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Fussy feedings continue

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I posted last week about DS becoming very fussy at the breast- and it's gotten worse as the days have gone on.  Thankfully he still managed to gain 3 oz between Friday and yesterday, but the poor thing wails almost every time I try to feed him.  No fever, no spitting up, he's pooping and peeing great and burping regularly. He takes a pacifier, so it probably isn't an ear infection that makes sucking painful, nor do I think it's the taste of the milk, since he's taken that a few times from a bottle just fine over the past few days.

I talked to an LC yesterday and though we obviously can't rule anything out, the lack of sputtering/coughing makes her think it's not a too fast let down and the fact that we can see milk in his mouth when I take him off when he starts crying make slow let down/slowing milk flow seem unlikely, too.       

I'm kind of at a loss.  I've made an appointment with the pediatrician tomorrow morning to have her look A over to make sure there's nothing physically going wrong.  Any suggestions on things I should ask about?  And just taking another stab at seeing if anyone else had had similar issues and if a cause was found.

 

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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    I cant remember if you asked about reflux or not... I really cant think of anything, obviously an allergy would be something he feels constantly.  Im at a loss!
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    imageShaungela:
    I cant remember if you asked about reflux or not... I really cant think of anything, obviously an allergy would be something he feels constantly.  Im at a loss!

    I think you suggested that last time and it's on my list of things to ask about.  Your DD had it- silent reflux, right?  Were there any signs/symptoms that you can recognize looking back?  I hadn't though reflux due to no spitting up and him taking the bottle ok, but I want to explore EVERY avenue.   

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  • bethLenellbethLenell member
    I'm so sorry you're not having much luck! I hope you get some answers soon!
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  • ShaungelaShaungela member
    No she doesnt have it, there are a few here that do though so you might be thinking of someone else.  I know one of the symptoms is fussy/crying during feeding.  But the fact that he takes the bottle without a problem is strange and may not be it... now im really at a loss lol
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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    No advice but I'd have your pedi check him mouth for thrush. It's the only other thing I can think of. Good luck!
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  • luvmyducksluvmyducks member

    My DD was the one with silent reflux.  She would take a bottle fine too--I think bc it flowed faster so she had to just keep swallowing...not really sure.  Pedi thought it could be bc I was feeding her at more of an incline when she drank out of a bottle.  

    For sure follow your instincts and don't leave that Pedi office until they help you.  I put it off for 4m knowing that something was wrong and DD was suffering the whole time :(  The great thing is, there really aren't any negative side effects to Zantac so if that is not the problem, the Rx won't really hurt him.  GL! 

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  • ProfessorPedals825ProfessorPedals825 member
    I have no advice but just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and A. I hope the pedi can give you some answers. And it's really good to hear he's still gaining weight.

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    Thanks ladies!

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