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October 2013 Moms
Kay6519
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Goodbye to October board
Kay6519
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This morning we lost our little girl. I'd had some light bleeding and spotting the past week, but my OB thought nothing of it since it is fairly common during pregnancy. Late last night and this morning I started having bad cramping and more blood. We already had an appointment with a specialist to do the secondary analysis to confirm the trisomy results of the MaterniT21 testing; so rather than try the ER, DH and I just kept the appointment. The doctor said I was in the early stages of a miscarriage and suggested that I be sent down the hall for an immediate D&E. We off course followed his advice. I'd rather have a doctor be present just in case anything were to go wrong anyway. It all hardly seems real yet, kind of like a bad dream that you hope you wake up from... I can't help but wonder if there was anything that I could have done differently to change everything. DH decided on her name last night. He chose the Hebrew name for wildflower, Xhiva Nadal. You will be greatly missed little one! I just wanted to thank you ladies for being there and to wish you all very happy and healthy pregnancies! Best of luck to you all! Hopefully things will go better for us next time around. I think that I will wait a year or two before trying again. So far we have had three miscarriages, one each year since 2011... Maybe we just need to stop trying for the time being. Thank you again for all your wisdom and advice, and especially for those little smiles and moments of laughter. Goodbye ladies!
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Re: Goodbye to October board
October 2013 March Siggy Challenge: Favorite Easter Candy
TTC Nov 2012|BFP 1/27/13|EDD 10/9/13|1st u/s 2/20/13
Team Green x2 - Can't wait for our twosome to arrive
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BFP #3: 2/14/13 EDD:10/16/2013 (Please stick little one)
BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09
BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13
HSG: Right tube all clear, left tube inconclusive
3 failed Clomid Cylces
4/5 lap revealed blocked left tube, but right tube is open
April/May- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1= CANCELLED left ovary ovulating
June 1- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1 = BFN
June 28- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #2 =BFP!
7/12 Beta #1= 14 Beta #2= >5 Chemical Pregnancy
July-Nov long break to recover emotionally and financially
Nov 24- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #3= BFN
Jan 22- Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI# 4 = CANCELLED no response on right
IVF #1- Start stims 4/7, ER 4/20, 21R, 14F, 6 frosties, ET 4/25, 2 embryos transferred= BFN
FET #1- June 2012, Lurpon starts 5/27- CANCELLED
FET #1 take 2- August 2012, delayed until Sept-CANCELLED
FET #1 take 3- ET 10/11, 2 embryos transferred,= BFFN
FET #2- Transfer 12/4--Cancelled, no embies survived thaw
Next steps-- IVF #2 with new RE in March
HOLY SURPRISE BFP 2/15/13!!!! Beta 1- 286, Beta 2- 782, First Ultrasound 2/25- baby in uterus & all looks good!
Round #6- 7.5mg Femara+ .5mg Dex+ 75iu Gonal-F+ hCG trigger+ IUI=BFP!!!
Beta #1(14dpo)- 94 Beta#2(22dpo)- 1,619 Beta#3 (28dpo)- 11,396!!!
Just a Little Blog
I am so sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your husband.
BFP: 1.19.2013 - EDD: 10.2.2013 - It's a girl! 9.25.13: Welcome Addison!
R&K married 4.15.11. TTC #1 since 7.11.12
BFP #1 9.9.12 EDD 5.21.13 c/p 9.12.12 at 4 weeks 1 day
BFP #2 10.15.12 EDD 6.28.13 c/p 10.19.12 at 4 weeks.
BFP #3 1.19.13 EDD 10.1.13 Eleanor born 10.7.13 at 40 weeks 6 days
13dpo hcg@32, progesterone@13.7, 15dpo hcg@110, 16dpo progesterone@25.9
My blog:Urban Times in Michigan ~ My Bfp Chart
me:40; DH:41; 4/30/12 1st visit with RE; 6/30/12 IUI #1 BFN; 7/19/12 IUI cancelled (overmedicated); 8/2/12 IUI cancelled (cyst); 9/1/12 IUI #2 BFP! EDD 5/28/13; 10/9/12 1st U/S at 7w3d--missed m/c (trisomy 16) D&C 10/19/12; karyotyping results normal!; 1/31/13 IUI #3 BFP! EDD 10/25/13
Rylan 1/27/2011, 2:42 pm, 5lbs 12oz, 18.5 inches long
Ayla 10/02/2013, 10:14 am, 6lbs 14oz, 19.25 inches long
Missed Miscarriage 6w3d 3/02/2010
I'll hold you in my heart until I hold you in heaven.