so hard when it feels like all you get is kicked down.

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  • SuzyQq02SuzyQq02 member
    I think we all have these moments of "it's just not fair." Big ((HUGS)).
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  • jbasore1123jbasore1123 member
    I hear ya girl! I've had a lot of this this week as well. Sending lots of hugs.

    TTC since April 2012

    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

    6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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    Hugs!
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  • halfthetree halfthetree member
    Hugs to you, sorry to hear that life is being such a wench to you, I hope things turn around for you
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  • jenkellenjenkellen member
    I am so sorry kmcp :(

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  • WindyCity33WindyCity33 member
    It's not fair and definitely sucks. (((((((hugs)))))))

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  • heather52904heather52904 member
    [[[HUGS]]]

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    imagekmcp:
    My husband's niece emailed today us that she is pg.nbsp; She included a picture of her u/s, saying that she is 8w 4d today.nbsp; The last time I saw an 8w 4d u/s, it was mine, and it showed us there was no longer a h/b.nbsp;I am so sick of life.nbsp; It's like one knife in the heart isn't enough; life has to pile it on.nbsp; Give me the close family pg, from the couple who last I heard wasn't going to start trying for 2 years vs. my desperate failed attempts for the past 18 months; the u/s along with the email; the u/s date the same as my last one; and a due date within a week of mine....right in the middle of the holiday season.nbsp; I know I am being a downer, but I so EFFING SICK of nothing but struggle and disappointment at every turn.


    Unfortunately I understand feel you completely. Life has been MEAN to me lately too. One slap in the face after another!!

    Hope you have a better day tomorrow!!
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  • kr_rykr_ry member
    Hugs!
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     **BFP#2 9/12/13  EDD 5/16/14 changed to 5/27/14 after u/s, hb 126 on 10/11/13, miscarriage on 10/24.13**
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  • MamaWombatMamaWombat member
    (((hugs))) News like that just hurts no matter what, and those circumstances make it harder.
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  • Okiewife2011Okiewife2011 member
    I'm so sorry. I completely understand the amount of suck. Sending lots of hugs your way.
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    ~*6/26/13 hCG #2-238 @ 15DPO, Progesterone-28.15*~
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  • SerenlaSerenla member
    ::hugs:: I'm sorry, that sucks when you het news like that.



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
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  • SerenlaSerenla member
    ::hugs:: I'm sorry, that hurts a lot. :(



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
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  • SerenlaSerenla member
    I'm sorry that sucks, it just hurts so much. ::hugs::



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • SerenlaSerenla member
    Ugh, sorry about the multiple msgs mobile bumping can cause problems.



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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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  • doglover31doglover31 member
    Hugs things are definitely difficult sometimes!
    BFP #1 7/23/12: EDD 4/1/13.  MMC discovered on 9/4/12 @ 10w1d
    BFP# 2 3/9/13:  EDD 11/12/13 m/c 3/15/13 @ 5w3d
    RPL testing shows one copy of MTHFR gene mutation. 
     BFP#3 12/24/13: EDD 9/5/14 Beta #1 13 DPO 168! Beta #2 16 DPO 895!
     First US 1/9/14 @ 5w6d Strong HB!
    2nd US 1/23/14 @ 7w6d baby is still doing great! 3rd US 1/31/14  9w0d: Beautiful wiggly baby! Keep growing baby!
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  • samjen2010samjen2010 member
    I'm sorry. (hugs)
                               
                  
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  • mayoneggmayonegg member

    imagecaroeliz02:
    I think we can all relate. Doesn't seem fair sometimes. Big hugs Hun. I go back and forth between tears and just being pure pissed off. I think it's normal? Then again not sure there is a such thing as normal.... ;

    Yes (((((hugs)))))

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