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  • I am wrapping you in ((hugs)) and love right now Quig. I am so so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry for everything you are going through. I don't know what to say but wanted to let you know that I am thinking of you and your family. 

    When we had to make decisions for our babies, a kind nurse told me that one of the hardest pa

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  • You are so strong, brave and amazing. ((HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry you had to go through the protesters.  That's not what you need after all you've been through.  We know this isn't a decision you would have made if things had been different.

    I love the way you're choosing to spend the wee

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  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  And I will gladly come and fight those protesters for you...what a$$hats!

    I can't even imagine how you feel but you are a brave, strong woman!

    (HUGS)

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    My heart is breaking for you Quig. At the same time I am amazed and inspired by your bravery and perspective in

  • Quigley, I just don't have any words to express how sorrowful I feel - and how much I admire your bravery in sharing all of these thoughts and feelings with us. I hope that you can get through the week and begin to find some healing. {{hugshugshugs}}


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  • I am in tears here for you. I'm so sorry cannot describe what I'd like to say to you but really I just want to give you a big hug.
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  • You are amazing. Simply amazing.

    I am still so sad that you are having to go through all of this, but you are handling it with such grace, that I am in awe of you. I'm sorry you had to go through a line of protesters for your consultation ... Peo

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  • Once again I just read one of the strongest posts I've ever seen on TB. You are so loving and a great mother. I think you've got some great, healthy ideas to incorporate your son into your family over the next few days. You truly are so brave.

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  • Quig, thanks for continuing to update and for sharing your story, first of all.  I think a lot of people can't comprehend what it means to have to make this decision, and the fact that you're living it out in the open truly helps people like me, a

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  • Quig, you are such a strong and amazing woman. My heart breaks for you but I am so happy that you are taking some time to enjoy your family. Your little boy knows how much you love him.
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  • I'm so so incredibly sorry hunny *hugs* I'm in tears just reading this. You're doing everything right, I can't imagine being as strong as you're being right now. Keeping you in my T&P every day.
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  • You are so amazingly strong Quig. Your perspective is just inspiring. I hope that your week with your sweet boy is so special for you. Sending so much love your way dear.

  • Wow. It gave me chills to read this, I had to make that same decision with my son who had trisomy 18. The whole ordeal was a long one that seems like a blur now and there are so many things that you said that I can relate to...such as the part about not e
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    Oh Quigley I'm so sorry. My T&P's are with you and your family this week.


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  • You are amazingly strong, Quig! You have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be there.

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  • Your plans sound so beautiful. I will be thinking of you and your son on Saturday.

    I would have such a hard time walking past those protesters without giving them a piece of my mind. I hope they don't bother you again, as they have no idea h
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  • Hi Quig.

    I don't post here much but I have been reading your story and I just want to say how sorry I am for your situation. My heart is breaking for you and I cannot even imagine a harder decision someone would ever have to make. I think it's wo



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  • I am so incredibly sorry and my heart hurts for your family. I think your plans for the week and honoring you LO are very nice. Hold on to those memories. You are a great mom and your little boy knows you love him! HUGS!!!
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  • Quig,

    I can't imagine how much that hurt going to the clinic and hearing those protestors words.  I am so sorry you had to go through that on top of what you are already dealing with. You are so strong and I think all the things you want to


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  • I'm so sorry you are having to go through this extremely difficult situation, even though that doesn't even begin to describe the situation. You are so strong, and any child would be lucky to have you has his/her mom. I'm so glad that you have such a wond

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  • Mobile [[[[hugs]]]] Quig. My heart is still breaking for you, and I have such admiration for the strength that you have. I think the plans that you have for the week sound wonderful; what a beautiful way to spend these days with the 4 of you. Praying for
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    You and your family will be in my thoughts and I wish we could all form a human shield around you from those prote
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  • Quigley,

    The plans you have to spend special time with your little boy are so beautiful.

     

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  • I really have no words. You are an amazingly strong woman and my heart breaks for you that you had to deal with the protests from those people. So much love to you and many hugs. Still sending prayers to you and your family.
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  • Quig, you inspire me with your bravery and courage.  I am thinking of you every day and praying for you and your family.  Huge HUGE big hugs!
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  • Oh Quig, I wish I could send a million hugs and all of my love to you right now.

    You are such an amazing and strong mother, your son is so lucky to have you for a mom.

    I am so sorry about the jerks outside the clinic. I can't e


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  • Every word you wrote exemplifies your strength, love, dignity, grace, and even humor. You are incredible, and I'm so grateful that you have such a good support team. You will cherish these memories you will be making ALWAYS, and what an amazing mama you a
  • Oh Quig, your strength through all this heartache is incredible. My heart just breaks for you and I can't even begin to imagine all you are feeling. Thank you, again, for sharing your story. I am continuing to pray for you and will be on the 27th. Huge, h
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  • Quigley YGPM. I'm so devestated that you have to go through this. Please take care of yourself. You are a wonderful mama and brave strong woman.

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  • ((hugs)) I am so so sorry. But you are so strong.

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  • I am just beside myself that you and yuor family have to go through this. I am so sorry for you and your little boy.  And it hurts my heart more than you know that you had to deal with those damn protesters on top of everything else.  Wishi
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  • My heart is just breaking for you right now. I am so so sorry that you are having to go through all of this but I think you are one strong amazing woman. Your children are so lucky to have you as a mother. Everything you have written here is so beautif

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  • Big hugs, Quig.

    Don't let the protesters get to you. You love your baby more than they will ever know.

    I love how you've planned a special week to celebrate your baby's life. It sounds like a beautiful tribute.

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  • As I sit here typing I am having to stop bawling to spell check. You are such an amazingly strong and wonderful person. I can't imagine how you and DH and DS feel. I truly wish there was something I could do to make you all feel better. It is so unimagina
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  • My heart breaks for you! Huge, huge (((HUGS))) and many thoughts & prayers for you and your family.

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  • I am so sorry that you had to deal with those people outside of the clinic.  You DO love your baby.  I know this couldn't have been an easy decision, even knowing how sick he is.  But you love him enough to keep him from suffering. 

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    You are such a strong woman Quigley! What you are going through is so difficult but the true love you have for your little one shines through and the way you are looking at this is as positive as it can possibly get. You are in my thoughts and prayers.&nb
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