Late Term and Child Loss

Reaching out for some love...

Just having a bad day. Wanted to hear from some people who get it. I don't want to be at work, I miss my baby, and I'm sick and tired of people ignoring me. We work in the mental health field and some of my coworkers have no clue how to handle my loss, and so they are avoiding/ignoring it!! So mad, and lonely....

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  • Aww honey!! Tons of hugs to ya! I'm about to send ya PM if I can get this to work on my phone!
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  • ((hugs)). I am sorry you're having a bad day and that your coworkers are being so aloof. I mean seriously, google what to do when someone you know loses a child! It takes 5 minutes. Grief, especially child loss grief, can be so isolating. 



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  • HUGE hugs to you.
  • Sending you a ton of virtual hugs!! I am sorry that your co workers are so distant. I found that to annoy me more than anything else. Just talk to us ask us qiestions sure we might cry but we also may not. I get it !! Huge hugs!!!

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  • Tons of hugs being sent your way! I go back to work next week, and I'm hoping people don't ignore me. It would be nice to talk about something else. Hope your day gets better. 
  • So sorry. Sometimes the avoidance of others can hurt so much. 10 month later there are still days that I take for me. If I am having a day and I don't feel like being at work and just miss my boys, I try to go home. Big HUGS. We are always here for you, whenever you need anything, we get it.
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  • I have days like that too ((hugs))

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  • Thanks everyone....you help a lot : lots of love to you...

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  • I'm sorry I missed this yesterday.  I hope today is a better day!  Many many ((hugs)). 
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    So sorry. I also work in the mental health field and while I was on leave they were great, but my loss was ignored once I was back. It's a year and a half later and I have had the opportunity to do done education with staff because of other staffs losses. Just now I feel like I'm able to talk about it. I had much higher expectations! Hugs.
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