[[Hugs]]. I feel the same way. We still haven't come out, but have started to tell people as we see them. Everyone is super excited, and I am just terrified that something will happen and we'll have to untell. It sucks that it has to be like this. DH is much more optimistic, so I'm hoping some of his positveness will rub off on me.
TTC #1 since 6/08. Cycle #6 - BFP 12/22/08, EDD 9/3/09, DD 8/14/09 at 37w1d
((hugs)) we've all been there. I had a ton of "congrats in advance" comments from co-workers before starting to work virutal. It makes me squirm because I'm still worried something will go wrong.
TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh
BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!
Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we areTEAM BLUE!! Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
~*~AL Always Welcome~*~
I'm sorry!!! Something a friend of mine told me when I was freaking out with PgAL brain (she had a loss as well) is that "Most pregnancies end in babies"
More than likely you'll be fine, so try not to worry about it. I know it's easier said than done though.
(((HUGS)))
BFP 1 - March 26, 2012, MMC discovered May 21, 2012
BFP 2 - October 30, 2012, Rainbow Baby Boy born July 14, 2013
Missing Our July Sparkler BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13 BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
Hugs to you. I totally get it. I'm not at the announcing stage yet, but I know I'll have a similar reaction. I really liked what PP said about "most pregnancies end in babies." I'm going to try and keep that with me.
TTC#2 October 2011. June 2012 diagnosed with mild PCOS and both tubes blocked.
10/1/12 miracle BFP 11/12/12 missed m/c (9w2d), baby stopped growing at 7 weeks
1/16/13 BFP, EDD 9/27/13, m/c 1/19/13
2/12/13 BFP, EDD 10/25/13 Please stick little one
A stowaway on board!
Pgal is the WORST! We started telling people slowly this week 12 weeks but I told my DH it had to be only a few because I'm not quite ready to embrace it yet and I can't talk about it. Everyone we told was so happy and I was just like yeah let's see how it goes. I hate having that response but its a defense mechanism. One day at a time! I hope your Pgal brain gets "better" as time goes by for you and this LO. Happy thoughts and hugs your way.
I think you're allowed to react however you really feel! I know it sucks, and you want to be happy, but I think you'll get there when you're ready.
I really wish I could give you a big hug, and tell you everything's going to be alright. Well, I'm too far away for the hug, but I can still tell you everything's going to be alright.
Re: I hate you PgAL!!
D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
BFP #2 12/8/12, EDD 08/21/13 Our rainbow arrived 08/24/13!
I'm so sorry you are not enjoying the moment! PGAL brain is so unfair! Sending some ((hugs))
Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant
Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB
baby girl born 5/10/13
TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28.
IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!! Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!
Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl
TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh
BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!





Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
~*~AL Always Welcome~*~
I'm sorry!!! Something a friend of mine told me when I was freaking out with PgAL brain (she had a loss as well) is that "Most pregnancies end in babies"
More than likely you'll be fine, so try not to worry about it. I know it's easier said than done though.
(((HUGS)))
m/c: 9/06/12
LTB: 10/23/13
Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
TTC Since Summer 2011
BFP #1 11/5/11 EDD 7/22/12 MC 11/14/11
PGAL/PAL Always Welcome
We can't wait to meet you, our baby surfer GIRL!!!
Married my very own GI Joe May 2002
TTC#2 October 2011. June 2012 diagnosed with mild PCOS and both tubes blocked.
10/1/12 miracle BFP 11/12/12 missed m/c (9w2d), baby stopped growing at 7 weeks
1/16/13 BFP, EDD 9/27/13, m/c 1/19/13
2/12/13 BFP, EDD 10/25/13 Please stick little one
A stowaway on board!
***BFP 1-22-13, baby boy dx with Trisomy 13 at 15 weeks.
We let him go to Heaven on 4-27-13 at 17 weeks 1 day***
Oh sweetie.
*big hugs*
I think you're allowed to react however you really feel!
I know it sucks, and you want to be happy, but I think you'll get there when you're ready.
I really wish I could give you a big hug, and tell you everything's going to be alright. Well, I'm too far away for the hug, but I can still tell you everything's going to be alright.
*more hugs*
BFP#1 - 11/13/11, Natural MC - 12/24/11 at 12 weeks
BFP#2 - 10/2/12, Please be our rainbow.
Angel Baby # 1 : EDD 9/11/12, Missed m/c at just over 13 weeks
Angel Baby # 2 : EDD 9/9/13, m/c at 6 weeks