November 2013 Moms

Anyone NOT Posting on FB?

For mobile users: Anyone NOT Posting on FB?

Anyone else feel a little "eyes on me" about posting an announcement on Facebook? I won't be posting anything. I figure in time, I'll get outed, but I want my pregnancy to stay out of the public eye for as long as possible.
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Re: Anyone NOT Posting on FB?

  • Only reason we announced on Facebook is because we live in Japan, 7000 miles away from family and friends. So wanted them to know before a new baby appears in photos.
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  • We will be posting on FB but only after our families know. We definitely won't be putting up the sonogram though, we feel like thats too personal.
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    We aren't announcing on FB until after 20 weeks.  By that time all our family and our close friends will hear directly from us or through the grapevine and it will just be the not-so-close friends that would find out via FB.
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  • LuCloLuClo member
    I'm not either.  We'll probably put up a photo when baby is born, but nothing before and not much after. The people who are important enough to know also see/talk to us in real life. 
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  • I'm not sure.  We waited until 21w after our a/s to post last time with DD.  I'm not sure what I'll do this time.  I may just skip it all together. 

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  • We went back and forth a little on this one, but we ultimately decided that we are not doing any big announcements on social media. The truly important people in our lives already know, so casual acquaintances and anyone else can figure it out as we go

  • ky29ky29 member
    I won't be.  Not only did we struggle to get pregnant, but it hasn't been an easy pregnancy so far.  I'll post something after we have a baby in our arms.

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  • I plan to post something around 20 weeks, but I'll stay mum until then. I do have friends that I don't talk to much and it did clue them in last time.

    If you don't want to announce it go ahead. I have had friends that never said anything on FB, s


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  • With my first pregnancy we waited until 6 months to post anything on FB.

    This time around we decided to do it early (last weekend) since so many of our friends and family knew already we made a creative announcement and posted it ourselves before


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  • Someone ousted us on Facebook, so we felt compelled to respond with an announcement.  Besides, both of our families and friends live thousands of miles away so this was the easy way to announce to everyone we hadn't already told.
  • We might not.  We have an announcement that we did up that we will send to our friends who don't know yet, but I don't know if we want to make it facebook official or not.  The people that really matter to us will already know....
  • I'm in the same boat! When we tell our families we are also going to tell them to please keep the news off Facebook
  • I post weekly updates from tb and will probably post us and bump pics once I get farther along. My DH is active duty military so we are not only far from home but we have good friends and family everywhere! Obviously close friends and family will get sent
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  • I may post it when we find out the sex around 20 weeks. Maybe not at all. I just don't see the need.
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  • I don't think we will. To me, it seems really awkward to make a post about it. A lot of people do, and that is fine, it just isn't our deal. As pictures are posted from events, or if people who know say something on my page about it to me, that is how peo
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  • Sorry to be an AW, but if anyone is interested, here is the announcement we used for FB:

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    I crossed out our last name with the yellow.


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  • We're not posting publicly. I created a "baby" group to announce to because I haven't had time to clean out my friends list and had already locked down FB as much as possible. In the announcement I mentioned we weren't posting publicly and asked everyone
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