August 2013 Moms

Wish Me Luck

**Totally a Dear Diary post, but I have no where else to post it at the moment...

In an hour, I'm going to walk into my boss' office (at the job I JUST started) and tell her I won't be coming back after my shift tomorrow. DH and I did a lot of talking and number crunching last night, and it turns out, if we make some adjustments and cut out some things (like the amount of gas I burn driving 30 miles to and from work) we can work it out for me to stay home until at least through my maternity leave. If we find that it's working well at that point and we can manage it, we'll think about extending it. I'm so nervous, but I think this is going to be a really great thing. I am finding myself so physically and emotionally stressed with my job, that I'm seriously concerned about the potential effects on LO; I had 7 two year olds, by myself, for 7 hours yesterday. Legal, yes, but who the hell makes that schedule, knowing that your employee is 23 weeks pregnant and says "Yep, looks good!" Ok, random long post over. Wish me luck, especially that I don't angry/nervous cry- I'm going to need it!

Ezra James 08/22/2013  <3
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016  <3

Two Angel Babies 
07/03/2012
08/08/2015

"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."

Re: Wish Me Luck

  • Saying a little prayer for you! Keep your head up it's about your family not them! Do what's best for YOU.
    Married DH <3 : 7/7/12; 3 fur babies (2 dogs and 1 cat)
    DS born 9/3/13; DD born 7/22/15; LO due 5/28/18
    FS (age 5) and FD (age 2) to become AS/AD very soon!

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  • Oh gosh, sending lots of luck your way!! I absolutely hate confrontation too. But, just keep your little man in the back of your head while you're in there and remember that you are doing it for his and your benefit. Healthy mom, healthy baby. I'm glad

    "The cleaning, the scrubbing will wait til tomorrow,
    For children grow up, as I've learned to my sorrow.
    So, quiet down cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
    I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep."
  • You can do it!!!  Thinking about you and looking forward to the update, good luck!

  • I remember that feeling all too well. I can't even imagine trying to do it while pregnant. I hope everything goes well for you today and that your boss is understanding.

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  • Oh wow, good luck.
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  • Have you ever heard of FMLA? It family and medical leave act. You are allowed up to 12 weeks off of work and you are protected by that they cannot fire you. Just ask for papers and get your doctor to sign them. That way after your fmla you could still com
  • Good luck!

    On another note, 7!?!? The center I worked at that was over ratio (5-1 with that age). Not cool.  

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  • Good luck!! And that's great news about you being able to stay home for some time.  Best of luck.
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  • Sending good thoughts your way!! I just turned in my two weeks notice on
    Monday, final day being May 3, for similar reasons. Lots of unhealthy stress and for me it was driving up to 5 hrs a day transporting special needs individuals. The confrontation
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  • Thanks for the encouragement! It went well; she was mostly understanding. I feel badly that it may put her in a bit of a pinch, but it's just not a good environment to be in. I don't believe FMLA is an option until you've been employed for a year, but ho
    Ezra James 08/22/2013  <3
    Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016  <3

    Two Angel Babies 
    07/03/2012
    08/08/2015

    "If you're still my small babe
    or you're all the way grown,
    my promise to you
    is you're never alone.
    You are my angel, my darling,
    my star...and my love will find you,
    wherever you are."
  • imageJill9288:
    Thanks for the encouragement! It went well; she was mostly understanding. I feel badly that it may put her in a bit of a
  • Glad everything went smoothly!
    "The cleaning, the scrubbing will wait til tomorrow,
    For children grow up, as I've learned to my sorrow.
    So, quiet down cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
    I'm rocking my baby and babies don't keep."
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