My DS is 4.5 years old. Up until about a week ago, he was the bravest kid at the playground - even if something scared him, he's take a moment, but then try doing it. Last week, when he was outside with our nanny, he said that he fell off the bike. There were scratches on him, no bruises.
After that, all of a sudden, he is petrified of riding the bike, going down a big slide and all the other things that he used to love doing just days ago. I'm not pushing him to get back on, and I have a feeling this will go away, but I'm wondering if I can help him in any way to get over it.
Today at the playground, he got up on one of the tall slides, and then it took him about 8 minutes to get enough courage to go down a slide... He finally did, while holding on to one of the side, and I'm really proud of him for overcoming his fears.
How can I help him?
Re: Scared all of a sudden
I think you are doing great. Him going down the slide, although scared, seems like a good step. I was very cautious as a child and DD is, too. It's a fine line between wanting them to try things, but not wanting them to also know that they should trust their instincts. I just try to remind her that it's okay to be scared, but that sometimes when you get help and try things, then you find out that they really aren't so scary after all. Some things turn out to be really fun.
PS when I was about 4, my parents were super frustrated with me b/c I was refusing to slide down a slide into a lake. I wouldn't do it, which wasn't unusual. In that case, they found out later that the slide was rusted out, jagged metal at the bottom. Thank goodness I didn't go down!